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You should *always leave* if she insists on starting a session in darkness.
zinaval 7 Reviews 1638 reads
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Always *insist* on looking at her in the light first.  Some reasons I could think of are innocent, some are rip offs, some are plain dangerous.  One thing that worries me here: Why would she not want to see you in the light, too, before things start?  Especially on a first session!  As far as she knows, your suffering from ebola, rabies and the plague.    

The way she deflected your request like it wasn't reasonable also concerns me.  Here are things I could think of:

1) Bad birthmark, muddled tattoo, recent incision, a scar from an exploratory, a zit outbreak, all agreeing with Mr. Fisher.  Innocent enough.

2) Maybe looking in a guys eyes while having sex is far too personal for her.  Innocent also, but really unlikely.  So what? Turn the lights on first, then off when things get heavy.    

3) Maybe she has needle tracks, a herpes outbreak, or genital warts (Fucking scary!  Get yourself checked, immediately!)

4) She had a dental accident and her front tooth is gone. (Okay, innocent, but then she doesn't have to smile when the lights are on).

5) Maybe her SO has beaten her. (Okay, even if seeing this might spoil the whole session, you still have a right to see her and go from there.)

6) Maybe she doesn't look like the woman in the pictures because maybe she isn't. Always a good reason to keep you in the dark.

You could honor her request for dim lights, but don't go there till you've seen her under proper lighting.  

arp17013023 reads

So I go to see a provider.  Not my first time in general, but my first time with this particular woman.  Now, I'm a lights-on kind of guy.  Not into the darkroom.  I choose a particular woman partly for her beauty so when I see her I would actually like to SEE her.
Now I've gone into rooms before when it was dark and the providers always honor my request for the lights being on.
Until this one.
When I walked in, the bathroom light was on and the door was open, but other than a small candle that was it, and it's nighttime, BTW.  So I asked her if she would mind turning the lights on.  She seemed surprised and said, "Hell yeah, I would mind."  Not harshly mind you, she said it with a laugh.  She then aksed me (half-jokingly, I assume) if I wanted to check out the room incase someone was going to jump out or something.  I explained what I just said before but she flat refused.
Has anyone run into this before?

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mrfisher1443 reads

but I suspect that there was some blemmish on her body that she was very self-conscious about but no one will really know but her.

Just consider it one of those things.

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BizzaroSuperdude1025 reads

Can't take another Ron Jeramy look alike... lol!

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atl_mgr1033 reads

It's his hard-earned dime.  If he wants the lights on and she won't comply, he should walk and look elsewhere (where he can see) - end of story, adios.  There will be another gal around the corner just as pretty and a whole lot more accomodating.

No room for prima donnas in this biz.


pri·ma donna
n.  
A temperamental person; a person who takes adulation and privileged treatment as a right and reacts with petulance to criticism or inconvenience.

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Monica19621393 reads

any lady meeting a new gent without being able to see him. I like to know what my mouth is touching, as well as the rest of me. I like low lighting myself but there is always a lamp as well as candles.

The first thing I was taught was to look for sores and blisters. I know it sounds weird but it is a definate safety concern.

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stilltryin251600 reads

I have experiences with lights out ladies. I too am a lights on guy. I have had some refusals toturn lights on, but few. Most ladies that I see now are highly reviewed and tend to use lighting creatively. I am seeing lights out but plenty of candles placed in a way to provide soft light and allow me to see the lady's features and enjoy them.

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frostyballz1446 reads

I'm definitely a lights on guy also. In fact I prefer it be well lit so I can take in the view...lol

I would leave if such a thing ever happened to me.

If I was going to do it in the dark I'd just hire Ms. Palmer :)

-- Modified on 1/20/2007 7:51:12 PM

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zinaval1639 reads


Always *insist* on looking at her in the light first.  Some reasons I could think of are innocent, some are rip offs, some are plain dangerous.  One thing that worries me here: Why would she not want to see you in the light, too, before things start?  Especially on a first session!  As far as she knows, your suffering from ebola, rabies and the plague.    

The way she deflected your request like it wasn't reasonable also concerns me.  Here are things I could think of:

1) Bad birthmark, muddled tattoo, recent incision, a scar from an exploratory, a zit outbreak, all agreeing with Mr. Fisher.  Innocent enough.

2) Maybe looking in a guys eyes while having sex is far too personal for her.  Innocent also, but really unlikely.  So what? Turn the lights on first, then off when things get heavy.    

3) Maybe she has needle tracks, a herpes outbreak, or genital warts (Fucking scary!  Get yourself checked, immediately!)

4) She had a dental accident and her front tooth is gone. (Okay, innocent, but then she doesn't have to smile when the lights are on).

5) Maybe her SO has beaten her. (Okay, even if seeing this might spoil the whole session, you still have a right to see her and go from there.)

6) Maybe she doesn't look like the woman in the pictures because maybe she isn't. Always a good reason to keep you in the dark.

You could honor her request for dim lights, but don't go there till you've seen her under proper lighting.  

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Lisa Real1188 reads

- One as mentioned before is for vanity reasons.

- Secondly she could have been worried you were LE with a pocket camera meeting her for the first time.

She chose dimly lit since most videocameras dont work in dim-lit areas.

xo Lisa

-- Modified on 1/21/2007 8:05:27 AM

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Lisa Real1964 reads


Then that qualifies under answer #1 that the lights were dimly lit for vanity reasons.

xo Lisa

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Ruby4U1639 reads

a client comes to my incall and prefer such when I arive at his location for outcall. When it is time for more relaxed atmosphere I will dim lights but still keep on enough that I can see. I like to make sure there is nothing yucky going on south of his border and in total dark 1 candle is not going to provide adiquate lighting. (No I am not clinical when I check things out but it is a bit of a look while I play around before I.......)
Like other ladies I am not too fond of bright lighting for 2 reasons. 1 sorter lighting is much more to the mood for gfe. 2 I do not want someone bringing in a camera and taping a session LE or just for his own jollies. (If I wanted to do porn I would have done so long ago)

Now I do have some regulars who prefer full lighting and as there has been a certain level of trust established there that is ok with me after all I am also a visual person and love the male body in all it's forms.

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