I ask because at 6'1 and a bit under 200lbs I consider myself to be kinda average.

But - the last six new ladies I've met - six in a row - have commented with obviousl pleasure that I was tall, and that I was lean or trim or thin.

I have to wonder what they are used to encountering.....

can we fucking help it?

Not everyone can be as cool as you dude.

"I consider myself to be kinda average." No, I think you consider yourself a real stud, better than anyone else. But us old fat fucks consider you just a dumb ass troll.

Here stud. Compare yourself to me with this recent photo I posed for.

the ladies seem to like you just fine.

And I was being serious in my question. It just strikes me odd to be complimented on being height weight proportionate. Even though I'm an old guy myself and not as fit as I once was....

There was an earlier discussion about rates and weights and charging by the pound. ("ATLHunter's quip "Jerkoffs whining about rates & weights" got me thinking. Posted by Hags,Bags,and-On-the-Rags, 2/12/2010"

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=369749&boardID=12&page=

The solution is to rate providers and clients by their BMI! 6'1", 200 lbs. is a BMI of 26.1: you're  overweight! (Healthy = 18.5 to 24.9)

I suspect that most hobbyists are shorter than 5' 10".   That's just a theory.

To expand your observation further:

Women (provider or not) REALLY judge a man's attractiveness a lot by his height.  Whether they want to admit it or not.  I suspect much of this is an unconscious calculus done by her limbic system.  To me it's actually kind of scary, but it's the god honest truth.  

I think weight and hair thickness are important too, but not nearly as much as height.

Maybe you should post a thread that surveys hobbyist's height with their shoes off.  Might be educational.

I'm probably the most prolific, self-admiring, stuck-on-his-mother-fucking-self person on the board!

And damn good reason, too!

I'm soooo pretty! Mmm, mmmm, mmmm!

I'm about 5' 9-10", 170-175, and 1000 pounds of attitude!

Kinda hard to deny it when you've been told how good-looking you are since you were 7. Know what I'm sayin'?

Sucks being me sometimes...!(sigh)

Oh well, just have to chug on and fuck some of the most crazy-ass, gorgeous, cock-worshipping ladies that walk the planet!

because far more often than I have mentioned in my OP, my height has been commented on.

You're so tall

how tall are you?

etc etc

and there has always seemed to be a bit of admiration in it

I'm only 6'1. I don't think that's much taller than average is it?


And I find that I like tall, graceful women as well.

Height you say -

I think you might be onto something.

thing your egoey are lather

I'm 6'1 190 and I can benchpress 250 x 10reps, wear a 44 sportcoat and 34 pants.

on the other hand I know guys who are 6' and 170 who are "skinny-fat".

The average American Caucasian male's height is 5 foot - 10 inches tall. If you take subsets by age, the average height can be greater or lesser.

Generally, the more recent or younger generations have increasing average heights. Also, our heights decrease after 50y/o as part of aging. 6'1" is quite above average even with age adjustments.

I can't wait to be fifty and have my height start to reduce. It will increase the penis length to body height ratio !

LMFAO

Don't know about how you deal with ego.  I kinda shrug off the comments I get from ladies ...maybe because of the fact I'm payin, and at the back of my head they may be just saying that to make me come back.  Here are some:

"Maybe I should be paying you. I really enjoyed our time together".

"Wow, you really gave me a morning workout" after fukin her non-stop for 30 minutes in all positions.

"You're such a good kisser." - my previous ATF

I had a provider I saw 2 weeks ago who ask how many times I see providers each month, and I said maybe 2-3 times. And she said she could be my regular. Again, I interpet that as nothing but business, but then (on second thought) maybe because she thought there was some chemistry, respect, and she wouldn't mind seeing me on a weekly basis. Who knows.  

... there is no such thing as an average woman.

Height competes with a number of other selection priorities.

duh typo.......   they are just lathering your ego

Unfortunately the truth is women hate short men and unlike someone who is 6'1" like yourself, meeting women isn't an option for a man who is 5'1" since even desperate women won't consider shorter men. This leads to loneliness and the only way to satisfy the basic need to be with a woman is to pay a woman. Sad but true!

how about Shoemaker (jockey) talk about short maybe a tall wallet

You do realize that's part of their job, don't you? lol

Go to a meet and greet sometime. Looks like an average cross section of the male population to me. It doesn't look any different than a typical sports bar crowd, but I doubt that any of us could work at Chippendales.

When I was younger, I would have sold my soul to have those dimensions.  The fact that the ladies you meet are complimentary...no surprise.  John Stossel ran a piece years ago on this...almost all of the ladies he interviewed said you six footers were preferable even if us 5-4 dudes were millionaires, and you were struggling financially ...only child molesters were excepted.  He was astonished...I wasn't.  It's that bad for short guys in civvie world.  Not taking into account the discrimination professionally, even my own family avoided playing match-maker, despite education and earnings, until recently, when it was far too late.  You are bringing out a deep-held resentment...

This is why I am all in with hobby.  Because it's a dollars game, I can compete here, be myself, and not have to worry about the bullshit that applies to civvie world...what a breath of fresh air!

you will only be sportin' sponge, not wood.

is gonna appreciate your using his picture for board purposes.


I thought he waxed his chest recently??????

I look like Johnny Depp!!!!

I'm 6'1 180 lbs...Thin and lean....I've had ladies commpliment me too...saying I was tall and thin...I try to stay away from the junk food...A steady diet of eating pussy, drinking water and eating fruits & veggies is my trick

I echo everything you say, Crazy Diamond.

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This just confirms in my mind that most of us hobbyists are mainly a bunch of bald, bug eyed, old farts.

That pisses me off because I love shorter, smaller men in the real world..in fact that is all I date. I am not attracted to tall guys nor am I attracted to muscular dudes(body builder types)..in shape yes but steroided out no.

I am 5' 8" and currently dating a guy 5'1"...way hot and the sex is amazing.

Me; 5'2" X 5'2", approx 225 lbs

Some of my own hair
Most of my own teeth
Work our religuously (Once every easter)


I lower the bar so all you "average" guys look better. You are all welcome. Send all donations to the "Pimp My Sofla" fund.

what I hear is that your "cute". Pretty even. A real self proclaimed bad ass.  Good for you.

What they say about me is that I'm GORGEOUS. Charming. Deboniaire. And a highly skilled sex machine. That I make them weak in the knees.

fucking the same ladies I fuck makes me want to puke.

As far as complimenting me, you bet I hear it. And I take it worth a grain of salt, for the reason you mention.

But I hear it from civvie ladies as well.

What's not to compliment? I'm fucking gorgeous.

damn comment!  It cums with the job, and the envelope!  But hey, I'll listen to it.  Much better than I ever heard at home LOL!

It sounds nice though for 5 minutes ... and you go back to reality that you're payin them to brighten your day.

She says that her preferred minimum for personal relationships is 6'2" with blond or light brown hair. I believe fact that I qualify enhances my standing with her, at least a bit.  

I doubt that I'll be sporting sponge after 50 considering my family history and current health status.

If I do sport sponge, then I'll just have to enjoy a sponge bath.

Hope you're enjoying the post 50 sponge life.

Please post your address for the "Pimp my Sofla" fund so I may direct my donation.

Thanks for making me look good.

you likely won't ever see this post mtonkin, but your assessment that "women hate short men" just isn't accurate. many women may prefer men taller than themselves, however this does not necessarily mean "tall," and believe it or not there are women who prefer shorter men. and regardless of preference, i think you would be hard pressed to find a human being, male or female, who "hated" someone based on height.

personally my preference is for men who are taller but not TOO tall...being 5'6", men 5'10" to 6'2" tend to most catch my eye from a purely physical standpoint. however stronger than my preference for height i have a preference for size...body size, that is. i would much rather be with a man shorter than myself who was of stocky build, than a man 6' and thin/lanky. this is because i like to feel safe next to a man, and delicate and feminine next to him. thin men do not give me that feeling.

so, everyone has their physical preferences, and believe it or not every single one of us will fit into someone's preferences.

HAHA i would like a piece of this too. Im 5'3 and about 260.