I made an ass of myself thinking a provider was interested in seeing me again when after the date. I asked if she would see me again and she replied yes. I'll keep your number. It was a great date and I thought we had chemistry. She made an excuse saying she's out of town but another hobbyist confirmed she was still in town. What to do? Give her a bad review ?

So, her business is her business. Maybe she was booked up? Maybe her plans changed? Maybe she was not sure what to tell you when you asked her if you could see her again? Maybe this other hobbyist is lying to you? No matter what it is, do not over think it or take it personal.  

Let me see if I understand.You saw a provider had a great time thought you hit off well.
You asked her if she would see you again and she said she would save your number.
So did you try to book another appt and she said she was out of town?Why would you ask another guy if she is in fact in town?
And why would you mention giving her a bad review?That is not too cool.Had a great time with her write a review about that not about a future appt that has not even been booked yet.
Maybe she is busy and can't set another appt with you right now...but I would go to the source which is the provider not some other guy.Ask what her availability is and go from there....smh.

You indicated you enjoyed your time with her, so any review you write should be about that moment in time.  Even if she declined another request, that shouldn't change your impression.  

If she's that great keep on seeing her. Just because she gave you an excuse that she couldn't see you when you wanted doesn't mean you should give her a bad review. We'd all like to think that we're the only one a provider is seeing. But she has other guys she sees too. Relax and get over it.

I am not sure why you felt the need to ask another guy if she was in town. Why are you checking up on her?

and now you want to give her a bad review? WTF dude? 🤦‍♂️

A complete dipshit would have put up a petty and stupid post like this under his handle. But you are still a dipshit.

Posting this under an alias doesn't make him any less of a dipshit, just a less stupid dipshit.

Did it occur to you that maybe she had a flight out of town that night? Or maybe she had her kid's birthday party and doesn't want to say THAT. Or her mother is in town and staying at her house? We don't always want to tell you what's going on in our private lives just to say NO to an appointment. When was the last time you made that kind of white lie?

"feelings" hurt and now you want to retaliate with a bad review?  Are you 16, or what?  Even after the worse session in the world, the provider will say she would like to see you again just so she gets a clean exit with no drama.  You made an ass of yourself by thinking the good "chemistry" meant this was more than just a P4P encounter.  She probably sensed you fall in love in ten minutes and were going to be nothing but drama down the road.  Your first instinct to stick it to her in a bad review confirms you're an asshole.  If you're going to keep hobbying, grow up.  

in case you decide to follow thru with a bad review. Dude you have issues! Reviews are meant to let others know how your time with her went, NOTHING MORE. Checking up on her is super creepy and shows you have very fragile ego.

... when she told him she'd see him again?  Maybe at the time she said it, she thought she could see him again.

You tried to see her and she said she was out of town? Maybe she wasn't available, maybe she couldn't see you for whatever reason which is her right. Maybe the hobbyist was wrong in his info he gave you. But why on earth would you give her a bad review?

Or maybe that was psycho.  There will always be lesser possibilities that can also be supported be the same evidence, but most often the most obvious is correct.

Most likely something more important came up that she didn't want to have to explain to you, so she chose a convenient lie.

A boy develops a disease so rare that nobody is working on a cure, so his father decides to learn all about it and tackle the problem himself.

I had seen a lady many times over a two year span (like 20 times). Then all of the sudden she started cancelling on me and even did a couple of no call no shows.  It was strange and confusing as fuck. I wanted to write a review about it, but because a meeting did not actually take place they would not allow a review, but said I could feel free to talk about it on open forums or warm others via PM.  

Go bury your head in the sand now!! Wow..every hobbist gets stood up or let down form time to time. No biggie..many beautiful ladies out in the escort sea. Move on son..

That's fucked up and you sound like the jealous controlling type.  

Which, according to his post it's not hard to find a better client. Yikes lol!

Blacklisted. I'm sure this post didn't help either.

How many times have I heard that one? lol! And where are they now? Now don't get me wrong, they totally kept my number alright, but for what reason? And in what list on their phone was my number saved? You could be the most harmless guy in the world, but in this kind of business that's shrouded in uncertainty, a girl has to be very careful how she rejects a man even if she knows you reasonably well, but especially if she doesn't know you at all, because she just don't know how you'll react to it, and protecting her personal safety is her first priority.

Why on earth would you give her a bad review? Because, you thought you may have had chemistry and it was only there for you and not for her? That makes you want to review her poorly. I would say maybe she is busy or maybe she is just not interested. But that doesn't mean you have to be mean and cruel and review her badly.

Why the fuck would you give her a bad review? Are you stupid?

Keep all emotions aside P4P is for both parties a quick in and out. If you have found a provider that you really dig and have some perceived chemistry with take that as a pat on the back. If you want to see her again go through the regular scheduling activity to see what is available. Saying do you want to see me again is a given you are paying cash and ultimately that is the end desire.  

Totally agree. EOM

or can't make up time for him again?  
isnt an obligation to see another client. WOW! I can't believe the things I read in this forum sometimes!

The only time you made an ass of yourself was when you asked such a stupid question. Why on Earth would you leave her a bad review? Unbelievable.