For me the lesser dimension is better. I don't like pain nor do I like discomfort. The smaller the better...

Many posts in the past on this subject. Here is one that may answer your question.

But it you must know...take a cucmuber, and lube it up real good, then try sitting on it. Does it hurt?
We ladies come in different sizes and shapes. Some of us are shallow, and some are deep. Some can take it, some can't. After you try the cucumber thingy, then come back and tell us.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=12&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=Penis%20size&SearchType=1&DayFrom=90&DayTo=0&MessageID=241110&frmSearch=1

So now our sexual preferences can all be lumped together?  The new survey says that as opposed to civvies who like their tools x-cirumfrence by y-length, providers like theirs...

Get real.

Oh, and stop worrying about what "we" like.  Do you think any lady (as an individual, since their own preference is all any of us ladies could speak about...) wants to negatively impact her business by fessing up that she's a size queen, or that she only really likes the tiny fellows?
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These threads are about as useful as Monopoly money in the real word. We should have a moratorium on this topic for 6 months. Not trying to be an ass, but why do I get the feeling it's always the small guy starting these threads. Also since people hate aliases, threads of this nature are a magnet for them. You are not going to get an honest answer any way, so why post. And some ladies will avoid the oversized. For obvious reasons I would think the smaller the better. The grass is not always greener, trust me.  Periodically having a session of main event cut short, being denied other fetish that other ladies post as their specialty. Be a gentleman, freshly showered & correct donations that’s what really matters.

the week before my 'vacation' the bigger the better.

the rest of the time, the smaller the better.

medium is always fine.

my finger works best.

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"Average" is average for a reason. Natural selection really does work. If gargantuan really was the size of choice, then your average male would be tripping over himself. But he isn't. There is a reason for that.

To put it bluntly, a huge cock HURTS. We have this thing called a cervix, and it hurts like hell when you hit it. So a nice 4-5 inch penis is dandy, a 6 incher is great, but anytying more becomes problematic. Also, some sexual positions allow for much deeper penetration - legs on the shoulders, doggy, etc, and these positions are difficult or even impossible with a particularly lenghty member.

In terms of girth, the more the hoo hoo is stretched during intercourse, the faster the hoo hoo dries out. So when a guy has an anaconda down there, bring lots of lube or things will get really un-fun really fast.

A nice average sized member on the other hand is perfect. Things stay nice and juicy much longer, and you can pound away to your heart's content without having to say "oops, was that your cervix or the back of your throat that I just hit?". Not to mention there are no issues with certain sexual positions too, so the games are limited only by the imagination of the players invovled, and I for one have a very creative imagination.

The most attractive bulge in a man's pants is not in the front of his pants but in the back (as in the "back pocket" i.e. the wallet)

i need variety in my erotic life, one of many reasons why i could never be a monogamous person. i like many different kinds of men, and many different kinds of cocks. i like thinking about how on monday i'll be seeing a gent on the smaller side who knows how to use his tool perfectly and will keep me in a constant state of sexual yumminess, and how on wednesday i'll be seeing the gent who's so long and thick that it takes a minute or more for him to fully penetrate me and will have me sore for days, and how on sunday i'll see the gent with the extra long but very narrow tool who slides himself down my throat so nicely.

it's all good imo, just as long as there's not too much of the same.