if so, what makes it obvious?

& she thinks it's this !

I see we're getting the MNSA questions today---

Why would you take the chance of choosing one who was inexperienced? Do you not understand how the reviews work?

In one exteme, the person can be very withdrawn and have either an anguished or vacant look about them.

On the other hand, they may over compensate by being very aggressive and take charge.

In both cases, the missing element that comes with experience and self confidence is the ability to relate to and empathize with the client.

The experienced gals do that well, and do that every time.

but she'll still drain my oil!!!!

about not getting a lady who was experienced enough to rock his world. If one has limited time and resources, it seems the best approach, to make certain you're getting what your looking for is to read the reviews of the lady that catches your eye.

It is on topic. And something she is curious. I guess we may be getting some MENSA answers.

Like when the lady is nervous and shy, or when  she looks at her doubles partner for guidance.

Reviews are just the easiest way to make sure she is legit. I have seen a few first time ever ladies and one turned out every bit as good as the experienced ones, better than most. As for the other one that didn't turn out that well, the lady who asked me to break her in made things right. So to answer your question, "Why would you take the chance of choosing one who was inexperienced?" Why not if you can verify she is on the up and up. It is fun giving a lady her break. As for your question, "Do you not understand how the reviews work?" Yes, I do.

P.S. I did not review the good one as she asked me not to as she was not sure this was for her. As for the other the date never really happened. She seen how fat I am and walked. No date, no review.

Read her post on the newbie board. I advised her to post to get known.

I think some people here would be fucking surprised at the scores...

You're honest.

You don't pull any punches, and you have a self-deprecating sense of humor. You even talk shit about yourself, weight-wise. Sounds like someone else we know and his admitted drinking....

You're straightforward about your marriage with a provider, hate it, but you live it. You do it for her reasons, and forego your's.

People here would freak the fuck out if they knew what I knew. Your personal life, what you did and what you're doing. And where you are professionally.

It was a good night when I contacted you and said 'Hey. You have a weight problem. I have a drinking problem. Let's talk.'

You accepted and we've been buds ever since. Thanks, man.

who she said I would like and that other gents raved about.  Well, it was a bunch of BS.  She had trouble carrying on a conversation since she was so nervous.  It felt like I was teaching her all about the biz.  I never went back to the agency let alone the same girl.

On the other hand, seeing a man who is "new" to this whole sphere can go either way.  Either he's easily lead and can fully appreciate the experience that is about to happen and just goes with the flow ... or his nervousness just tends to ruin the moment.

If a woman is experienced, she can guide him and turn that attitude around.  If the lady is also new, I could see the experience being possibly devastating with both of them just flailing around and not really knowing what to do.  Except, well what to do!

Interesting question.  In Dallas, there seems to be a lot of men who like their women new and inexperienced.  I always appreciated someone with experience.  I've always preferred a lover who was more experienced and smarter than I am.  And more worldly.  Him guiding me is a joy.

Sigh.  That doesn't happen near frequently enough!

Warm hugs,
Elisabeth