I have been accused of being "too nice" lately, so let me chime in first.  Personally I think the waitress did her other customers a solid by making this pregnant orca either cover up or leave.  

There were probably other fat people dining there that could stand to lose a few pounds. By letting her in, it might have ruined the appetite's of a few of these, causing them to eat less for a few days and lose a pound or two.  Ruining the appetites of the thin people would have been unfortunate collateral damage, but sometimes you have to thing of the greater good. Even though I disagree with you, I don't think it makes me a snowflake.

She was pregnant with twins. I don't think her body would cause loss of appetite.  I've seen a lot worse than that in public.

They put up with enough, it won't kill you to have to look at them a bit, or avert your eyes.

but that still doesn't mean I want to be looking at her fat, swollen belly when I am trying to eat.

If there was a law like that 50% of American women would not be able to expose their midriff in public.

..... she's not fat. She's prego!  
And I'd like her TER number and donation for a 3 hour session.

and I would be all for that.  

If in fact as the bartender and waitress said, anyone in a crop top no matter what size their stomach is would be denied access, then they were correct to say what they did to the preggo lady.  

and I am pretty sure you agree with him as well. I doubt very seriously that a hot lady with a great midriff would have gotten the same treatment. That still doesn't make a fat gut sticking out (male or female) any less disgusting though.

I never  Gawk  at women I consider Hot and extremely  desirable when I'm having dinner in a restaurant.
I will quickly look in the opposite direction when a ten walks in.  
   

Posted By: MatureGFE

Re: Hmmm I'm a bit torn on this one...
If in fact as the bartender and waitress said, anyone in a crop top no matter what size their stomach is would be denied access, then they were correct to say what they did to the preggo lady.  
   
 I guess the test would be to send in a hot lady with a great midriff to see if she got the same treatment! BTW GaG did someone piss in your cornflakes today, lol?  
   
 Steph XO

She's carrying 2 human beings inside of her bod lol. And for her to wear something like that, to me, says she's damn proud and more power to her. And that's about it. She probably didn't think "twice" about it. No pun intended.  

and if the answer is "yes", please send a link for her to me.

she's carrying "your" baby, don't go there lol, at least not with me. Be a gentleman.

Steadily, a collective notion of propriety is being consumed by a militant sense of autonomy, with social media fueling the fire. How ironic that a technology with the power to unite us has only made us more tribal.

I would think you are several years past your "child bearing" years.  

Stick with the young'uns, that seems to suit you (and many here) just fine. I personally see a select handful of guys who prefer ladies more "their" age. Why an older gent would want to spend time with a young lady who wants nothing more to do with them is beyond me. I won't go into the psychology behind "that" phenomenon. To each his own lol.  

Is there a chance you could show us a pic of what you look like, so we can see exactly how a man is supposed to look.  I mean surely with all this criticism, you must be one hot GQ looking dude in his early 20s.

Had to trick me into looking at the photo board didn't you? Now I'm ruined ...

was tasteless and without class, whether she was pregnant or not. Just my opinion.

That if you refer to them as a gentleman, they will call you a "fucking fucker."  Trust me, I know from experience.  

I frankly don't give a crap !   Let her wear whatever she likes as long as her other kids don't throw a fit and crawl all over the place.  

Well she is still at least 15 years younger than you, but to me, especially since she is white, that still makes her "old" by my standards.

Don't pay for the wine up-charge.

Now if only h+t would get her ass back here.  

Not old by "carbon dating standards". lol

REPITITION OVER AND OVER AGAIN LOL. Do you really have nothing better to do?

I probably shouldn't share that information...but I guess I just did.

I highly doubt it lol

LOL can you promise that's all they'll call me? "Fucking fucker" is putting it mildly with these board "gentlemen" (I use this term loosely here). Trust me, I know from experience too lol. They are "interesting" that's for sure.  

Now, just how much is it worth to you to have those images bleached from your memory??? lmao

restaurant though. I not a lawyer but I'm thinking "refuse service" could be difficult to enforce.

Or your way, either GaG...

Its sort of like the way everyone slows down to pass a car accident hoping to see the body bag before they haul it away in the coroner's van.  I think its referred to as "morbid curiosity."  

It is probably not the best choice of shirts when going out to a restaurant....but that being said, I have a definite thing for pregnant ladies and find the look pretty hot!...would love to see the rest of her.

Not even close!

Either way who wears a crop top out in public when you have pregnancy stomach? That's not public indecency, that's just terrible style. Even big girls dress a crop top better than that. She could have pulled off the look with high-waist preggo jeans or jogger pants.

So if I have bad hemroids I can walk into a restaurant with assless leather chaps, because it's more comfortable for me and because I have a legitimate medical issue? So many people don't give a shit anymore about how they appear in public and that's fine, but when you go out to eat to a sit down restaurant, you should at least try to dress like you give a shit. Probably some white trash that thought she would go a step up from the McDonalds in her local Walmart and got called out. I'd tell her to go back to the trailer, and get a maternity outfit that covers her up so she doesn't look like two pounds of meat stuffed in a one pound bag in the dining room. Rather than wearing a half shirt, some old sweat pants and her hair thrown up in a lose tail like she's running the garbage out to the curb, she could actually dress in something nice to go out and eat.

OHH LALA

Because they know who the father is.  

I have run into situations,   somewhat like this girl's.

She  definitely has that, "Oh! Look at me!" Vibe going on. Pregnant or not, she screams, Attention Whore!!

Be as fat as you want,wont make any difference to me. I will enjoy my meal just fine.  If you don't like what you see, just don't look.
 Here's where I draw the line, I was at the gym the other day and a very big gal  250+,,and I were in a small room, no problem til she walked by me and the stink hit me like hurricane Irma.  No excuse for this.. Be as fat as you want, but take a damn bath.

For the rest there are always TV shows with DNA testing and judges or irate show hosts,  "YOU are the father!!"

But the average age at the Don Cesar is about 90. What the fuck were you doing flaunting your boobs at an old folks home in the first place? lol

Bullshit. The patron always has the choice to dress appropriately, or go somewhere that doesn't have a dress code like a subway, or chick fillet. You don't force everyone else to deal with other people who go against the grain. I can't believe how ridiculous some of these responses are. No one told her to leave because she was perceived as being fat or pregnant. She was asked to leave because she was dressed inappropriately for the restaurant. It can only come from poor upbringing that anyone thinks it's okay to wear the same outfit to a nice sit down restaurant than you would to clean out the garage.  

Don't discourage boob-flaunting at old folks' hangouts, sonny!  You may be very happy to see that some day.  

such as myself,  
was doing at the DonCesar? lol

As a mature provider, I may not attract clientele who prefer the look of the younger, phenomenal beauties on TER.  Having said that, however, others may find my 2" inner labia something they want to experience regardless of my age.  If someone said that I should not be a provider because I am too old...it would be hurtful but more importantly, I would ask what someone commenting on that on the forum has to derive out of it.  My personal mantra:  for every person I am not suited to, there is another I am.  I'm sorry some are offended by my age, others' weight, etc.  but I'm not sure why it is important enough to bring attention to here as hurtful and unnecessary.

And I am glad you are having fun, isn't that why we talk shit here in the first place, to have fun?

and tried to support my SO giving multiple births. Men who have children look and appreciate women who are are pregnant. Very rarely is anybody mean to a pregnant lady and most pregnant ladies tend not to show their belly in public.

I don't recall anyone saying a single word about you. Quite frankly, until this post you made I had never even heard of you before.

Your post was literally the first I have ever read here!  I am unfamiliar with the format and the forthright banter.  Caught off guard!

Additionally...I have one Brittany Spears looking daughter and one larger daughter and I thought of the latter...and the providers here.  Protective instincts.

I've never seen a girl thrown out of a place because her boobs were too big.  

They have a saying in Pinellas county, "The old people live in Clearwater, but their grandparents live in St Pete"

As apposed to a troll.

an aristocratic asshole?

Also can't be mistaken for ass as in stupid person. It is about the bum, buttocks, rectum, sphincter etc.

Although maybe they were looking out for the safety of riders?

would this girl be denied service?

Can you imagine just how many people would want to eat at a place filled with women like your example dressed exactly that way?  

Yeah, I enjoy a broader group of women than you. Oldest so far 60, to the youngest 21. Big, small, tall short, from Asians to Zimbabweans.

Gag, you will have to come up with 40 more OPS to catch up with me! This is a good start!

I have no idea how many OP's I have, but I'd lay a hundred to one odds it's a LOT more than you.

LOL. Well since you devoted your life to being the "cool Kid" on TER I will never catch up! Do you know what your ratio to OPS to posts are? I bet it's low.

don't inhale isn't an option?

a real fucking tool..

LOL...I am a Stage Fiver LOL!  I swear!  LOL

As long time columnist Miss Manners aptly notes, standardized manners lubricate social interactions with people from diverse backgrounds.   With a minimal set of widely practiced manners, interactions can be smoother, with less risk of the need for bloody duels.  

Please point out exactly where I "complained about someone else's manners"???

Don't you EVER get tired of being wrong?