I can't imagine why these fellas honestly think that most of the women here really can leave this place with a guy they meet here.  The guy is a cheater already.

Please don't tell me that mean old CosmicSuckUp has stolen her back from you.

Who says I would need to "leave this place"? I'm getting married to someone that I love dearly, but I plan on continuing to fuel Alexandra Kole's fire. Why not? He knows and is comfortable with it and so am I. Neither if us were looking for or planned to ever let it go where it just naturally did for us.

This is one of the most transparent introductions a man and woman can have.  I know he's married, he knows I see other clients.  We meet for as long and as frequently as he wishes, and eventually we part ways without bitterness, drama, or dividing assets.

I know of several gals married to former clients.  That said, the percentage is tiny compared to the number of clients who fell, could not get up, then found out she wasn't actually in love with them.

Alexandra, this is perfect "My rates are posted and when our time is up I fall right back out of love until the next time you walk through the door".

Why do you tell your clients that you have an SO?  That seems like far too much info most of the guys need or want to know.  But I know many gals tell the guys that so they won't bother them for freebie dating and stuff.  I guess that's really what you are doing.

It's really a pathetic scene too.

that your babble is of much interest to anyone?

very well said luv!

Kind of like you and Giselle sneaking around on poor old CosmisSuckUp, don't you think it would serve you right if she left you, either to go back to him, or to "upgrade" once again?

I don't cheat on anyone.  Gizzy is a big girl and see's whoever she sees.  She needs the money.  It's the poor schmucks that don't understand what is happening here.  They don't understand that the lying here is rampant.  The women have perfected that art while being here, they have to to keep sane.  

WORD!

It comes out during small talk, most times I'm directly asked.  Why, would that ruin the fantasy for you?  Doesn't bother me that you have a wife at home, so why should it matter to my friends that I'm engaged?  Freebie dating wouldn't and didn't enter the picture well before my beau.

but not all women here lie. Take H+T for example, she is honest to a fault and gets the MHB label attached to her for doing so. You know the same thing happens to the guys who are honest, we get labeled misogynists for our efforts.

You've not been specific at all to telling me what I lie about thus far...

When calling someone bitter, it's customary to call him angry as well. Ragnar is one of the "angry and bitter" crowd, most likely old as well. lol

Unless you are cool with open relationships and just want to have some more fun, pretty odd indeed. Not one for 'forever' with the same d*ck, but it's nice to have someone you can hang out with, party with on the weekends and have great sex without strings... hey, is that not the hobby? LOL.

It provides no good outcome and only hurts both parties.

Have you come out to everyone about what you do here?

I don't think it would be in your best interest for me to delineate all the other lies you've stated here.

Simply can't be honest about this world.

There is absolutely no one who's life would be changed in any way knowing about my sex life.

That's fine as well, most people do.

I might be in love; your thoughts are refreshing. thanks

and then I could collect unemployment on myself

Thanks for playing though

MFM can be fun

It's Kole.  And I don't recall ever stating that's my real name...no lies here : )

why you don't seem to understand that this is a big world with lots of different kinds of people--including some providers who have loving, supportive SO's and some providers who really do love their jobs. I know some of both. Interesting thing is, the ones I know with the good SO relationships also love their jobs. But I know some providers w/o SO's who love their jobs too. And I know some providers who hate what they do and try to act like they don't .. not very successfully.  I don't know many of those providers cuz I try to avoid them.

Then please change your fake name to your real name.  Then it would not be a lie.

You got me : )  Wow, poor little guy really is seriously angry and bitter...he's in need of some release.

Please make no strings attached business no drama.Play safe and fun folks.

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MFM is rad!  One of my favs : )  Pretty bummed when I lost my male bi duos partner due to my move.  Great idea, Raggy!!!  My fiancé isn't bi, but he's totally into exhibition, interesting idea...

She's tried it a few times but it really isn't much in demand.  Too many guys who read about that get turned off.

Again, allow me to spell it out for you...my website, ads, etc. make no mention that Alexandra Kole is my real name, therefore, there is no lie there.

I have to SMH at how dense you are.  And the assumptions you make.  You'll never know if I'm traveling with him or not.  But I'm really glad to hear I've gained another super admirer that's going to cling to every word I say.

I'll just call the guy lucky as hell!

you won't just STFU. Oh. And go away. Thanks.

For something to be a harmful lie there must be an expectation that what is asserted is the truth. Only an idiot would believe a provider's name is her real one. What's your next trick, telling us that Dr. Seuss lied to generations of children becuase he didn't sign his books Theodor Geisel?

man I hope she gets in on this!

My Dad would never order Dr. Brown's Celray Tonic because the waitress could never tell him what medical school Dr. Brown attended.

your boss is quite the whore mongering pig

though I have a long list of reasons not to drink a celery based carbonated beverage before I get down to its creator's questionable medical credentials

He told me of the wondrous WooWoo Bird which, when pursued, flies in ever decreasing concentric circles until at last he flies up his own asshole, from which vantage point he flings his shit upon his pursuers.
I believe Ragnar has perfected this technique.

but THAT was funny. lmao

This is some advice for some of our dimmest bulbs  How do you tell your ass from a hole in the ground?
Insert your arm into the hole.  If you can walk away, it's the former not the latter.

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I think you're right. Most of us are cheaters, liars, and there's a high percentage of f*cking nuts to go along with that. Why on earth would anyone think it could work? We all have so many strikes against us. Marriage is hard enough in the real world. I'd truly like to know the success rate of such attempts. Of the ones I've heard of, it's not very high, although exceptions surely exist. Who keeps stats like that?  

Having read the endless thread I must say that Alex is representing what we all know about the best providers. They are our GF for an hour or two and we both move on. Great that she has an SO who is OK with her profession. Who cares if they are BB as long as we are protected with her. You are a refreshing voice Alex.

And I will say what I need to say to keep the money flowing. I have no intention of leaving "this place" with any john. Not because he is a cheater (some are single), but for other reasons.

I lie like a rug to my johns. That I have always admitted to. If I told them the absolute truth I would not have any repeat clients. It is part of the job as far as I am concerned. I lie frequently. Other hookers might lie rarely and others might never lie. Can't speak for them.

Some hookers have these slimy little man children running after many of their posts because what?...she ignored your email? She said no to your sweaty fistful of ones? Or you just hate the fact that she does her business her way and you disagree? Doesn't really matter what the reason is, you are now looking five shades more pathetic