Hello Board Members,

I need some expert advice suggestion regarding a matter.  A few months back, I posted a message regarding a travel companion.  A young lady corresponded via email with me and showed interest.  I'm in DC and she is in a mid west state.  She seemed reasonable but I ended up not taking her along instead had a local girl accompany me.  Anyway we kept in touch via email (maybe once a month) just to say hello and maybe for a future trip.  I left one thing out; when she initially contacted me, I asked if she had any reviews.  she had stated she was new in the business and there were no reviews but to expect some soon.  Within the month she had one review on this board.  Till today that is the only review she has had.  Recently she contacted me via email (again just to say hello).  She seems very nice, polite etc.  So, I offered her to accompany me on my upcoming trip.  I asked for her rates and her two day rate is less then the mid-class gals overnight rate.  The girl advertises on redzone.com and the deal is I would pay for her flight from her city to the city in which I'm travel to for business.  She would stay with me in the hotel and not see any other clients.   My question are:
Would LE go this far & cross state lines?
Should I accept or walk away?

I'm little confused and am wondering if someone here had a similar situation and what did they do and the outcome.

Thanks in advance for your suggestions, advice and comments.

Regards.

DC Gentleman

that you or any guy should even consider taking a stranger anywhere-is insane!  Ever thinnk she is underage and you transport her across state lines?  Felony


I would go for an established provider or  see her for an hour to make sure you have chemistry?

If you feel uncomfortable I would select someone else.

Spend some time searching the TER reviews to find the lady that most appeals to you.  A well reviewed, long standing lady is the way to go.

LE usually has jurisdiction only over its own territory -- e.g., a New York cop is not going to go to L.A. to make an arrest.  Also, this sounds like way too much effort for LE to put into an arrest.  

There could be perfectly good reasons why she only has one review.  I've found that there are women on the fringes of the business that would rather have a comfortable "kept" relationship or a long weekend with some, but not great, compensations than a serious appointment-by-appointment business.  Also, she just could be inexperienced.

Have you talked to her on the phone?  If not, I'd strongly advise that you do so.  Get to know her -- especially if you're thinking of spending quite a while with her.  She deserves to get to know you, too.  Make sure you both understand what the terms of this time together invovles.  It could be great - but take a few precautions by getting to know her.

If she has a review on TER, why not PM the reviewer and get his "insider" opinion on her?  Also, that will help verify that the review is genuine.

-- Modified on 9/16/2004 2:52:18 PM

Reoesn't sound like LE to me

On the last point, you can also see who else that person has reviewed.  If she has one review, and the reviewer has submitted one review, I'd head for the hills.  Maybe overly cautious, but better that than overly stupid.

To me it does not sound like she is LE for the following reasons:

1. Being a low volume provider I seldom see more than one gentleman in any day.

2. I love to travel especialy to new places and enjoy the spare time to check out the local sites and museums.

3. I have done had simular arrangements in the past that have included my travel costs and a fee based apon how much time I will be out of town to assure that I get my bills paid.

4. The advice to first talk to her on phone is a good one if she is willing however remember that we ladies cannot talk endlessly on phone when there is no definate arrangement, however if we are already home taking a break we are more likely to be willing to do so for it also gives us a better sence of the client.

Please keep in mind that my feelings are based apon my own individual circumstances, desires, and needs and are not reflective of all other providers.

first rule is to always listen to your gut feling. If something does not feel right...walk away.

Second, in DC they are plenty of ladies to choose from that are well reviewed and established. Why would you want to go to the extra expense of flying her out so after her appt, she can continue to work on your dime so to speak.

Sick with local/traveling well reviewed and established ladies.  You will much happier.

... you should really listen.

cause your taking a HUGE gamble bringing along someone you've never me.  LE issues aside......there is a huge risk that you have zero in common with her, she's a terrible provider, etc..

About the LE issues....I doubt she's LE, but again, without solid reviews your taking a gamble (albeit IMO a lesser one).

Lastly.....there are ladies out there that charge less than what we commonly see in the mainstream escort sites. Some ladies are low key and they don't consider themselves full time professionals in the business. Sometimes they are just getting their feet wet in the business, etc.. Personally I've found had two meetings with ladies like this.  One lady charged $1000 for a weekend, another lady charged $600 for overnight. I stumbled across both ladies from sites completely unrelated to the hobby (TBD/TER, etc..). Both meetings went very well, I knew I was taking a gamble (as described above) that we wouldn't click, but luckily I'm batting 1000!  I would never pay $3K per day like many mainstream providers charge, but at $1K for a weekend it was worth giving it a try.  (we had lengthy communications ahead of time).