A thank you, or "had a great time" is always much appreciated. I often do the same, send a "thanks for the wonderful evening" email as soon as I get home. It just feels like a nice, polite way to complete the encounter. That and years of Catholic guilt perpetuating at a comically inopportune time.
Do hobbiests have thoughts on providers sending a thank you note either way?
I don't do this as a wham bam thank you mam. I like to send an email or text thanking them, if they are able to receive communication afterwards. I actually seek out friendships through this whenever possible. Some of my friends tell me it's just because I'm not jaded yet.
So, no I don't feel the necessity of thanking her after the date. In fact, it should be the other way around. It's a very simple marketing principal that escapes some providers these days
Yeah, absolutely! I am always grateful to my clients, no matter how unenjoyable the evening actually was.. As long as my hourly rate was met, it's all good. Customer service 101, been saying it since my ice-cream scooping days. Someone hands you a dollar bill, you thank them. Even if the dollar bill comes with 2 fingers up your a** and mouthful of sour jizz..
Once the play stops, the pay stops. Why would you want to make this more than what it is? Flirting Hobbyist: 1.One who flirts with a hooker, outside of booking an appointment, via her email or booking form. 2.a delusional male, who thinks a provider loves him, because she fucks him for money.
Well...call me a stalker then....lol. I (almost without exception) reply with a thank you. Hell, I always thank the person in the grocery store that helps me bag my stuff. I am rather hopelessly considerate. On one level, it's simply common courtesy.
But, with a provider, considering I just spent time nekkid BCD's a simple thank you seems perfectly appropriate (and is actually more genuinely intended than my thank you to the guy/gal bagging groceries to make sure sure my avocados don't end up underneath my gallon of milk). Jeesh....
When I close a real estate deal I thank the seller, the closing agent, and my realtor.
When I finish a court case, I thank the judge and my lawyer. When I cum on a lady's face I say thank you. A short note after a nice afternoon/evening is simple courtesy (if sincere). There is one lady I saw that we trade emails occasionally (maybe every other month?). It is not stalkerish on either part. I simply had a great time and she was a cool person. I think it not her just trying to drum up repeat business either, as I live 3000 miles from her. JB
is a client saying thank you. Yes, electronically. And proper business etiquette demands I say thank you as well. Electronically. (Most of my communication with my friends is via email.)
I don't think a sweet note from a friend is in any way untoward. Neither do I think an occasional note between engagements is. I have a lot of dear friends from my life in this endeavor. (That being said, I would never contact him out of the blue- I will only respond to his missives. Unless I am wishing him a happy holiday, which I would only do via PM here.)
Even if all vern wants is a hug. Are you paying for him?
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I truly work hard to be as respectful and aware as possible, when I was unaware is when I had problems.
As for the flirting thing, your losing me if your talking in code. I have never filled out a contact form or told a lady I love her. Do you need a hug Big Vern? I volunteer CPA.
Or did you purposely miss the words "immediately" after a session?
Why would I send a thank you email to the lady I just saw immediately after a session. The fact that if I conduct my self as gentleman, when in the company of a provider should be thanks enough
Why would you do this? IDK. to say thank you?...lol.....Why this is such a (perceived) problem for you is a head-scratcher for me.
My thank you's are immediate---or relatively so. Cripes. Maybe I sleep like a baby and respond the next day. So what? Who cares? You appear to be viewing this gesture as some kind of weakness. You have no obligation to say thank you....or anything else after a session. But, to say that those of us who do are steps away from being stalkers is more than a little hyperbole. Even if a provider absolutely hated getting a 'thank you' from me I know, for a fact, that she has a delete key, like everyone else......lol... Jaded much, Vern?
After a date (unless it really sucked). Most ladies respond with a thank you back, or a "you're welcome." some have sent me a thank you before I even had a chance to thank them, and a few have ignored my thank yous. (those don't get repeat business...but maybe they didn't want it)
I like to leave the hobby world behind the hotel door once it closes. ...and I have said on many occasions, I was born jaded. I can except that, and so should you.
And why did you assume I was telling him not to post? I wasn't. That would be pointless. I was just having some fun. No need to try to figure it out. Because you didn't.
If you feel there is no need to thank anyone, well, that's how you roll.
I say excuse me when I walk in front of people, I hold doors open for anyone who is carrying a load, I ask if a little old lady needs something from a high shelf at the supermarket, I say please and thank you when asking for something and when I have received something. I get that you don't but what I don;t get is why you keep infusing everyone on here with your brand of bitterness. bigvern, I have often wondered about the origins of your name. Is that because you're obese, freakishly tall or because you have a large dick
you ARE writing a tad bit differently Nickydear. Hmmmmmmm makes me ponder. I could always go back and 'quote' your posts...but perhaps I don't have the 'time' to achieve such a feat at this juncture
Do whatever you want. But this is a figment of your overactive imagination. I've been posting here for years. My history is an open book. So is yours. Can you spell BSC???
Certainly, with independent providers. Agency girls are a different story, of course, since there's no way to directly communicate. Even then, I've been known to contact the booker and express appreciation.
I was raised to be polite, and living in the snake pit of Washington DC has heightened my appreciation for a civil society. So a simple "thank you" seems a very reasonable thing to do. BTW, for the "I thanked her by paying her" crowd, consider that polite behavior is also smart behavior. Want to be the first notified of an upcoming tour? OTC time? A lunch date? A recommendation from the booker when your ATF pick is all booked? EVERYONE pays, but not everyone is polite. So....
Though I don't call the gas station. But if the guy (or gal) does something extra special I compliment them. I do call and compliment hair dressers, etc to their managers and tip them well.
You can be a nice decent guy but a (needy, difficult, demanding etc.) client. They are not the same thing.
I will spend OTC time with clients I want to keep as clients. I have all the friends I need and while a thank you email is indeed very courteous, it's the way a client is with me is whether he gets off the clock time. OTC time is a marketing tool and a way to keep the guys you want to keep. This how I determine who gets OTC time, and is different for every lady
A simple thank you shows that a man has a little extra finesse. Of course not everyone says thank you, but those guys thankfully have never booked with me. We attract who we want in our lives and I have been very blessed to have attracted mostly wonderful friends. Friends who say "thank you".
Do whatever you want. But this is a figment of your overactive imagination. I've been posting here for years. My history is an open book. So is yours. Can you spell BSC???
I think we are not as far apart in our opinions as you make it sound.
Of course you would not spend your time with "needy, difficult, demanding" guys. You would have to be a really strange masochist to do so. My post may have been worded differently than yours, but had much the same point. You say you use OTC time to "keep the guys you want to keep". I said "ladies enjoy the company of decent guys". Perhaps our individual perceptions of what comprises "decent" are at odds. Within this world, I think "decent" may be defined differently (or at least more narrowly) than the civvie world. Would you agree that guys that behave with you in a way that merits OTC time you may think of as "decent" guys (within the context of this world)? JB
NEVER...I think you would gather, I don't 'ever' do what someone 'tells' me to do if I don't feel like it, and I certainly don't 'service' ANYONE on any level as well Nickypoo.
Even if Mr. Clooney himself contacted me for a lil companionship (since he's a bachelor now) would I divulge into such habits. Now 'give' myself at my own accord with this gig, well now, that's another story. You see Nickypoo that's why I'm a bit different than the other ladies here. Call me BSC if you'd like, I'm actually flattered. Hell, everyone posting on this board is BSC, don't kid yourself, you'd have to be a lil insane to deal with the shenanigans going on here...lookey where we all are? Perhaps, we all have a screw loose somewhere to be here, well, at least some of YOU do LOL....and yes, I'm kidding. So.........now, when is our lil date going to happen hahahahahhahaha
You can have a really decent guy, clean, funny, a good conversationalist but a disaster in bed. Rough, grabby etc. The guy is sweet but his actions as a client would prevent me from ever seeing him again let alone OTC time
as soon as you clarify how much of my time you wish to purchase and then forward the required deposit (50%) to my Green Dot account. I do offer discounts to those women who wish to fly me to Bora Bora, First Class, of course. Have Schlong, Will Travel
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(That being said, I would never contact him out of the blue- I will only respond to his missives. Unless I am wishing him a happy holiday, which I would only do via PM here.)
