Every time my wife's period comes on she thinks I am seeing a provider. When I came home today she asked me "Who did you see today ?" She put her hands in my pants and rubbed my balls and dick. Then she sniffed her hands. At this time because of finances I am not even considering to a provider. It was almost like she was trying to catch me off guard or something.

When I hobby hard she thinks I am working late.

Do you all thinks she knows ?

yes

No, she doesn't know. You know, but she only suspects or may believe, but does not know. Unless, of course, she catches in the act or you tell her.

Sometimes I think there are times when my wife has sex with me just to, sort of, check and see how full or empty the tank is. If I have a hard time filling her up she seems suspicious.

You may want to tell her that you take her jesture as pretty exciting forplay, and you're ready to get it on.

dude.  she is on to you.

gawd am I gonna get whacked for that one!

I make sure that before her period is off or before I come back from a business trip that I don't hobby or jackoff. She looks in the rubber all time time to see how much the bag is full.

It might be from a experience at work. Years ago I went to a going away party. The girl from work gave me a nice hug and tried to kiss me. When I came home I had perform on me. My wife dropped my pants and gave me a BJ. After words she told me she was checking to make sure I did not have sex because she smell the perfume on me. I told her it was from the girl at the going away party.

tell her she wrong and that you're horny and want BJCIM...

Then she'll leave you alone...

and if she doesn't... are you going to complain???

about it as well. Better just to be honest, tell them that if they want you exclusively they're going to have to work a lot harder at it.....

feed her really well and she'll back off and leave you alone....

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During her next period pretend you are really horny and say you want to do it during her period.

She should leave you alone.

I know I can smell it when I have sex, and I can smell it on other people as well.  And others can smell it on me. I have been in line at the store on my way home from an outcall and I get the looks. I know i smell like sex. It smells so good!!!  I always worried with my SO about that. I always would shower b4 seeing him if I saw a client, he would know.

I love having sex then and my SO was not one to mind the mess. Its awesome I am so hony then.

the general consensus states, tell me if I am wrong...

Your wives don't....
Have sex during their period
have sex every day or other day or more than once a day or few days
no bbbjcim or swallow
no anal
seldom bj at all
probably no cg or reversed cg or doggie either.

what the fuck are you doing? Just missionary?
God thats terrible.
I always play nice especially in a long term relationship. I don't get it. Don't they like sex at all?
Its just a shame. They could have so much fun!
and you guys are horny so what gives?

I love having sex during a women's period, I find it so kinky. The problem is women who like sex during their period are few and far between.

My point for the gentleman was that if he made overtures to his wife during her period she might be convinced he is not seeing providers and he might even get laid as well.

There is also some reverse psychology in my reasoning. If he is cheating on his wife, he would not want to have sex with her during her period because he is "satified." If he wants to have sex with her during her period, then he must be really horny and not be getting laid at the hands of another women.

Remember, the gentleman stated that his wife specifically believes he cheats on her during her period.

Not me. She reaks to the high heaven when she is on the rag. We were both raised that a woman is unclean for 7 days during her cycle time. Her period use to last 7 days in the past few years it has gone down to 4 days sometimes.

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Do you think it is those pork skins she likes to eat ?

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Why do you think we hobby? That list pretty much defines my sex life. Never had a BJ in 30 years of marriage. Had 2 in an hour with my first provider.

Exactly.  My wife was so selfish and demanding in bed when we first met.  At first it was exciting, then it became a chore.  If I couldn't perform to her satisfaction, she took it as a personal insult.

I want to be with someone who at least acts like they appreciate me and want to please me.  That's why I hobby.  If my wife was even a little playful and was interested in making me feel like a man I'd quit hobbying in a heartbeat.

Exactly.  My wife was so selfish and demanding in bed when we first met.  At first it was exciting, then it became a chore.  If I couldn't perform to her satisfaction, she took it as a personal insult.

I want to be with someone who at least acts like they appreciate me and want to please me.  That's why I hobby.  If my wife was even a little playful and was interested in making me feel like a man I'd quit hobbying in a heartbeat.

I do know why but I still am baffled by it though. I have always been comfortable with my sexuality and my sensuality and can not see how anyone would allow themselves to NOT enjoy one of the great aspects of being in a long term relationship.  Sex is important in a  relationship, sensuality is as equally important as well. Too many people don't see this and they miss out on so much.  It's a shame. I guess being this way I will never get it from their point of view. Thats all really.

for me it's all in the one line "Your wives don't...."

Nothing. Nada.

C_K

of you for seeing other ladies....

Hormones do things to women's minds...  My EX was trying to drive me away...  her behavior became more & more blatant until I did leave.  NO SEX, except the day after her period.  

YOUR WIFE is suspicious.  Sure, women (and many men) can smell sex.  That said, be sure to shower, wash down there twice.

Meanwhile, if she has a suspicion attack, you have no choice but to turn the tables on her, so you better be able to get it up.  Remember you are horny, go after her!  I'd not let her get away with that (looks guilty as hell).  The best defense is a good offense.  Push her up against the wall before she can get her hands back out.  Do it in the shower!  Do it underwater! Sure, suggest she suck you...  Complain it's unfair for her to tease if she's not able to finish what she started.

And what if you can't (or are afraid you can't)  get it up?  What does she think you are, some sex machine?  An Animal?  Do slow sex on her until she begs you to finish...  by then you'll have recovered enough.

Not enough cream in the cover...  jeese, you barely make it through her period...  take long soapy showers...        

The whole point of this is to get sex.  As much & as often as possible.  If my SO would do Sx every other day, I'd not be ABLE to hobby!

NEVER admit hobby.  {OK, there may be exceptions but they are very rare.  My hat's off to those who swap, hobby, etc openly}

Enough, now I'm all horn dog...
skb

had sex... trust me... just no getting around that!

as to what to do... well?  I don't know... depends on what you want.

that I'm going to have to invest in some perfume to dab on so that my wife has sex with me to see if I've had sex with somebody else!

No woman, including my wife, is going to fondle my equipment bare without being serious about taking care of what she started.  Seriously, that's a pretty gross invasion of personal space for inspection purposes.  

Besides, assuming you showered after any hobby session and before you went home, the only thing she's going to smell is your sperm.  She needs to know that a little dribble occurs to all guys every day just thinking about women, and that's no crime against the marriage.  If she thinks it is then just lie and say you got aroused thinking about you.

On the way home from any hobby session, fill your car with gas and spill a little on your hands.  Then go take a piss.  The gas smell overpowers everything.  (Just don't light a cigarette.)

Drink a lot of coffee all day and piss a lot.  You'll smell like coffee all day.

im so sorry

every provider ive spent time with knows this is an issue for many hobbyist.  not to be a wet blanket but when asked if you have any special request skip the chearleader outfit and request no perfume or light or no make up.    p.s. provider will be much happier  with you if upon there arrival they are not asked to remove all there make up.