Why are guys so hung up on Deep French kissing someone who is paid,and couldn't give a flying fuck about you personally? It's certainly not real passion. Do you feel like a boyfriend if you get, or give tongue?  WTF?  Snuggling?  You want to pay to snuggle?  Are guys  that pathetically delusional?

What about DATY?  Who wants to eat where 8 guys have already dined earlier, and 8 other cocks with latex, and lube have been?  Are you really spending your money to give the provider a good time? The myth that providers shower after every client is just that--- a myth. Most agency girls see 8-12 cocks a day. Don't kid yourself that a girl is showering 8-12 times a day.

The hobby is about FUCKING.  Pretending someone that just took your money is your girlfriend is why psychiatrists stay in business.

The guys hung up on the GFE charade are a sorry lot indeed.








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Are you having fun pissing everyone off tonight? You haven't a clue what you are talking about. You are making generalizations that have no basis in fact. If they are true for you than it's obvious that the people YOU are seeing aren't quality. If they were, you wouldn't be coming to these ridiculous conclusions.

What I find so interesting about this bozo guys and girls is that he hasn't a clue what he's missing. And........he'll never know.

Should we ignore him? I know I will from now on.

Anneke

piece of human flesh, to fuck, dump into and leave.

IMHO


I truly feel sorry for someone who is simply out there looking for a place to nut, with absolutely no connection to the other person at all.

I don't condemn you.  But I do feel sorry for you.



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Since my divorce I have been only pay for play, and you can think I am pathetic, and I can think you are just another MORON!!! I am very happy, and have met many wonderful ladies in the hobby. Is this for everyone, NO! Does it work for me, YES!!!

The difference between me and you is, I will not JUDGE you for the choices you make in life.

Jim

Conferrin' with the flowers
Consultin' with the rain

And my head, I'd be scratchin'
While my thoughts were busy hatchin'
If I only had a brain

I'd unravel every riddle
For any individual
In trouble or in pain
Oh, I could tell you why the ocean's near the shore
I could think of things I never thunk before
And then I'd sit and think some more

I would not be just a nothin'
My head all full of stuffin'
My heart all full of pain

I would dance and be merry
Life would be a ding-a-derry
If I only had a brain

Gosh, it would be awful gleesim
To reason out the reason
For things I can't explain

Then perhaps I'll deserve you
And be even worthy of you
If I only had a brain

.... full of anger and thoroughly misinformed.

I am not delusional and I enjoy the GFE experience, sometimes it is just a delightful illusion but that's not really much different than any one night stand in civvie land except that neither of us are drunk.

Other times some form of relationship develops, just as it might following a civvie one night stand. And these are delightful too whether it's an occasional dinner out, regular dating or intimate time off the clock. And in this case the word intimate is exactly right.

Too bad you are missing out on such rich, diverse and delightful experiences.

MH50

thanks you for your business

         But your reasoning in denigrating those who seek and offer the elusive GFE is what is really pathetic. If you are going to pay for sex at all,  which is the preferable experience – someone who convincingly acts like your girlfriend, or someone who supplies sexual services in a cold, sterile fashion.

           The drawbacks you mention have nothing to do with the girlfriend experience and are simply a function of high volume, not the type of experience offered.

        And there is nothing wrong with a little delusion, but we call it illusion -the illusion that a gorgeous, passionate lady is really turned on to be with an averaging looking man she has just met.

           You really should read Terrev’s most recent review to see how well the GFE works when offered at its highest level.

The scarecrow was the smartest guy in the movie.

You could learn from him.

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It seems all you would want from a provider is just somewhere to cum. If you just masturbate you could save yourself a whole lot of time and money and get the same satisfaction that you seem to require from a provider.

I like the "GFE" (however anyone wants to define it) aspect of a session. I don't want a REAL girlfriend. They take up way too much time, money, and attention. I could get the same thing from a civvie girl that I get from a provider, but then I also have to put up with the whining, nagging, calling me at work, bitching, and endless "what are you thinking" type questions.

I like kissing, sue me. But not many women will just allow you to walk up to them and kiss them out of the blue. I also like caressing and touching a woman's naked body, slowly and tantalizingly. Sure I like sex and fucking, I also like cuddling and chatting with someone laying in bed together. I would have to put up with way more than I am willing to if I was to try to get that from a civvie girl. With a "GFE" provider, I can get all that then leave.

If all I wanted from any provider was just to blow a nut then leave, I would just jack off and go to bed.

b-

You are one sad dude.

No Hope without a good head doctor and medication.

all of us.  I mean - you're here right?  seeking some sort of recognition and approval?  Why else would you post a blog on a site designed to promote dialog between Johns and Johns and the escorts who serve them?  

That is pretty pathetic.

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If you feed a troll, they will just come back for more.

Just another one of those guys,that can't get any nookie.....even if he paid for it....nobody wants him...."POOR LITTLE BOY"!

just to make you laugh! lol!!!  

and that would make me smile.!  

This guy posts just to get a rise out of people.  Usually they go away if nobody replies.. even to say not to reply.

Oh wait. [implodes due to paradox]

Those lyrics are copyrighted. Did you get permission to quote them?

please look again at my alias and compare it to the original poster.  My post was telling him that he is an idiot without a brain.

SL2, since it was satire, the copyright doesn't come into play.

I have a fulfilling marriage, and I have had good girlfriends in the past as well -- but, those are different from seeing providers.

For one thing, how can you possibly have as many choices otherwise?  

A very nice post - you've expressed a mature and nuanced opinion. I don't entirely agree, but that's not my point. Your post was well thought out and very open. I appreciate what you've had to say - it's brought this conversation to a suitable end, in my view. Cheers - Gregory