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cool46 33 Reviews 2147 reads
posted
1 / 18

How much are you willing to pay for a overnight( 8 to 12 hrs)? I’m just curious, I never done a overnight before, and just wondering what a guy is willing to pay, I know some providers who offer overnights want their own room and require x amount of sleep , which to me is really not a overnight!

inicky46 61 Reviews 81 reads
posted
2 / 18

I've said it before. I won't pay to watch anyone sleep or eat. And I have no interest in seeing what she looks like with "bed head" and morning breath. I'm sure she wouldn't like the way I look when I wake up either.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 93 reads
posted
3 / 18

I would pay around $2,000 for someone I really like, and used to do so, but I am a bit more - shall we say - careful these days.

 
By the same token, if I had the bank, I wouldn't be driving around in my nice but not so exciting Kia.   I'd be driving a lot sleeker and more powerful machine, but I take what life gives and make the most of it.

 
On the other hand, I know a handful of gals who like me enough to stay over with me for what I'd normally pay for a 3-4 hour dinner date because they enjoy it, or so it would seem.

 
I would not be interested in an "overnight" where she sleeps in a separate room, or bed, for that matter.   I'm a cuddle bug.

CurlyW-NatsFan 77 reads
posted
4 / 18

I usually don't do overnights as I can't sleep next to another human being. Too much anxiety.  

 
But I've had an occasional SB that wants to stick around and spend the night w/ me. Things are much different in SB world than P4P world with a lot more latitude for negotiations. Most of them aren't hardened sex-workers.  

 
Back to anxiety.. Yes, I take the couch if she is occupying my bedroom.  I just can't sleep next to a person.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 88 reads
posted
5 / 18

venturing into P4P, and you make some very good points about the reality of morning.  They are not nearly as attractive to me in the morning sunlight as they were in the candlelight of the evening before.  I quickly learned that I could get the feeling of an overnight with three pops if I booked 4 hours, and slept during the third hour before the last pop.  That's essentially what happens on an overnight, so I get the same feeling, but save a little money to boot.   When I'm making an appointment, I will usually disclose my plan, and many ladies have discounted the rate a little to allow for the hour of sleeping within the time of the session.   I don't ask, but if they offer it, I'll take it.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 67 reads
posted
6 / 18

You are just as likely to hear her fart in the middle of the night as she is to hear you.  Lol

CurlyW-NatsFan 74 reads
posted
7 / 18

A friend of mine had that sign on the door of his bedroom. He said it worked well with visitors..  

 
Sad thing... He had to give it up when he got married as his wife thought it was in poor taste.  Another friend of mine got  it before I could. He still has the sign along with a few neon light signs saying COLD BEER.

-- Modified on 4/29/2022 9:34:00 AM

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 74 reads
posted
8 / 18

I believe that overnights shouldn't exist. I (As A Provider)  would never consider an overnight with a Hobbyist. I do no more then 8 hours of service (Depending on what it is that we are doing for our session.

CurlyW-NatsFan 73 reads
posted
9 / 18

So you are suggesting they should be outright banned? By whom exactly?

 
And what did I tell you during our last weekend getaway that you shouldn't indulge in such blanket statements. Makes you look far less smarter than the beautiful, smart, sexy, sassy woman that you are.. xoxo

-- Modified on 4/30/2022 10:59:09 AM

chloemercier See my TER Reviews 88 reads
posted
10 / 18

is 3600 for 12 hours. I've done an overnight a couple times and it was really fun!! I don't require a sleep minimum since I think it's fun to have the guy roll over and play with me whenever he wants throughout the night ;)

My last overnight was a blast!! We played a bit in the hotel and teased each other. Then we went out to a sex club and explored each other in all the different rooms they had. My favorite was the bdsm room where he tied me to a tetrus and teased me before going down on me and giving me a few Os. We played at the club for hours with everyone watching us and following us to each room we went to. We really put on a show ;)  

Then we went back to the hotel to sleep a bit before playing with each other throughout the night - it was really hot! Overnights are my favorite.

Ericabc 16 Reviews 78 reads
posted
11 / 18

Care to elaborate why overnight sessions should not exist?  I can respect a provider’s personal preference to not offer the service, but for everyone to ban it in the industry is a bit too extreme.  I believe everyone has a limit and a price.  Some folks like me  make more money than we can spend.

CurlyW-NatsFan 74 reads
posted
12 / 18

Don't worry about it.. She's loose w/ words sometimes. I am getting these things fixed. Sometimes there is a gap in critical thinking. Sometimes a gap in thinking itself.  I get it.. I am on it..  LOL .

jpj 16 Reviews 72 reads
posted
13 / 18

I once established a relationship / rapport with a lady… we were quasi friends (I hesitate to say friends because there still was a business aspect, but we each had shared and knew many details about each other’s family and personal lives) and met regularly when I was in town for business.
One day I asked her about doing a trip together (I knew she loved to travel), and was surprised when she said “sure!”… so I asked about compensation, and was even more surprised when she said “whatever you think is fair”.
We did several trips together.. I took care of her transportation and she was fine with $500-$600 per day  … and the sex was amazing.

She’s retired, so don’t ask for her name.

Steve_Trevor 69 reads
posted
14 / 18

On a whim, I asked a provider if she’d like to join me for a weekend when I was on a long business trip. We didn’t know each other that well then but I thought we had a good connection, and I thought we’d have a good time. As in your case, I was a bit surprised when she said “Yes!”, especially when I found out she’d never travelled before with a client. She had no published rates for weekends, even overnights.  I asked her what she would charge, and she came up with a very reasonable rate that covered what she thought she’d be able to make if she stayed home… which wasn’t much because she didn’t work much on weekends. I also paid all expenses.

 
And we did have a wonderful time. It was several years ago, but I still know her (she’s UTR now) and the other day she told me it was one of her favorite memories. And she said she’s only done one other trip with a client.

 
It happened because her rate was reasonable, and because we trusted each other (we learned each other’s civvie identities during that trip—I needed hers for travel arrangements, thus I gave her mine).  I haven’t done any other trips like that. I was all set to fly to see a provider I know very well over a weekend in March 2020, then COVID-19 hit so that got scrapped, and now she’s retired.  

anony3274931 73 reads
posted
15 / 18

Did it one time in a three way on a king. So our third had to have all these pillows to sleep. We sent her to the guest room and I sent it deep to her in the morning. Overnight ?  She was reasonable compared to today lol.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 80 reads
posted
17 / 18

Cool46,  
The first thing you should start to list out what type of services that you want and search for a Provider that gives those type of services, then figure out what your budget is (The amount that won't break your bank).

SeductiveConcierge See my TER Reviews 96 reads
posted
18 / 18

If I am at home ( Las Vegas) my overnights greatly differ than when I am on tour. A fly me to you overnight more closely resembles an overnight at home. For years my Overnight rate was 1800. I wanted something reasonable as I really do enjoy overnights. I know that its industry standard to have an overnight for 8 -12 hours but I honestly have never spent less than 16 hours with any of my Overnight friends. I prefer for us to each have a goodnights rest and not be rushed in the morning. If that means we have to have brunch over breakfast that is okay with me. Its only been since recent that I raised my overnight rate. I don't understand why when my rate was accommodating I did so few and now I do way more at almost double the rate.  

I will say that overnights aren't for every client or provider. I enjoy my clients getting to know the real me. I am a crappy actress and I enjoy being open to an extent with my clients. If truly being a companion isn't in the providers nature then an overnight is going to feel forced. So I always recommend talking with them in advanced. I see plenty of gentlemen for extended dates having not met before. The only thing in common is that we have had an hour plus conversation prior to meeting. If we can't click on the phone then we probably won't click in person.  

Good luck with your overnight adventures.

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