My wife has done 1,2,4(that stopped quickly) and 6. Don't evn ask for 3. 5 happens regardless of intent. I saved the tooth i had knocked out. LOL All she could say was "where the hell is MP when you need him" LMAO.

For items 3 and 6. I do that on a regular basis with 25% of the providers I meet. They have a comfort level with me.

I take videos. I also have fucked providers many times with ballgags in their mouth the lockable type, chained to to the bed, lol. A few have let me fuck them in the ass like that.

Submissive women are great to be with.

Mostly yes (don't see why she can't take a fucking photo?)! Dunno, depends on her tone of voice and yes in that order. If you're all about the ass that should be in the wedding vows, "do you promise to love honor and take it in the chili ring?" or is that implied in obey?

When I shared a few of my sexual fantasies with her, she advised me to hire a prostitute because she would never do them.  They were:
1.  Flash truckers from to front seat
2.  Let someone watch her give me a BJ
3.  Allow her hands to be bound and mouth gaged for a photo.
4.  Smoke long cigarette for photo
5.  Go to bar/restaurant with me in all black spandex leotard with stiletto heels(and let guys hit on her while I watch
6.  Anal

These don't seem too extreme to me.  Your opinion on:
A) Are these out of the ordinary and out of reason
B) Was she serious
C). Are these thing an escort would do

Are these things out of the ordinary, I would say yes, out of reason not necessarily but they are for your SO
Was she serious? She was serious that she will never do them for you. If she found out you went to a prostitute and expect her to say fine that's what I told you to do that, I would seriously doubt that. Not unless you had several long talks about the possibility of you going to see a prostitute and she agreed specifically yes go ahead.
Are theses things an escort would do? Not a lot of them would do all the requests, especially the public ones. After all they are already nervous enough about LE and would not want to draw the wrong attention to themselves.

I think this is a very selfish feeling of being entitled. I'm sure i'll get jumped on for this but it's my week. Before you say a woman should do this for you just take a dildo up your ass. She has a right to say what goes in and out of any hole in her body just as you do.

She said go see a prostitute and you did but many don't want anything to do with anal so be sure to read reviews first.

Kisses Haley

If for any reason she is not comfortable then it is off limits.  You kind of sound like it is expected that she does what you want.  I have the same problem and have given up on tying.  If you want to save the relationship work on her needs not yours.  If she really meant that it is ok for you to step out (which I do not believe) and you do it realize it is A) the end or your relationship or B) look for some really good make up sex.

You're right, I do feel entitled.  She doesn't work, hasn't tried to get a job in years, doesn't keep the house very clean, allows laundry to pile up and only does it @ night when I am home, complains about the time it takes to ferry the kids to camps, etc, and hasn't cleaned the inside of her Mercedes  in over a year....

I do feel entitled and don't really feel too selfish about it!  

Cut your losses now, the kids will get over it.  Ignore my previous advice to concentrate on her needs.  Did she get fat to.

No - she still looks pretty good - which makes it even more frustrating....

And you know you'd be saving someone else's teeth if I was there. Maybe a testicle and/or an ear, for that matter.

A testicle would be a first. An ear, not so much...

If she is for real about getting it somewhere else,  find yourself a submissive woman.  That list is pretty mellow.

Would escorts do your list of fantasies?  Sure they would, that's why they are here.  Now one may not do all of them, but you certainly can find others that will fulfill those fantasies.

And if the SO has no interest (and that is why many of us are here in the first place..so don't feel guilty as to why you are doing this stuff) in playing these games, perhaps time to evaluate the state of your marriage/relationship.

And assuming you act on your fantasies, DO NOT tell the SO about it.  That is, unless you want her to know and use this as a tool to get out of the relationship.  And if that is the case, why not just hire the attorneys and move on to the next chapter in your life...less hassle that way!

Heck...let's get everyone on board.

Maybe there'll be a fee reduction all the way around?

And perhaps the SO will find one of the attorney's hot..or maybe the provider is hot...or both and she'll get off on the whole scene?

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....because I don't smoke all of those sound fine/fun if I were comfortable enough w/ you. None of those are extreme (at least for me 'cause i'm a little batsh*it crazy but in a good way).

Also I don't think she was serious. Women say things sometimes in a f-u kind of way and of course if you did those things and she found out you'd be in trouble.

...you're probably not going to have much luck with publicly-oriented fantasies. If you can find some common ground, maybe you can meet each other half-way. For example, play with some light bondage at home, or have her wear the leotard and heels just for you.

Have you asked her if she has any fantasies? Giving can be a better place to start than receiving, if she's shy about trying new things.

I did ask - her fantasy is to cum at the same time I do.

I think your fantasies would be a lot more interesting...

Anyway you look at it, marriage sucks!!
I do agree with Haley on the Butt-Fucking, it is very painful to some!
You want someone to watch her, give you a blow-job? I take it you mean, another male?
Can't really figure out why that would turn u on?
Let other guys hit on her???  WTF, i guess i'm old school,, i'd smash their fucking head if they hit on my women!!
Flash Truckers from the front seat???  Dude, it,s a wonder your getting any pussy at all.
Have ya ever heard of the word respect???
Yes, i would get pissed when my x would not go parking, but, i think what your asking yours to do, is a liitle extreme.   imho
Hey, divorce her and start hobbying, that i don't have a problem with. ( if ya don't have kids )
Good luck!!!

she was fabulously and recklessly adventurous. probably would have been a very successful pro. from your menu items:

1. yes
2. yes
3. yes
4. no! a dedicated non smoker.
5. almost: would a very short black leather skirt, thigh high stilleto boots and red silk blouse work?
6. she had appliances for that but i was shy.....

so in answer to your questions:
A. they are adventuresomme, yes
B. i wouldn't count on it being serious so much as sarcastic
C. depends on the escort. some would never consider menu item 6, for instance.

Is she still available???  

I am a nonsmoker too and really looking for the look of the long white in long fingers w/ long red nails rather the the actual smelly thing...

If she is your wife and told you to go see a prostitute then I would be alarmed!

I think you are playing with fire! DON"T DO IT!

She may be doing this to lure you into getting caught so she can nail the crap out of you in divorce court.

If she is planning that and you go ahead - you'll be so screwed over you'd have thought you just got locked up in with the sweetie boys in cell block A.

Do you think a judge is going to grant you any leniency if you get caught or implicated with a prostitute and she can prove it!

My ex-wife made a similar suggestion that she wouldn't mind if I had fun with some co-workers as long as I wore a hat. Meanwhile she was having an affair.

Remember women are sneaky as hell.

she's moved on and is happily settled, sorry.

they are out there though.....

did i tell the story about how we screwed in a carrel during a university library fundraising event on her fur? although the champagne and canapes were delish the speech was dull. so we entertained ourselves. great lady.....

You seem so charming. But, as long as you're willing to:

1. Flash truckers from the front seat
2. Give someone a BJ while she watches
3. Allow your hands to be bound and mouth gaged for a photo.
4. Smoke long cigarette for photo
5. Go to bar/restaurant with in all black spandex leotard with stiletto heels(and let guys hit on you while she watches
6. Anal

Then why shouldn’t she  pony-up too?  After all, you are the man paying the bills, while all she does is raise your children.

That bitch……

Wrong.   The Nanny raises the children.  All she does is complain...

sauce should work equally well with goose or gander. unless both are equally adventurous and open this does not look like a happy ending. in my case, the SO made the first (tentative) move to being adventurous.

not PMable, BTW.