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You are completely correct but
Babylongirls See Agency Profile 1136 reads
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1 / 12
What’s the Best Advice You’d Give a New Client?

Honestly? Relax. And I don’t mean pretend to relax, actually slow it down a bit.

Most first-timers overthink everything. The message, the timing, what to say, what not to say. In reality, being polite, clear, and normal already puts you ahead of the curve. You don’t need a perfect script or some secret formula.

Go in with realistic expectations, respect boundaries, and remember there’s another human involved. When you treat it like a natural interaction instead of a high-pressure performance, everything tends to flow better.

That’s my take, but I’m curious what others would say.

If you had to give just one piece of advice to a new client, what would it be?

inicky46 61 Reviews 56 reads
posted
2 / 12
You are completely correct but

I'd say, human nature being what it is, your advice is impossible to follow.

Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 57 reads
posted
3 / 12
Bring money. EOM


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RespectfulRobert 68 reads
posted
4 / 12
Follow her rules.

If she says she wants to be contacted by text, DON'T call her. If she says she needs a deposit, don't try and talk her out of it. If she says she needs X, Y and Z for verification, don't just send X and Y.
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Don't like how she runs her business and what she needs to see you? Easy. Just go to another girl on your list.

RespectfulRobert 65 reads
posted
5 / 12
Totally agree.

I don't often disagree with the OP but there is no "normal" when you are starting out. While everyone can agree the provider must be treated with respect, many of the other things he mentions only come from experience.
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Case in point, having “realistic expectations” isn’t an innate trait, as it’s a learned mindset developed only through experience, often over many dates with different women.  
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Relying on provider reviews as newbies are taught to do here can sometimes create unrealistic expectations, and that’s something only time and real, in-person meet ups can truly correct.
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Excellent post!

ModernMuse 59 reads
posted
6 / 12
Take the time to read the ads (eom)


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ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 71 reads
posted
7 / 12
Introduce yourself and give all the info….

… when you reach out to book.

That sort of inquiry will always get a response and will always get top priority from me. Someone who sends a nice intro like that, I’ll go out of my way to book them.

HarperHarlow See my TER Reviews 51 reads
posted
8 / 12
Re: Introduce yourself and give all the info….

I totally agree with this statement. I don't answer the one word .... ''hey, hi, whats up'' I need a little more than that to go on. But I most definitely go out of my way to respond in a quick time frame and always thank them for sharing info with me and tell they are appreciated.

brokeloser123 73 reads
posted
9 / 12
other than…

…pay the full rate without negotiating, don’t be a dick, and be clean, what else is there????

brokeloser123 61 reads
posted
10 / 12
Re: Introduce yourself and give all the info….

i avoid giving screening info in initial text or email because i want to know who i am sending it to first

but i will introduce myself and get right to the point with date/time and length of appointment.  

usually end with a please confirm receipt and i wil send screening info

so far it has worked  

the exception is a website form because at least there is some assurance it is legit

HandsSolo 70 reads
posted
11 / 12
Best Advice

The most important things are to be clean, safe, and generous.

Lip-lock2 55 Reviews 69 reads
posted
12 / 12
Umm

Kick him in the balls and then charge him extra for BDSM!!

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