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First and foremost if you honestly have to ask why or how some may find that exciting or  arousing, then you probably won't get what I'm saying here but what the hell I'll give it a shot.

For me just the mere act of calling me names doesn't exactly flip the switch though it is a good start..  It is more complex than  just  names for me it is the overall experience of being submissive to a man who understands that he can manipulate me as he likes and take complete advantage of my wanton needs and desires which are chiefly comprised of being used by a man who understands that ie it is a symbiotic relationship.  Quite simply put me on my knees and I will suck your cock while  you call me a cocksucker and I will enjoy  every minute of it, tell me I am a great cocksucker and I will love every minute of it make me beg for it and I'm in ecstasy..... what can I say I love being a slut but I really love being recognized for it
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Suzee the slut

ok this one for the  (three) ladies here on TER  ...   i wonder why some women actually get excited to be called ,  whore slut bitch tramp etc  during the heat of passion.    more than one i have been either encouraged to or might have blurted out something less nasty and realized the nastier the more she liked it.    

any thoughts on this ?  

According to certain reviews, some of the guys get excited to be called "whore slut bitch tramp" too.  

Some of them deserve these labels. lol

First and foremost if you honestly have to ask why or how some may find that exciting or  arousing, then you probably won't get what I'm saying here but what the hell I'll give it a shot.

For me just the mere act of calling me names doesn't exactly flip the switch though it is a good start..  It is more complex than  just  names for me it is the overall experience of being submissive to a man who understands that he can manipulate me as he likes and take complete advantage of my wanton needs and desires which are chiefly comprised of being used by a man who understands that ie it is a symbiotic relationship.  Quite simply put me on my knees and I will suck your cock while  you call me a cocksucker and I will enjoy  every minute of it, tell me I am a great cocksucker and I will love every minute of it make me beg for it and I'm in ecstasy..... what can I say I love being a slut but I really love being recognized for it
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Suzee the slut

You're really gonna have to stop giving me a hard on when I read your posts. Wow...

These terms all relate to the native enjoyment of sexuality, albeit in a coarse manner, but let's face it, sex, enjoyed properly, is coarse, so why not just surrender to these native urges in the most palpable way?

 
Society has for millennia tried to choke off these urges in the name of civilization, much to its misfortune.   To revel in these forbidden actions and give them the name that they deserve is liberating, really.

It really depends on the individual.  Some are really into submission.   Some find it insulting.  You gotta feel out the situation first.  Definitely do it if they like it.  It really enhances the experience if you like being dominant.  

It's not my style to yell shit like that.When I want to indulge my dominance side, there's other ways, it's not calling a woman a Bitch, Whore or whatever. It just ain't me,I'm just not wired that way..but to each his own.

I am not even good at "dirty talk" The few times I have tried it (at the woman's request of course) I burst out laughing and had to gather myself before even being able to fuck.

 
but as you say, "each to his own" or "her own" I know a lot of women love it too, it's just not for me.  

I have had GF's try to do "phone sex" with me, and I can't do that either, I go into a gigglefest before I get ten seconds into it. lol

"naked face time",  It can be pretty raunchy with a girl that has a slutty side.  I've done it with most of my Korean girlfriends.  

is not for everyone.  Even some professional actors get into laughing fits and can't say their lines, even if the part is serious.  
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Role play is make-believe.  It can elicit the same vicarious emotions one might feel watching movie.

As I can’t talk dirty. Not my comfort zone. I feel stupid role playing which I would love to do but just can’t. And spanking same as above I spank and talk dirty that’s then a laugh track happening.  

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I don't like dirty talk, or humiliation talk, giving or taking.  
I very much enjoy sexy talk.  
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To me there's a difference.  The words in the original question are social-stigma attack words.  References to excrement fall in the same emotional category for me.  Both kinds just make me feel disgusted.  
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On the other hand, being called a big hairy fucker is in the good sexy-talk category, as is appreciating a lady as a superb cocksucker, as is a simple "fuck me".  When those and the like happen, it feels good.  
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Anybody else have two very different categories like this?

yes i understand your categories and feel the same way.     statements like  dont stop, you are amazing,  fuck me harder,  your pussy is so fucking fine.     are certainly different then the whore, tramp ones.    

i think some previous posts hit it when they say its raw pure sexual energy stripped away of our last couple hundred years of politeness and correctness.    for me those words are get right to the raw energy and actually express super intense sexual delight and experience.      after all some girl just laying there isnt going to respond well  and a guy humping dully and mechanically  isnt likely to use those words either.  

my experience is if the woman understands he context of the intensity she enjoys they guy ( at least my)  cutting loose and surrendering to the pure sexual energy she encourages the man to experience.     with any girl after the first time i use such language i apologize and nearly 100%% they responded positively  saying along the lines they were thrilled i was enjoying it so much.     they also knew i was saying it out of pleasure .. not in a degrading way ...  i think approach and tone are thus critical.    

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I dislike labeling people or naming them., and do so only by exception.  We are each individuals, although I am guilty of calling someone crazy once and a while.  

During the moment, if the climate is right, I will compliment a lady by telling her how great she is at making me feel  good.  A few weeks ago at the end of a great BBBJ/HJ I complemented my partner in saying she "Really knew how to milk a cock".

Classic terms such as. "Suck that cock, you are a great fuck, act like a cum slut" I think are fair game.

It is one thing to say "Act like a cum slut" (request) or "You act like a cum slut" (complement)  versus calling the lady "A Cum Slut" ( Socially nasty label) .  

If I have been with a lady several times, and I know she is okay with it, I may do some labeling.  Rarely does that happen.

The same vein for a lot of folks it feels good on a chemical level to do something that a good chunk of polite society says you're not supposed to do. It can also feel good/sexy to get called a "bad" word too.

Ymmv, but for me I like naughty words to be used like salt.....sparingly.  
A touch of them here & there gives things a little flavor and razzle dazzle :).

It's gold.  Some of my favorite gals like to be used like a filthy whore.  

It's fun as role play.  Some are comfortable that you don't really mean it.  I don't know about the other kind, since I am not that person.

the "filthy" is in name only.  They all shower and practice good hygiene.

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