Since texting is our primary form of communication with Providers/SBs, here are few things that I've picked up along the way.  Feel free to add your own suggestions:

1.  Don't ask a question when you can make a statement (avoid the question mark)

Weak:  "Can we get together tomorrow?"

Confident:  "Lets get together tomorrow."

2. If she doesn't reply to your text, don't send another text.  Her answer is no.

3.  If she sends you an angry text, don't reply to it.  Your 'no reply' sends a strong message:  I don't need you.    

4. When a provider texts you out of the blue for another appt:  Whether your answer is 'yes' or 'no', be a gentleman.  

5.  You're unhappy with your ATF/SB, and she hits you up to meet again.  Your reply:
"I've made other plans."  Translation: I'm fucking another girl now.  

6.  Never mention another provider or SB.  See Item #5.  

7.  The best way to handle a fight with your ATF/SB is a combination of Item #3 and Item #5.  I used to drive my  ATF into a white-hot fury with that combination, lol.   She'd usually win in the end--I'd eventually see her again.  But I'd make her wait...and she'd have to contact me again.  But make-up sex is always fun.  

--z

...drama I hobby to avoid. #3 on down sounds like the stuff the hobby is intended to avoid. I won't be taking advantage of this info. I recommend newbies stay away from it too.

#1 & #2 are good.

(Sexting might be a different story, however 8o)

Even with a clamshell phone that has a full keyboard, it is hard for my big fat fingers to hit the right keys, and manipulating the shift keys to get the right punctuation is a pain.

When I do get a text, I wait to responsd until I'm at my computer where I can touch type like God intended us to do.

By the way, when you do want to make an appointment, give exact specifics like when and how long, as well as where; or she will be turned off.

...of truth in them. To each his own on how they do this.

As for my standards. I'll let my reviews speak for themselves.

Where your coming from tho,in fact I was roflmao when I read your thread.I am deeply in your debt for sharing that insight,while it's prolly not newbie related as xyz points out .I have already copied & pasted for safe keeping.

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If you got this sort of thing going on... I wonder if you know how to drop a gal and move on. A good provider wouldn't give/get this sort of drama you speak of, nor would they beg for you to come back.

Newbies, if you follow this sort of mindset/behavior, expect to not have much luck with the Quality ones. Same is said if you are getting this BS from her, move on. Never know what it will escalate to. Suppose to be in this for fun not some psycho game playing. Quite a number of guys get blacklisted for weirdo behavior such as this and then good luck finding a decent gal to see.

To clarify.....Some of your numbers are fine, but #5 and #7 shouldn't be going on. Sounds like a crazy.

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No one should be using a phone for this 'business' that is on them at all times. It should be a hobby phone that you either turn off or leave at the office, until YOU are ready to play again, not until she is ready for more cash.

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I don't text to make appointments either, however, texting usually comes into play when getting room #s and locations. I prefer email for making appointments as I usually book in advance.

1)  Confident is fucking her in the ass when she wasn't expecting it
2)  She can't reply to my text while bound..and gagged
3)  An angry text means that she is OK with tickling
4)  Texting me out of the blue...as long as she's paying we're all good to go
5)  Again...as long as she's paying me
6)  Why not...is this some type of marriage.  It's P4P moron
7)  Best way to handle a fight is to not get involved in the drama you're suggesting be created.

Nice bash on Amber asswipe.  You would be lucky to have a sweetheart like her meet up with a moron like you.

Safe on the newbie boards?  Not when you invade with your blatant stupid remarks asshole.

and I am not perfect, but my reviews speak VOLUMES about me and what kind of a person I am.

I might be reading this all a little goofy but....did I just see CPA take....a....take a....ahhhhh...a hoo.....a hook...a hookers side against a Johnny boy??? Is that what I just saw? Omg, CPA going soft on a "hooker"??? What's next, a one on one sauna swim with Hound and telling Saturn he loves her? Amber just tell me I'm liquored up and that everything I know about the world is still the same please! For if not, that fkin meteor with Earths name on it is just a mere 5-10 minutes away!!!!!!

Had to join forces with Uranus..or maybe my anus...whatever.

Zangari is a bitter old man rampaging on hookers.  Piss on that noise since he attacks those that aren't on any pedestal.

But he runs away like the scared little man he is to tell his Mommy that mean CPA is here.

Guess TER knows you're not a newbie.

Also that you're a scary troll.

Maybe sugarland will let you post your fiction on their site?

PLEASE go there and get some better material.

It's fun to stop by once a week and see what's going on......and to find it's the same old bullshit.

Chgo...you need a fucking life outside this shit.
You used to offer some real value, but now you're just obsessed. Aren't you the guy who proclaimed loud and proud that he hated this place...was going to support others...and wouldn't come back?
Well I guess a handle change or two fixed that. lol.
It's no fun for anyone to see your downfall into the vortex of crap.

This concludes my perusing of the board for 10 minutes a week. Going back to real life.
You should try it sometime. LOL.

Or so I hear.

And you never disappoint with your insane drivel.

Just checked under your bed too.  Your Mom said that your nightmares have gotten worse.  

All clear there and the closet.  Don't forget to set your clocks ahead tonight!

Guess those voices are screwing with you.

Early bedtime tonight sonny boy.  No more surfing for porn...it's stunting your development.

We'd like you to be a productive member of TER one day...so eat your veggies and get enough sleep.

It's a bitch here without you!

I guess your hooker gal pal was older than you?

Oh sorry...I meant sugar baby # 121

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You can even make it kinky by telling us this was with sb #119

Saturnsky is fun...so is hotplants.  Heck...even that Taylor Steele hooker is a fun read.

This guy must be getting censored by his Mom.  Even she is sick of his blogging fake sugarland updates.

Meet us at the hot tub in Milwaukee with sexyAmber and the rest of the gang.  

Bring me that dress and I'll model it for you.  BUT only if you bring sugar babies # 2 through # 187.  Then we can all party.

Will Mom let you go to Milwaukee by yourself?

This is not like trying to extend your hotel stay at an otherwise booked hotel. I would rather have someone ask me if I am available and not demand it. That is just how that seems.

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If you cannot give your SB a Credit card with $5k to 10k Limit, you should not have one.

If you can’t pay for her digs, you should not have one

If you can’t pay for her Luxury Vehicle, you should not have one

If you can’t take her vacations regularly you should not have one

Everything else is fake SB

Note: I can’t afford  none of the above so I stick to P4P

There is a difference in confident and demanding. This is a business for these ladies, be respectful of their time, you should never feel entitled to it because you are not.

These girls should thank you. They are new to the business and you have taught them how to spot a dipshit and they will continue to move upward and onward to bigger and better SD's.

MM

Be that as it may....

Funny stuff CPA!  Great reply to a bizarre post.

(And you got your outright lies pulled). MM doesn't talk shit to the women and treats them with respect.

I have a SB not a wife, and if were paying that much it would be exclusive, and whenever I wanted it with a key to the house and luxury vehicle. I will NEVER give a SB a credit card with a $5K to $10k limit, fk she won't get one with a $500 limit. I give her cash

I have taken her out of town for the weekend, paid bills, groceries, clothes, electronics, oil change on her luxury SUV, and take care of other monthly bills. I dont take care of every single thing she has for monthly expenses for several reasons, mostly because I don't want to.

Just like these ladies don't offer everything because somethings are reserved for their SO, I wont give everything, that is reserved for my SO.

There is a middle ground with no set rules, it is an agreement that you negotiate with the SB so that it works out for both.

MM

LOL, so few do what you state above though, because they can't afford it. Most so called SDs on fk boards, are not at all what most are accustomed to. I have no complaints about the ones that I have met, but a SD did not buy me a luxury vehicle...a CLIENT did, and I've never seen him again after that. He did it not for me, but for his ego because he told the entire board he was "Going to Buy LR a Mercedes." I don't even think he liked me that much to be honest, but he did not want to look like an ass in front of his boys. Yes, he had that kind of money.

He has never been a SD to any of us girls including the ones he regularly buys tits, lipo, etc. for, but he is a client to quite a few. Still, he is more of what I would call a high roller than guys cruising SD sites looking for cheap ass.

To some 19 year old who lives in a cheap, one bedroom apartment, an extra 100 a week just might be her idea of a sugar daddy. To me...no way in hell.

Ok, for real? Z, you've got your own past of personal attacks here, so you can't exactly toss that card his way. You insult everyone when they don't agree with you, even when they are not being mean spirited.