.. to make sure the wife doesn't find out?
i do the following:
- erase history on the browser (last 2 hours)
- use a separate junk mail account for any e-mails

I am trying to be very careful, since it is easy to make a mistake.

i don't like being sneaky, but I need some sex ....

Been there, done that. Erasing your browser won't get it done if you want to stay anonymous. Get the full package from a phone service company that has the name of a chirping bug and use a bogus name and address and it might work. Only pay your bill in cash and never never use a card. gf60

to be single.
I couldn't decide if i wanted to try the civee thing again, well, after the past few dates with providers, FUCK the civee thing.
This is the perfect set-up for a guy my age, that did the marriage thing ( 30 yrs ) and NOOO longer wants or needs the BS.
In the civee world, theirs no fucking model material, 25-30 yr old women. ( not at my age )
A big thank you to the ladies that provide, your services have their place in this world.

Just cause you're married doesn't mean you have to share everything!
- I have my own laptop
- I have my own email account - she uses Yahoo(!), I use Gmail.
- I don't give her any reasons to be jealous. Think about this one for a long time. You can't be "sneaky" because it requires telling lots of lies! Lying is not a habit you want to get into.
For example, don't say "I'm going to play golf" and instead go to see your whore. What if wife asks who you played with, what was your score, where did you play, how come you're not sweaty, etc. Too many lies!
You need to hobby at times your wife isn't looking for you. For me it's when I travel for work, or when I know my wife is going to be away for several hours. You could also hobby during the work day at lunchtime, or leave work early and hobby on the way home.
Minimize the lies!

My SO uses her own computer. She needs the password to use my computer, phone, and ipad. For the applications for the ipad and phone, I have an app called loctopus. That is an additional password to open up a specific app. For example, if she wants to view the photo, email, or any other app, she needs an additional password.

Absolutely no paper trail. I go collect cash money monthly from a few buildings I know. That way, when the bank statement comes in, everything looks as usual.

If you have your personal computer, I don't have the need to clear out the browsing history.

I did find a flaw in my computer system. This applies for the Mac users. I was on my desktop Mac, and the power went off for a few seconds. As a result, the computer went off. When I turned it back on, of course I needed a password to access my account. All of a sudden, all of the apps including internet browsers, word document, and other stuff magically appeared, as though the computer never turned off. It actually restored everything back to its original shit.

The reason why I mentioned this is, the internet browser showed I was still logged on to TER, my emails, and all that other stuff. WTF is that all about? Anyhow, that's some voodoo type shit.

Also, if you can afford it, get a separate computer. Nothing big. A tablet or netbook is all you need...and keep it hidden too. Password protect everything and no paper trails or electronic trails for her to find. The advice from the others is valid too.

Sucks to have to be so sneaky but I was there too. My ex wife's idea of regular sex was once every 3-5 years apparently. Needless to say I finally had enough and we got a divorce.

Good luck!

Correct.  Keep things as normal as possible.  No need to create possible traps for yourself.

This happened to me...
Before I hobbied,
I was a lousy lover,
then after 2 years of intense "training"
with various skilled providers,
my sex skills are much more better...

Then the other day,
my SO wanted to have some sex
and all of the sudden she stops me....
and asks: your DATO skills are so much better now....
WTF!
I told her that I learned a few tricks watching porn on my computer....
Good thing she doesn't know that I have learned for the best providers in my town!

A provider's perfume gets on a your clothing -- undies and outerwear -- and stays there. Fragrance is designed to cling! If your S.O. handles your laundry and she has a keen nose, she'll detect it, especially if the scent is expensive and outside the realm of her own fragrances, if any.  

You guys have two possible risk mitigators here.  

1. Shower after a meeting. Change all your clothing discreetly after you've left the venue. If you have to, change in your car! Handle the resulting laundry and dry cleaning yourself.  

2. Or you can request the provider well in advance to use no fragrances.

Every provider needs to realize that after splashing on perfume, it can take days for her to "air out" so that risk is mitigated for the married hobbyist. The best advice to you gals is to forget the perfume completely.  You'll be doing lots of guys a big favor.