...if a complete stranger were to offer me 4 to 5 hundred dollars to kiss and nuzzle my ass for 40 to 45 minutes I'm all in, plain and simple.

My advice, don't bother calling lilli.

If read a girl's profile and full reviews you'll get a pretty good idea how her sessions go and what she welcomes (and doesn't).

but aren't we all? lol

I mean let's suppose you spent the entire session worshipping her pussy, wouldn't that also be considered "depesonalizing" to some? Don't worry what others think, unless you are biting without permission or otherwise causing pain, you are here to enjoy yourself. Do what makes you happy

Hope to get some feedback from both hobbyists and providers on this one:

I'm an ass man.  I think the female ass is the most beautiful stretch of real estate one can find.  I love looking at it, feeling it, kissing it, nuzzling it.

So, my question: Is it demeaning to a woman for me to want to spend long periods of time on it?  Especially, kissing it, nuzzling it?  I mean, when I'm down there and enjoying it, she's basically up there "on her own," so to speak.  We are not talking together, so it seems like she might think the experience is a bit depersonalizing.  But, in a 60-minute session, if I had my druthers, I'd be down at her ass for 30-45 minutes of that time.

Am I a pervert?  If not, what's the best way to signal that this is what I'd like, without turning her off?

Looking forward to your feedback.

lol!  (But, who's Lilli?)

if that is what you choose to do in that time you are with a lady I do not see an issue.I do not think it is demeaning at all just let her know you are an "ass man" and that is what you like to do.The lady is there for your entertainment so I doubt that she will tell you "No,I don't do that."
Hell,I like my butt played with smacked a little so you never know until you ask!

I spent 20 minutes licking, kissing and rubbing lotion on my ATF's hot little tan-lined Filipino ass last night. After that she stuck it up in the air so I could lick her asshole while I fingered her clit with one hand rubbed her titties with the other.  If I didn't perform this ritual during an appointment she would probably think that there was something wrong with me at this point!

If she thinks I'm demeaning her by doing this she certainly doesn't show it.  If it makes me a pervert I can live with that.

There's this lady I've been talking with who has a fucking gorgeous ass. I can't wait to bury my face in it and wear it as a hat! The funny thing is, she's known more for her tits!

Some women have the most amazing forms. We're lucky in that here we can pay to be with them and worship them partly or as a whole.

First of all, you are talking to a bunch of fellow perverts here.   Second, I am a self-admitted ass man (among other things) and there's a thread further down this page (or maybe by now on the  second) with lots of ass-lovers comments on the glory of the glutes.  For one more example, a couple of nights ago I spent a great deal of time admiring, caressing, nibbling, licking and smacking one of the finest asses I have ever seen.  Discretion will not permit me to discuss how I finished but it involved the ass and was spectacular.  She  appreciated all the above, as well as the verbal praise I bestowed.  Like all ladies, she loves her own ass and enjoys hearing it appreciated.

Why does the photos on your site zoom from the size of First Class Postage to the size of a 3 Ounce (84¢) postage?

What purpose does it serve?

Not trying to hijack the thread. Many provider websites do this, why?

People have all kinds of attachments.  Feet, legs, necks, etc. Asses are probably the oldest fixation: Our biological ancestors approached females from behind and were attracted by the lovely duo globes of female behinds. In fact, the relatively large round breasts of human females almost surely evolved to mimic ass globes visually when the female is approached from the front.

I like to spend a lot of time in DATY, but I only enjoy it when my partner is involved and enjoying it.  I wouldn't be interested if she were emotionally removed so while I love behinds, I would not get into just being there if she weren't involved, but perverted? Are you kidding?

The only kind of thing I find perverted involves things involving non consenting adults or non adults.

....and did not intend my remark in a mean or way.

I hope you understand that I was just joking.

I'm definitely an Ass Man. I don't see a problem. Go for it! There is nothing that says you can't let a hand do some roaming to other places while you're there. You can always ask her how she feels about it. She might have a few fun suggestions.

There is nothing wrong with being a Kiss Ass.


Thank you
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romeo mentioned me because i'm a submissive woman and so would very much dislike the sort of activity you describe. there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you desire, and i certainly wouldn't describe it as dehumanizing...but you do need to be aware that it will not be every woman's cup of tea, paid service provider or not. my advice would be to find a way to subtly hint to the provider of your interest what you wish to do, BEFORE meeting. because you certainly don't want an awkward situation where she is surprised and horrified and you have the wind taken out of your sails. during an initial phone conversation or email, perhaps you could say something like, "i love to take my time and really worship the female form," or something to that effect. that should give her an idea of whether or not her comfort level is compatible with your desires.

this topic is a bit amusing for me personally, as some time back i was getting to know a gentleman who shared your desire. we had enjoyed several phone conversations and were getting along very well, until during the last discussion he mentioned how he couldn't wait to "explore" that certain part of my body. it was clear that just like you, he wished to spend the majority of our time together touching, kissing, nuzzling, etc. my bum. thank goodness he couldn't see my jaw drop or the expression of horror on my face! it was such a disappointment, i had to immediately inform him that i would not be comfortable with such activities, due to my personality, so a meeting was completely out of the question.

so yes, definitely let her know (again, subtly) beforehand. and i'm certain you will have no trouble finding a woman for whom the idea of her bottom being lovingly attended in such a fashion is extremely appealing.

Thanks, Lilli.  Very helpful advice.  Much appreciated.

Ok, so you might like to spend 40 minutes ass munchin - that's fine.
Pussy men also like to spend a lot of time pussy munchin  - 30 minutes or so - that's fine too.
If you are a Fuck Machine and wanna spend 50 minutes fucking - that's fine too.  

I'm sure not all ladies want to get their ass lick, pussy munched or fuked for more than 40 minutes,
but just let them know .. after all, you're paying.

A lady once complained that she thoroughly enjoyed her pussy eaten that she came too many times with me being a pussy lickin man, and she was afraid there was nothing left to "O" for the next appointment.

still in the game, I'd let you nuzzle, caress, taste, lick, and take my ass any way you wanted it!