anyone ever been held over a barrel by a provider? i had one ask me a week or two back, how much do you make... knowing im self employed and live in a nicer area of o.c.... kind of sent a red flag... i think i'm likely done seeing her.

I was caught in the Ashley Madison hack and started receiving blackmail attempt emails.  I just ignored them.

i looked into ashley madison, quickly found it was just a scam... were you ever able to meet up with anyone from that site?

No.  Total scam.  Females were fake bots.  Ratio was 99 to 1, male to female or worse.  

Yes, back when I was young and foolish before TER.  Fortunately, I had a friendly detective pay her a visit

a Vegas stripper i hooked up with a couple years ago ...  met 4 or 5 times .. maybe 6 .. went to dinner ., even an overnight . was going great over a couple months . and then she emails me saying she has pictures and going to send to wife and daughter if i dont pay her $$$$ ..... well i told her, one the wife knows, and two i am not a tourist from toronto .. i have lots of powerful friends & police captain friends in vegas ..  you can embarrass me while you rot in jail for blackmail and extortion ( and prostitution)  .... she disappeared  

I don't think she was ever blackmailed but it almost wrecked her marriage. Fortunately, she's OK now and still plays occasionally.

when I was new to P4P.   Just wanted to compare what I was able to reel in at 50 years old compared to what I could get by paying.  Every women I met with in person (about 8 total) was MILFy, and most had so much emotional baggage I knew it would be nothing but drama to get involved with them, so I never wanted to go past the M&G dinner date with any of them.   Didn't think about it again for years until AM got hacked and I started getting the extortion letters and emails.  I fucked with a few of them, but nothing ever came of it.  I told one that I would meet him in person to give him the money but it had to be a place with no witnesses around.  Never heard from him again.  Lol

Same here... I never joined AM,.... I just inquired because I was curious, but they still got my info.  I just ignored it also.  I never have knowingly been with a lady who was cheating on her husband or SO, never will either.

If I ever do the SB thing I am using an alias.  

A provider threatened to out me to my wife unless I divorced her and married the provider.   (I think she was unclear on the concept.)

Yes - from a provider who I wrote a mediocre review on - because her service was lousy.  Thought I’d been careful about my identity but she came after me with all sorts of threats to out me.   Fortunately, she had talked about a family member during the appointment and I was able to do some quick research and give her some of her own medicine.
The review site was NO FUCKING help, even when I provided all the blackmail emails.
Lesson learned - don’t write negative reviews.

Still married?

Interesting topic