It's interesting to me that only about half of the P411 providers I schedule time with ever look at my profile. Why is that?

Can't comment on why others don't. It helps me with compatibility. Not about to waste my or anybodies time if the fit is not right.

personally, I check his profile immediately to see what he has written, if anything, some are very vague. Would be a nice surprise if some of you would put a photo in all honesty as it is an option on their site. Just my .02 cents.  

and P411 isn't necessarily one of them.  I still find it useful to have.

To fill out the profile and add some comments of their own. I imagine, sometimes it might prevent a meeting. But those appointments that do get set,  I would imagine they go quite well.  

The best, most professional girls do.  I can tell because of what they've chosen to wear and have set aside to drink.

For example- there have been a few times when I looked at someone's profile, but the appointment didn't work out for some reason. When they would contact me again in the future, I would look at their profile a second time to refresh my memory. I also like to periodically review my OKs on D-C to make sure that people I saw a few years back haven't suddenly decided to go rogue.

I feel safer when a Provider views my profile.
I also feel she is playing more safely.

They don't alert you on Date-Check, but if you go to the site you'll see who has viewed your profile on your home page.

So I have a heads up about his play style, likes and dislikes, attitude, etc. I'm able to provide a much more personalized and fun experience if I have some info, especially since I don't have to take the risk of digging it out thru email correspondence!

As if its not creepy when hookers stalk guys by checking their profile repeatedly to see who they've seen instead of them? Give me a break.  

Posted By: HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil

For example- there have been a few times when I looked at someone's profile, but the appointment didn't work out for some reason. When they would contact me again in the future, I would look at their profile a second time to refresh my memory. I also like to periodically review my OKs on D-C to make sure that people I saw a few years back haven't suddenly decided to go rogue.  
   
 I've had P411 guys send me smarmy, self-satisfied messages: "I saw you checked out my profile... blah. blah."  
   
 It's P411, NOT Match.com, you dork! So stop acting like I'm freaking hitting on you when I look at the profile that YOU sent ME. Grrr.  
   
 But I'm sure none of the charming gentlemen posters on THIS board would ever do irritating stuff like THAT!

And it beats me why some guys won't let you see their reviews to see if there is a high level of like mindedness.

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Exactly. My P411 profile is thorough and includes photos of me. And I did that in the hopes I wouldn't end up having an appt that goes badly.

My reviews are all over the place...
They really aren't intended to give a woman an idea of what I like..
I get confused, and concerned that my reviews will affect my future dates...
That kinda sucks....
What if I want a gentle GFE date.. And my last was getting tied up, and whipped

What we do can be risky, first of all. Reviews can also very telling in terms of how he treats/speaks of/respects women. If a guy writes reviews and they are insulting or objectifying, I won't see him.  

Of course you don't. What do you have to lose? Oh. Right. LOL.  

Using your example, I think that if you make a point of letting the provider know you're looking for a gentle GFE session through email/phone it shouldn't be a problem. I advertise as a kinky provider but still have requests for vanilla sessions from time to time and am happy to accommodate.

Fucking brilliant to post pics of yourself on a hooker (screening) site.

Most profiles are bullshit anyhow...for both hookers and johns.

Now you sound like ole saturnsky.

And you said it couldn't be done! Lol.

I mean if you know a guys handle then you might know if and when he posts a review and then a hooker might put him on a blacklist because she didn't get that coveted 10/10.  

Let's play this  

You may not be able to pinpoint to 100% exactness if the guy contacting you is a "hobbyist" or not but I think you can discern arrogance, a sense of entitlement, rudeness, condescension and a general disdain of women from a few emails.  

I mean wouldn't it be better if he met with someone who would be the best match? I hear complaints about lack of chemistry and the hooker seemed to not be into it blah blah, well maybe if she knew some things beforehand she could have passed and saved the guy the hassle or rocked his world because she knew a little about what his likes and dislikes were.

Hey...I've been a referee as well  

In fact I said an a$$hole is an a$$hole no matter where he is from. Not interested in the numbers, I could care less, as long as they have $$$$ that's all I need *wink*. Hell I may as well do away with screening altogether and see every guy waving greenbacks. I mean that's all we seem to care about right?  

For example, I know that ChgoCpa likes kinky fetish art, making his own mulch, riding scooters, and his zodiac sign is Capricorn.  

If a lady does not want to see a guy in his 20's all the explanation in the world is not going to do an ounce of good. Okay I will speak for myself only, it would do you no good at all with me. If you kept persisting I would see that as problematic, as in if I said no to something BCD would there be this pushing from you to get it?  

When you get into BDSM..
You learn to do it safley.
You never know Rod..
Don't knock it untill you have tried it.
You might like it..

There is no reason it has to be any different except that in a P411 profile you CAN mention some of the things you like or want to do, whereas in an email, it would most likely end up in the trash. That way I can see it working FOR you provided the lady you contact will see young guys.