Some of you guys are crazy for doing those appointment forms anyhow.

I am sure when she is hungry, or the bills need to be paid she will send you a love letter.

she might have gotten some uncomfortable vibes from your information and email, and this her way of letting you know, she isn't going to see you.  I would probably assume that and move on.  After all, there are plenty of others out there.  And, if she contacted me 6 months later trolling for a date, I would likely ignore her.  It would seem like, as the previous poster said, now she just needs the money, and doesn't care who she sees.

Swim

Can I just sound off???  Saw that a provider was visiting next week and filled out her appointment form on her website (this was last week).  Never heard anything back from her.
Emailed her to verify if she received my appointment request.  Never heard anything back from her.
If a provider doesn't want to see me for whatever reason, could she at least respond in some way to my request so I can make other plans????

Sometimes you wonderful "hobbiests" eff up, too! At least you haven't lost anything from this. Some of us girls need to pay for childcare, transportation and hotels for incalls. How do you you think we feel when someone cancels on us last minute and we lose anywhere from $50 to a few hundred dollars? That "$50 to a few hundred dollars" may be needed or would have just been spent better on something else.

Keep calm and carry on!

Well, that cost extra!  Didn't you know that?

...filled up so she saw no need to respond. It's bad PR and business practice. She might have a cancellation and could use you as a pinch hitter. Anyway, it's her loss; don't bother trying to see her again.

omg  some providers are just unreliable.   you win some you lose some!!!

There could be a bazillion reasons and there's no way to know.  Don't personalize it.  Just move on.  There are lots of fish in the sea.  I've had one girl I'd really like to see whom I've contacted three times.  Not once has she responded.  I'd still love to see her and may, just may, try her one more time.  But I'm not getting my panties in a bunch about it.  If I don't hear from her I just contact someone else.

It's their job, fool. If she doesn't want your business, she won't answer your request.

How many ads do you get in email and you delete? Or circulars in your mailbox at home and you throw them away?

You don't want to give them your money for their goods or services, yet don't tell them to stop.

Why should she be obligated to give you an explanation why she doesn't want your money?

Look at all the guys that are willing to make an excuse for her action.  She has no incentive at all to be responsible.  If you do hear back from her at some point, remember how she treated you the first time.

Maybe she is busy or on vacation..  How kind was your second email?  Occasionally i miss emails.  I happen to be fantastic in bed but am severely lacking in EMAIL communication skills.  However, if I sense a pissed off person at the other end of the email - I don't answer.  I've actually missed a first email and gotten a second that simply said "WELL?..."

My question is..  What kind of response would suit you and not make things worse?  Let's say, she thought you were too explicit in your email.  Or too crisp..  Cold business-like (not sure how to explain it.  Certain emails seem too sterile for me.  Reminds me of a girl's story of a client walking in with a pad and paper- taking notes of everything...  Just weird)...  A simple "not interested" would suit you better than silence?  One thing to remember is that we providers have to listen to our instincts AND do our darndest to not rub anyone the wrong way.  I've been threatened with bad reviews, etc for not seeing someone.  So you can see why I'd be hesitant to send such an email..

I kinda treat this hobby as a dating site- not simply business.   Attitude is everything to me.  I do try to respond to everyone but  sometimes we get busy in life and miss emails.  No big thang, baby.  If we are both in the moment, send emails, check references, and have a wondrous date.  If I miss your email, don't resent me.  Either send another email or make a date with a different girlie.  

Relax, enjoy!!!!!

The ball is in her court, and if she doesn't answer. it's on her.   Best suggestion: make other plans that suit your schedule at this point with other ladies that do answer.  Don't dwell on it with ladies who don't respond...

You can rub me the wrong way any ol' day!  

Where would we be without you wonderful ladies?