All set, clean behind the ears, balls fulla jizz and brain drained of blood!  Flutters in the tummy and cell phone is fully charged and you get the go ahead... you knock on the door.... it opens, you walk in and there before you is a gal who is NOT the gal in the ad.  oh, she seems to be some alien form of life.... what DO you do?  do you leave, do you stay and request only a BJ (Covered at that!), or do you bolt?!  what DO you do?

Same scenario, only this time the gal is ok, not up to the pics on the web, but doable.  same set of responses?

Same scenario, only this time the gal is clearly better than ok, as cute or maybe cuter, better bod etc than the photo.... same set of responses....

So What DO you do?

restaurant and you get something else. No matter how appealing or scrumptious it looks to the eye, I, as a paying customer will send it back because that's not what I ordered.  To me its the matter of principle.

My money; my rules.  You may think differently and that's OK.

You condone dishonest business practices. Some of these whores bank on your little head doing the thinking for you. Be the smart man and give her the finger on your way out

If it's not what I ordered and not what I want, as I said before I don't accept it.


If it is tasty and good I'm always up for a new experience.  

Why cut my nose to spite my face, there's no principle involved in taste.  You like it or you don't we all differ, but enjoy what you can while you got it.

but I wanted more and I had my heart set on something else.  What would I do, it would depend on so many things.

If you open the door and the girl who greets you isn't the one in the ad/pics, you politely decline her invitation and part ways in a tasteful manner. Not cool to mislead your clients........

And if the girl is ok as you say, but not as hot as you initially expected, the visit is still warranted but you should do the hobby a favor and right an honest review, to inform the rest of us.

And if she's hot when the door opens, everything is golden, what's there to debate? Only thing I can think of is a lackluster performance. But I'll take my chances

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the experience is disappointing.. That's why.  Good, honest providers don't need to post fake pics to get business.

Above all, its a very dishonest business practice.



-- Modified on 12/3/2012 7:55:36 PM

She's a beast, you walk, no question.
She's "Doable" but not up to the standard of the pics, still walk, tell her she should use better pictures.
She's a Doll, fuck her (literally), she's protecting her ID, but not for lack of looks.

that statement isn't entirely true. Now I understand not seeing an unattractive or ok provider who uses fake photos, but beautiful ones who have a legit reason and look better than their fake pics, well hey it's your money, but the wide brush you paint isn't completely. I won't ever again post a real photo of me ever ever again (in this internet age) due to a real life career. honest, check...good provider?, let's say great provider, check...fake photos not b/c I can't get biz, but instead for discretion, check!

you can blur your face and photoshop any tattoos you got.  There is no need to post out and out fake picture.

I have also seen providers who posted no pics whatsoever and marketed themselves through back channels and M&G. Another way to maintain discretion

-- Modified on 12/3/2012 8:03:10 PM

I'm with you man

For example, if the girl comes to your place and you live in an apartment building where neighbors are nosy, do you really want to risk saving the few hundred and having all the neighbors witness a scene?

It really depends on how easily you can get out of the shitty situation, more than...what would you do?

How would you know if their reason for using fake pics was legit or not? There use to be a lady in my home town, who consistently used fake pics & switched her phone #, & she was drop-dead gorgeous. So why would she use fake pics? Because she was notorious for giving half-a** back-rubs, & nothing more... pissing a lot of people off, so she resorted to using fake pics so she couldn't be ID'd.

So, you decide to stay cause the lady is hot, with no explanation of why the use of fake pics.. you are still taking a chance on the performance aspect of the appt.

like the one you described.
can't generalize on this one either

...you encourage deceptive business practices.  This ruins it for the rest of us who REALLY do look like our photos and who are who we say we are.

I deliver as promised and believe those that don't should be shut down.

been pointed out--(1) run, (2) run, and (3) run or stay and take your chances since she is hotter than what you expected.  Since she is doing an incall (you knocked on the door), there should be a safe exit.

Jessica makes a valid point in that for those ladies who do it the right way, with no deception, by staying in scenerio #3, we do these ladies a dis-service.

Jessica, you are an absolute jewel and your photos don't do you justice.  You deliver an incredible GFE and you are my AFT!!!

To keep the ad up on the phone. When the door opens, say "Your not the girl in the photo's, and I am not the guy who called you."

There are easy ways to blur faces, tat's, and any other marks that can be identifying, while maintaining business integrity. Even more annoying is the old photo. Sure its you...from 10 years ago. If the woman I am standing in the door looking at is loosing her battle with gravity, and McDonalds...but her pics have her made out to be a co-ed...then I am bouncing. And no, I am not going to feel bad about it. Knowingly walking into a room alone with a woman who's pics are obviously deceiving is a great way to get ripped off, have a shitty session, or to end up in the coach section of a cruiser.

I am sure that there are GREAT girls out there that use fake pics for whatever your reasoning. I don't care if your pussy has the secret to eternal life and you have pages of 10/10 reviews...you are not worth me potentially risking my freedom.

-- Modified on 12/3/2012 9:19:10 PM

fake pics are false advertising and deceptive.. whether you are better looking than the pics and deliver a great product does not negate the deception...

better to post no pics and state your reasons than to post fake/stolen pics or, possibly, acknowledge the pics are fake but make the statement that you use a body double...

I could not recall anyone ever asking "what would you do" to the general membership.  You've given me a new perspective on why a legit provider would use false pics.  To be honest, the ladies I see regularly are incredible in looks - but they do not advertise - they are students/business women etc. and can't affort to be linked with the hobby!  Thanks for the perspective that puts my experiences in the appropriate context.

I was very concerned about posting real photos because of all I had going on at the time, so I didn't.  For the first few months I had a ton of reviews on another board and not ONE of those guys knew the photos were not me...it was just 4 or 5 I think, but then I started posting all over that the pics were NOT me, and no one bought it til I showed them where to find them lol.

Once I had a photographer and a way to conceal certain things that would out me, I only used my real photos. Get this...they thought the REAL photos were the fake ones lol.  Don't always assume that if a girl uses fake pics it's because she is ugly or trying to beat you somehow...yes, that is 90 percent the case, but not always.  The girl I used had huge thighs and fried hair, so I was actually doing myself a disservice, but all of the reviews stated, "Photos do not do her justice."

I am not saying it's right, but exactly how does this affect other women? If she is butt ugly, what do you care if she uses fake photos? How does that affect your business in a bad way? It does not lol. If guys are reviewing her badly, it actually HELPS the competition. I think many women are just pissed they have to basically out themselves by using real photos just to get business, while others have found a way around that.

Thank God I did not have my real photos up 2 elections ago, or I would have been kicked out of school and possibly lost custody of my damn kid. Some women have more to lose here than others, which is why they do things the way they do. It is not always about deception, and if a girl flat out says, "These are not my photos, but look like me" that is all one can ask. No one has to do shit, if they don't want to. I know a woman who has never in 10 years used her real photos and she charges over a grand per date....her reviews confirm her looks and performance too.

Using your real photos that are edited to shit, is the very same thing btw lol. I know women using pics that are 10 years old, photoshopped to remove 15 years off of their face, remove stretch marks, weight reduction, etc. That is also equally as deceptive if not moreso, because they look NOTHING like the photos.

-- Modified on 12/4/2012 10:49:28 AM

I smile, and leave!


  Good to see your august moniker again old friend. (see PM box)

the gal in the photo is hunched over, contorted so that it is impossible to determine how her boobs fit onto her body, the thickness of her thighs, size of her butt, or if she has a gut that dunlapped over her belt!  

so, If she provides a body double which duplicates all that I wish to see, no issue.  I do know guys who insist on seeing the face, and while I like to see the face, I can totally understand why women would wish to keep that hidden.  There is a provider in my area who has a tatoo on one of her nipples, it is very distinctive, and she posts that all over the internet.  However, I once asked if she would be a dinner date to me - nice restaurant, conversation etc.  Her reply, no, I would not as that would make it obvious I escort!  WTF!  here she has a very unique mark on her body, which she posts all over the net, and yet, she refuses to have a dinner with a gentleman!?  I had an affair with a married woman- and she never had a problem dining with me!  She even asked for doggie bags to take food back to her kid!  

What are these peoples thinking!

don't post photos with marks that can identify you or of your face. How easy would it be to send a face pic to local police especially if a provider works from only ONE location all the time? Not that hard.

The thing that disappoints me is that fake photos might be representive of the provider in certain ways but when I make the appointment I may be making it based on some attributes that might not be representative.  I've seen providers who people say the photos are accurate but I get there and she may even be more attractive than the photos, but just not what I was expecting and then I'm bummed.  I have never backed out, even if the girl looks way different and is not my type at all because I feel bad about just leaving.