So when a provider does not DFK or disallows certains things in your session (even though you have read TER reviews saying otherwise), can you always chalk that up as the provider not being physically attracted to you?

read all the reviews, usually you will see alot of conflicting reviews as to dfk, daty, bbbj vs bbbjtc.

Not necessarily.   Remember that some reviews may be exaggerated, to say the least.

Although I do agree with Korn, I think generally you're on the right track Hobbyist01.  Sometimes it can work the other way too!  If a provider does something like DFK, but her reviews say that she does not--you may be on the opposite side of that coin!

The reviews often contain services that were never provided. First, believe it or not, some reviewers can't tell the difference between kissing, LFK, and DFK.  So they use DFK in the review even though it may not have happened.

To get a flavor of what to expect, you have to read several reviews often from reviewers who have been around to get an accurate idea of what is or isn't available.  Try to find a reviewer who has seen someone you have seen and compare notes.  If his review seems accurate, then it is likely you can trust him for other reviews.

And, if you're really lucky and the lady likes you, then you can put "...but YMMV..." into your review and drive the rest of us crazy with jealousy!

What about receiving a particular activity during first session or two but find it taken off the menu on the next meeting, even though both of you get along quite well. This happened to me and led me to believe the woman had entered into a relationship and reserved that activity for him alone. Ever happen to anyone else?

I think it is a combination of things.  There is no question that some reviews are liberally written.  So you have to take those with a grain of salt.  Reading several reviews will help you with that.

However, your date may include things are not customarily done for whatever reason.

Not to be mean but I've had clients shove their tongues down my throat and when I see them next time I sort of turn my head away.  I don't know how to be tactful about telling a client that their kissing sucks.  I don't kiss that way in real life, there's no way I'm going to eat a tongue in this one.

I used to never kiss but it seems like people demand it so I do it but not without some resentment.

Okay here we go:

I can see one client, the chemistry is great, so I may offer him everything under the sun. I may choose to do this, for there was a connection from the beginning. Maybe he brushed his teeth, washed in between his legs, it could be numerous of things which make me feel comfortable.

I can see another client where he arrived funky, missing teeth (tooth decay or something suspicious just where his mouth is the last place that I want to kiss lol), bad breath, and will just lightly kiss him on the lips, without tongue. Or, may not go below him to a certain point where he not thoroughly clean.

I can see a client who is thorougly clean, great hygiene, but his attitude towards me, will put me off totally. He could come in and order me around like I was an employee at McDonald's or Burger King. Yes. Then, I will offer him the basics, and do my best to keep the smile on my face. But yet, will notate not to see him again, for he is bossy.

What I am saying is that YMMV exists in every session for both clients and providers. It is based on the chemistry, and other influences (maybe to some looks, hygiene, personality) of the gentleman going into the session. In some cases, it could be the other way around, where the client is not attracted to a provider's hygiene, looks, and or personality. Unfortunately, we are not robots in an assembly line where you know that every single guy who walks up to us, is going to get that exact bj like the next one in line. Each bj is different. Each kiss is different. Each single act is different with each person. Each situation is different with each person.

I say read reviews, and make sure that there is consistancy. This says that this particular service COULD ALSO (notice the words could also-doesn't mean it will) happen with you. Just because something is written down on a forum somewhere, does NOT imply that it is the law. Every situation is different with different people.

My scenario (above) is what defines me a YMMV lady.





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a slave taste their food before each meal.  I would like to be your Provider Inspector.  For merely the fee of her time and any aquired costs (dinners, theater tickets, pony rides) I will check her out for you and report back promptly.

Your post is very informative, but I would say in all fairness to your clients, you should offer discounts to those you choose to deny services. That isn't a cut to you, but why should one man have to learn that a woman he is seeing has given her all to another man and did not even charge the other man more? Believe it or not, that can damage a provider's business bigtime. Your mileage may vary should be equal to : Your fee may vary! What's fair is fair

...so when I see a provider who has that 'funky' smell down there, I don't see her again even if everything else was so good.  SHould I tell her, tactfully?

that because a gentleman comes to me with nasty teeth in his mouth, and I don't kiss him, that requires me to give him a discount?   Where does it say that I should give a discount to every single guy with bad teeth, stinky breath, bad hygiene, etc. ? I am sorry, but I am not their mother, and this is something that they should take care of, before seeing their provider.  I disagree with you. We providers have a right to deny services to anyone, who makes us feel uncomfortable, just like clients have the right to walk away, if the situation is on the other foot. In that case, most of the time, the woman is just left standing in her hotel room without another appt.

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This guy has booked a time slot which could have been for someone else.  If he doesn't have common sense to wash up properly and you don't find out till the middle of the hour then he shouldn't get a discount.  

I always offer for a man to shower especially if I know he's coming from somewhere late in the day like work, etc...

Using your "logic", if you drop out of class.....a college should give you a refund? Or.....if you don't study sufficiently and only earn a "C".....it should refund part of your fees?  Or....to return to the origin of the term, Your Mileage May Vary.....if you are one of those all too numerous immature jerks who guns his vehicle even while approaching a red light.....and then has to slam on the brakes at the last second.....your mileage WILL vary......on THIS planet.....(this is an example of why ladies had to come up with....."He just doesn't get it".....must be from somewhere beyond Mars.....)

You are presenting extremes that no sane person could argue about. However, many times it comes down to a matter of simple preference in a client's "look", I have heard this a few times directly from providers I have befriended. All things being equal in the hygiene and dental care areas, would you still expect a man to pay equal money for less than equal service?
I am posing a question of ethics to you and nothing more, let's just assume for argument sake that all things are equal except the fact that you find one to be more attractive than another, then what would you do? This is a question of interest, we are both working under aliases here. lol

On a campus that would reject you on sight! lol
Before you jump to foolish conclusions next time I suggest you wait until you have a clue as to the content of the message being delivered you moron. I am not going to go into my credentials for a nobody like you, there is no benefit to me in doing so. If you want to jump in the mud and start a flame war I will oblige you whole-heartedly. I am middle-aged though and that pretty much denigrates and eliminates your theory of my "immaturity". Next time jump in at a more appropriate time, such as AFTER the clue bus runs over your simplistic carcass.
Thank you very much

That's probably the most typical reason. And it happens
alot with the stuff that's hardest to find, like
Greek and receiving ASian.