I started to date a very nice lady recently and after a few weeks, the relationship turned more and more sexual (no sex) and she confessed me that she never had an orgasm ever.  The question for the board is if you have any recommendations on helping her to reach an orgasm.  I been with enough ladies to know what to do bcd but this case is new for me and I don't know if I should do/try something different with her.  Please serious answers only.

I guess you don't know how to use your tongue much...

The female orgasm is more mental than physical. I was 25 when I had my first and was married. If a woman is insecure about her body, how she moves, how she sounds, etc. she won't be able to relax enough to allow herself to just let go. The hobby has seriously helped me in that respect. Now, I can have an orgasm whether the guy is good or not.  

Great advice

Tell her how great she is.

Thanks London, perfectly said.
If I might add, the brain is the largest sexual organ. All of us have differnt errogenous triggers. Taking your time with her, and discovering her errogenous zones......those physical touches that excite her, and the mental images that provoke her sexual/erotic responses.
As London said she must allow herself to relax, and release. It will happen, but be patient.
Good Luck

I think the gal the OP is talking about isn't a hooker.  

And, it's not "drivel" lol. It is sound advice. If he wants to ask TER about his private affairs, it's not like I have anywhere else to be.

Yep...put the gal in the drivers seat of a new car and push the ignition button.

Posted By: London Rayne

And, it's not "drivel" lol. It is sound advice. If he wants to ask TER about his private affairs, it's not like I have anywhere else to be.

Maybe she has a secret fetish that you don't know about.

Just make her relax.  Tell her not to focus on the orgasm or put pressure on herself to have one.  After some repetition it will probably happen naturally, when she's stopped thinking about it.

What you do is only known to you and those you have been with. Based on that, you and those who you have been with know, what different you should do.  

Only you know how to do that!

Wow, what a drag.

Different strokes for different folks.

It's what you do outside the bedroom that will help. A woman's orgasm is as much mental as it is physical. I agree with others that she may have a self image problem that prevents her from letting go. Make her feel attractive and sexy to you. When she is confident in that, she will able to be free of her insecurities. Compliment her, flirt with her, tell her how hot she is and give it time to sink in. Good luck.