Lately I've been seeing a girl I first met over 15 years ago.  I may have repeated a few times the first year, they did not see her for over 12 years.  She did take a few years off.  She is back with a fuller figure [not a problem for me] and much improved oral talents.  Something good about seeing a girl from long ago makes me wonder who else is still around from my early days in hobbyland.  I went back to my old reviews and most of those profiles have been deleted from TER.  I wonder if some are still around, maybe under a different name, or possibly just off the TER radar.  Anyone else have a similar experience?  

While I have not really had the years-long experience you wrote about above, DT, I certainly would love to have repeats with escorts I've had sex with in the past, especially the very first one from 2009.

That first time, coupled with not knowing what to expect, I was also kind of nervous about being caught or getting ripped off or some other horror story taking place, but she was a real pro, only did escort work occasionally, about 10 yrs older than I was, and she handled the whole situation perfectly. I saw her again a few weeks or a few months later, but since my original reason for choosing the P4P route in the first place was curiosity, I told myself I didn't need to or want to go back and do it any more. I then went many months and even a couple of years without seeing any escorts at all.  I lost contact with her, but in retrospect after I have now gotten back into it over the past few years, doing it with her again would be great.

I also need to hit the rewind button a couple of decades back to my military days overseas in The Pacific. Being 19 yrs old, I didn't look at it as P4P back then, but of course that's exactly what it was. There were two of those women in particular in two separate countries who I saw again six years later after seeing them the first time. One was almost a repeat of the times we had screwed each other in our youth, it was great sex, as kinky as could be, no holds barred. The other woman was just meh, even though it had been a hot time when we were younger.

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a little long for me, but I have routinely seen girls that I had not seen for 3 or 4 years.  Sometimes, they are even better than I remembered, and sometimes, not, but my curiosity about some ladies will probably keep me doing this from time to time.

Met a gal entering the business when she was around 18. Still see her a few times a year and she is now about 45.  A very few more pounds but is actually in great shape as she very actively takes care of her body. A co-worker/friend of the wife and not secret. I'll see her now and then as long as I can still get it up.....

Who are still around from long ago and I go back a long way. There isn't anyone I knew then, say 10 years or who are still around... but I have a theory...You can never go home again.  
My situation on those instances where I re-connected after say 10 years and some 5 years apart I found that it wasn't the same. Maybe it was me or...?So in rehashing with old "friends", I found are rarely the same as before.
Maybe I'm just wired weird but it seems to have worked for you so..congrats

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I've been in the hobby 50+ years now, and find that my hobby preferences tend to mimic my dining preferences.  I have a few favorite "restaurants" that I visit repeatedly because I like the ambience, I know what is on the menu, I like what is on the menu and know it will be served just as I like it.  However, I also like to try different "restaurants" occasionally as I do like variety and sometimes find a new "restaurant" that I REALLY like.

I have been seeing my ATF for 11 years now, although she dropped me for a couple of years to become a monogamous Sugar Baby.  But, we're back together again, even though she is no longer an active escort.  We live ~ 900 miles apart, so our dates are fewer, but longer, and occur whenever I can concoct a reason/excuse to travel out of town.  I spent 5 days with her in September, and have 6 days scheduled with her in early December - some of the best days of my life!!!

I saw my current local favorite the first time in 2012, so it will be 10 years with her next April.  I did have a different "local favorite" for about 3 years during that time, but we have spent a lot of time - and had a LOT of fun - together.  Just thinking about her makes me think I should stop this message (too long anyway) and go get a date with her.

If you ever find and old flame def try to re-engage.  Generally you'll find the experience "meh."  But at least you got it out of your system and never have to wonder what you were missing.

What a timely topic  

I was recently contacted by a man that I knew quite well... almost 8 years ago. He was a fond and frequent gentleman of mine, and I did remember him vividly (why do men always start out their emails with "do you remember me", I'm not a goldfish), but I was a little nervous about seeing him again.  

Why? Well, let's be honest. It's been 10 years. And while I do try to keep up with myself, let's just say I might not quite fit into that amazingly sexy lingerie that he bought me for our last date :/ Things have changed, and not just in the physical sense. I'm quite a different person than I was at 22.  

Still, he was as charming as ever, and I agreed to the date. And I'm so glad I did! We had a great time catching up, and our spark was till there, ready to be ignited.

So yeah, my recommendation would be to reach out. It's impossible to truly relive the past, but you might be pleasantly surprised by what the future can hold  

~Mme X~

Had a similiar experience a few years back. 18 years ago there was a Boston based provider I saw a number of times as an ATF that rocked my world. She moved down to the DC area and we lost touch. A couple years ago on a whim I contacted her on the old email address. I was traveling to DC and wanted to see her again. Crickets for a month, then her name popped up in the inbox.  
She came to my hotel and we spent 3 hours together and picked up where we left off.She had a great memory for our times together.
 Not the flawless porcelain beauty she once was, but still beautiful and sexy AF. She demanded a performance from me that I didn't think possible. Just a great time. She also displayed a next level oral skill.

Recently I hooked up with the lady who was my very first in this world we live in.  Ten years gap in the last time I had seen her.  

I was pleasantly surprised she looks better now than back in 2011.   You just never know.