When I first started, probably because of nerves and safety, I only saw one provider
for about 4 months.

You need a good starting line up for various reasons.  A solid rotation of 3 - 5 dependable, reliable providers.  Why?  Because each can bring a different experience and that only enhances the fun (and that's the point of all of this right, to have fun).  Also, schedules don't always line up.  So if you have a few different options at any one time, someone will be available.

That may be called, 'an arrangement' ~ perhaps

lol

If I find the physical chemistry is there and we both enjoy each other's company, then I'll see them repeatedly.  Once in a while I will seek out another just to keep things in perspective

it usually does not last though.   Either things start crossing lines and it falls apart or the guy naturally sees other women.    

I'm sure that there are many lonely guys who also see just one.  Makes them feel like it's a real relationship.

It brings back great memories of skiing that mountain. 😎

Exclusivity isn't usually synonymous with this hobby. Yet once, for about 18 months, that's exactly what I chose to do. I didn't think it wise to tell her, so it was just something within myself. She was an amazing lady. Her sessions went well beyond what anyone else had ever done. First of all, her 90 minute sessions lasted 3 hours + every single time. When I asked for a session, I had to make sure my schedule could accommodate it. At first, because of standard protocol, I didn't feel comfortable. She made it very clear that we were to create our own protocol. Secondly, every session ended with lunch or dinner. Don't ask me how or why. It's something she just insisted on. Besides the hot sex, conversations were awesome. We discussed everything under the sun, and often exchanged books, music, and gifts. Plus, our senses of humor were a perfect match. We spent so much time just laughing. In between sessions emails flowed frequently. To me it was a no brainer to exclusively see only her. While many sessions with other ladies often included a few of those things, with her it was so encompassing, it was more than therapeutic.  

and i found one provider that I would have been happy just seeing her. We talked about  that and as the newbie that I was, she extolled the virtues of this "hobby". She built up the greatness of variety, that she enjoys. She suggested that I go out and experience more providers, so I would not get too emotionally attached to her.  

As a lady, I do have a client that only visits me and has so for several years. He is close by and that makes it convenient for him and much easier to arrange the time to get away from the wife.  I have no issues with him nor he with me (and it works out nicely but we always manage to work it back in.) lol

Keep things in perspective. Is that like, so I don't become a stalker? LOL

Oh if you only knew...

Every time I see my ATF, I walk away feeling so great and so recharged.  One visit with her packs the energy and intensity of 100 visits with anyone else.

Sure Senator... Just my cup of tea....

I felt the same way after I met my ATF. Everyone else after that was compared to our visits, whether fairly or unfairly. Finally, I decided to see her exclusively. I figured, why not? It's my choice. Everyone here can do what they want, and I'm fine with what they want to do. If it works for me, that's all that matters.

Autumn, what is the one thing you look forward to doing when seeing this client? Also if we were to ask him what is the one unique thing that he would like about you?  I am also assuming that there is a lot of depth within you relationship and the conversation is extremely diverse.  Also he must be a real friend and just not a client and I am sure that he call you to say hello and ask you about certain things that are happening in your life. Also I am thinking that both of you are sexually intuitive to each others needs , as well as the fact, you also tend to know each others strengths and deficiencies BCD and in life as well.  Also finally he might be in the Autumn of his years but when he sees you, you definitely put spring back into his step.

I know, I cheated on her ocassionally but there was no real reason to do otherwise. The sex was ELECTRIC. Real. RAW. We had feelings for each other, but there were no emotional strings attached. We didn't get tired of each other during that period of time Of course, it was P4P. Have only found that level of intensity a few times since. and spent a lot of time with them too. Love variety, but prefer connection. Next up .... hmmmm