I don't mind being rejected straight away.  Everyone has his/her own reason.  Just don't keep me waiting till the last minute without saying anything.

to call it "rejection" when someone with whom you have approached about a business deal does not want to conclude arrangements with you....

I have never been "rejected" (your word) for a session.
If I were I doubt I'd care. I'd put it down to sloppy screening or a mis-understanding of some sort. Her loss.  As someone said, lots of fish in the sea.

Just for shits and giggles I told 2 providers I'm A.A.

There were two providers visiting the same week and I was trying to figure out whom I should see.  

They somehow think it's a romantic rejection instead of realizing that some gal hit her quota for the month and has her rent and car payments covered.

I had screwed up early this year with a provider, and didn't see her. I posted something on a regional forum, and she sent me a PM. I couldn't tell if she was teasing me about the cancellation or taunting me.  

Dear Mr. Tidwell:
I have just got to ask as you submitted the requisite information summoned from you by the providers that you alluded to what where the follow up questions? Also did they question the veracity of the references and did they also bother to cross reference them here or on other verification sites if not other copulatory cyber conventions such as this?  Also did the providers do this themselves or did they have assistants that didn't know where to go to confirm the veracity of the information before them?  Henceforth there has got to be a reason why you did not get to have an initial meeting with them.

Maybe... Just maybe... You didn't pass the test?  The point isn't turning in information. The point is reviewing the information.  This is a HIGHLY personal business, there could be any number of things that didn't sit right. Don't worry about it, find a better fit.

hehe i was thinking the samething alcoholics anonymous

appear that they revolve around the axis of 23 degrees, in the geographic coordinate of netherlands. Henceforth, the follow up questions are irrelevant due to the requisite information also being irrevelant. This is attributed to the fact that the cerebral mind has henceforth already arrived at the conclusion (ie: mind was made up).   Also, no where in the thesaurus does it state with any veracity or integrity or credence that our newbie Tidwit would have the answer to the aforementioned bombardment of a thousand questions heretofore.  

By booking someone else you are interested and having awesome sex with them. Cone to think of it I need to book some action for Friday.

i just spend my money on something else..

Gentlemen are not 'supposed' to be rejected in this world. Well, I get that, but of course, I beg to differ. I have agreed to not see quite a few gentlemen for my own personal reasons, and while most did understand, a few not so much. The 'rejection' piece comes more into play with those who you choose to 'not' continue to see after you did meet and they would still like to. That's the hardest rejection here I'm afraid.  

I've actually never been "rejected," but I've been canceled on same-day. In that case I just jerk it and move on. I'm amazed at how appreciative providers have been when they've sent me a long apologetic cancellation notice and I reply, "no problem, see you next time." I mean, how often do guys totally lose their shit: "you bitch, how dare you cancel on me!"?

The non booking out of the gate refusal and the actual "I saw you but never want to see you again" type refusal. I think this type feels more like a personal rejection as the hooker has seen him.

There are two refusals that bother me for a little while:
1) Provider agrees to meet with me, then same day shortly before the agreed upon time she tells me she has to cancel because of some illness, only to find out she was seeing guys all along.
2) Having been with a provider for three awesome sessions, and after taking a break from seeing her for about 3 months, she refuses to see me again because of chemistry.

Who's very profession is, essentially, to (performance) lie to make men feel good, would suddenly transform into that brutal friend who tells it like it is?

1. I'm not bragging, but I've been "the guy" on the other end (she's canceling on you to extend our date). Yes, she's being selfish, but the excuse is an attempt to let you down easy. It's valid for her to be concerned about possible blowback from straight-up telling you, "I'm having an awesome time with this guy and we want to keep going, so I'll just have to see you some other time. Sorry!" It goes both ways - guys cancel on girls when their top choice becomes available at the last minute too. You just have to shrug it off and keep fishing.  

H+T tells it like it is.  That's why I asked her.  If she does not wish to answer at all, that is fine too.  

I can see hearing the truth in the case of her fucking some other guy at the same time would be rather shitty.  My explanation of the situation I was referring to was not clear. "Shortly before" was a time frame of 8 hours, but hey if you can fuck a girl that long, I say bravo.  I have had others tell me I take things a little to personal, but it gets easier to let it go now than it did in the beginning.  I doubt I will become a woman hater, but I can see myself getting a little tired of the hobby with a lot of the unnecessary lies.  To me, it is unnecessary for a provider to tell me they are sick, when in fact the truth that she over-booked would have been the more professional thing to say.  I was kind of venting in my earlier post, and I will let it go now.  Thanks for your input.

'connection' here. I don't know about you, but connections come more often than not and for me has nothing to do why I won't see someone again. There are other factors involved sometimes where that is concerned.  

Both were same-day cancellations. One said she was sick when I checked in and the other never responded when checked in. I believe the one who said she was sick, but at the same time I can take cancellations with a grain of salt and let it go without losing my shit like some of the schlubs on here. "Overbooked" would still be taken badly by some because it's clear that they got bumped. It happens to us all at some point. No harm in taking a break if it's getting to you.

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Kind of like a reverse gangbang and bdsm session all rolled up as one.  I look forward to reading all the truth tomorrow.  

I'm not saying that it's ALL and ALWAYS an act on the part of the provider. In most cases, both parties make a sincere attempt to find a true rapport and connection during the date. Sometimes it's successful, sometime not, and sometimes it's one-sided. In the instances of no or minimal connection, as a provider, you are being paid to give your best effort, and this is where the "acting" comes in. I don't interpret that as a deception - unfortunately some do.

Dogpile? Gangbang? Jumping on you? Huh?

I scanned your post which I'm so infamous for doing at times, and all I saw was 'overbooked'. That word doesn't exist for me in any equation so I can't comment. But I will say in your defense if that is the case, don't see the WOMEN WHO BOOK BY THE HOUR ON THE HOUR.  

As a hooker who has told the truth and had it backfire, I am more likely now to lie. I lie for a living Wonderboy69. I am an actress and get paid to create an illusion of being your lover or girlfriend for the time you paid me for.  

a nice insightful view into a real pros mind.

I really wanted to see how you would answer that, and you were very good about it.  I like the fact you told me what you thought in a respectful tone.  That meant a lot to me.  I want to give you this:

There are plenty of providers out there who won't fake it - they're the ones whose performance reviews are all over the place. If you had a good time, then she truly liked you. If not, then she didn't.

This subject does not matter much any more.  I have let it go.  

I liked both of your responses Miss Foxy.  I made light of your answer with a joke (apparently a bad one) in order to laugh it off and not take it personal.  That is the way I handled my interpretation of your response and the tone it was given in.  For some reason I get the feeling that this admission will still not appease you, and that is very sad.

On guys who show little to no respect for hookers. Calling them bitches and whores in a aggressive tone gets the same from me. I see no reason to be nice to an asshole.

Was respectful and deserved an equally respectful reply.

while option two will simply make you a "bitch" in the eyes of many.

Some guys really are too sensitive to be interacting with the opposite sex, even in P4P.lol

BTW was that respectful???

Weird indeed.. You are  
Gotta admit that it's quite satisfying knowing your 1st choice bailed on you after you canceled me in your double booking excursion. Wth likes to be told they're 2nd best? #i'll just be friendly and tell you to go fuck yourself