But I have noticed that there are others as well who don't want to put out a hooker to perform what "they like".

I had the miss fortune of seeing a few brief seconds of the gay HBO show, and that's what I saw.

is it even possible? Don't blame me, blame HBO.

They won't get mad, they can always say no, have a thousand ways to say no without pissing you off and have already heard every request you can think of a lot of times, so they won't be surprised.  Your wife, OTOH, might get pissed off at you if you asked her...

I doubt that any gal who's been a hooker for a month hasn't heard most types of requests.  That's why they sell their "time" for so much.  You are seeing gals that charge over $ 150/hr?  If not, then I guess that all you're looking at is a blow and go.

I would definitely say ask. As long as she has a profile and you have reviewed it to know if something special is on or off the menu go ahead loosen  up and ask.

It can swing both ways. A good provider can be similar to a good therapist. Meaning I feel the energy off a client and provide accordingly. If he's shy I'll be flirty and forward, if he's an obvious dom I love to shut my mouth until it's forced open. Either way the old adage is closed mouthes don't get fed. If it's imperative to you that you lick my clit until I have a love seizure go ahead and let it be known. Even a therapist can't read minds… Grab your girl after establishing a little trust and just place her in the position you want so you can do what you need. Helen Keller could catch on to that.

He sounds like a passive guy too afraid to ask for what he wants.  
It's cool tho. He can be a mangina and still not be called gay.  

ol really? You are one of a kind

I have an image burned in my head of watching M and M action on Metro... Jesus Fuckin' Christ, why can't they get a room... Around Farragut West Metro Station - circa 2005.. Still can't get it out of my head... Thanks for reminding it dick...

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You will probably have to book a courtesan for a grand to get such extreme fetish activity as CG in Carolina.  Of course, you could book a GFE and then agree to the $650 upsell.

Vern doesn't do PMs. He just meets you by the back alley[e]

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You are paying her SUCK your COCK !!! Good fuckin' Lord......

Then you might actually know what's on her menu.  Shy is one thing.  Blatantly stupid is another. All this simply proves you should go back to the Newbie Board.  At least there you won't be shit on for your idiocy and naivete. And you might actually learn something.
Swim?  Swim?

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But I love when someone asks nicely and then I just want to please them.

Wait, pick a lady up? Like in a bar? Or physically lift her off of the ground?

I found that my hobby experience got exponentially more satisfying when I started giving direction on what I liked. I'm not talking about commands, but rather rolling your requests into your pillow talk, such as: "it's hot when you do ___" or "you're so sexy when you do ____" or "can we try ___, it really turns me on." You can do it as a give-and-take, where you each reveal a turn-on and dig into common ground.

Are you sure that you aren't related to the Dungbeetle?  Will somebody please buy this guy a clue?

AND occasionally hitting a piñata with a well deserved stick.

Now put your cape down and listen to the good advice you are getting from your betters. If you can't ask for a simple change of positions from a woman that you are paying, nothing you can say will convince ANYONE that you have a spine where it comes to women.

PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE, for your own good go to the newbie board with these kind of questions where you can ask them without being ridiculed. Once upon a time your OP simply would have been moved there to spare you and the board from this type of trainwreck, UNLESS of course I was in an evil mood, then and only then would I have left it here.

BTW to answer your question about confidence as it applies to me, I see at least 200 different women every year. I don't care how much confidence you've got, you are going to score that much civvie pussy unless you are a rock star, or similarly famous, especially in your mid fifties. AND FWIW many celebrities hire pros as well, despite their ability to score with as many civvies as you would think they would want. Scoring with a civvie is only half of the equation, getting her to leave is the other.

Thinking back on it, can you believe that I actually modded that board for two years, and that I was even nice there? Of course I also modded P&R at the same time so I didn't have to be nice all the time. Somehow I just can't imagine being nice all the time. lol

Look the guy can't even ask for cowgirl, how the fuck do you expect him to ask if he can fuck her in the ass?

So I assume that you have a common real name, similar to heroes, real athletes, and philanthropists... And not caring what we think would look different...

You're only a jerk if you can't take 'no' for an answer

You said you wouldn't be replying to "aliases." You live in bizarro world where Senator Blutarsky being wrong once somehow validates the thousands of wrong things you say here. If you remember on that one occasion, I stood up for you. You're wrong so often, I've lost count.  

Got a date with one on Monday and that's part of the agenda.  That and up against the wall and...

For the personal attacks (like "tool") you decry but participate in.