I assume not?

I can't control whether she actually IS attracted to me - I am who I am - but I'm going to do what I can (read: hygiene) to make it so.

but, at times, one can tell

i have always had supreme self=image problems, so i still find it difficult to believe anyone finds me attractive physically.

It's not likely any of the ladies I've seen through this arrangement would look at me and say "Oh, I've gotta have that".

Personally I like to think that she likes my huge knockers, long light brown hair, clear blue eyes and tasty pussy

...the rest of me, on the other hand...:-/

I just care that she treats me right without drama.

Better by far if you are...

Don't you like it better when men are attracted to you???

Now you're just toying with us. Not fair.

ut just keep on waiving in front of us what we can't have, lopaw.

I own a mirror and get I am a 4 (up form a 3 do to weight loss) and most women do not find my looks attractive. Do I care, yes, yes I want to be attractive to women. But I also get what reality is and I am not male model material. That is not to day no women are attracted to me, as I know of at least on that I turn on, just many will not find me physically attractive. And given She is likely taking me site unseen, even if I was a (insert hot male celeb name here) look alike some still wouldn't be attracted do to natural variance in tastes in male looks among ladies. Yes I care, but it isn't a huge thing. I do take steps to make sure what I have is as presentable as possible and clean.

But I don't think I'm ugly either. I have to admit, I always wonder if/when I see a provider what she's gonna think. I have to assume she sees some not so attractive guys. So the answer is YES, I do care Miss Erin

I would just assume she isn't.  

You have nothing to worry about  FACT 😊

Zen you're hot and cool   I don't think a woman could not be attracted to you.  Unless you morph into a real dick in person. Personality can change any GQ guy into a  2  very easily.

Of course, that would not be my case.

The reason I asked is because I did a lot of people watching on the cruise.  One couple in particular stuck out in the crowd.  She was very young,  pretty and in perfect shape.  He on the other hand was a good 30 years older or possibly just lived a rough life....not attractive in the least and seemingly cranky all the time.  I could be wrong about cranky but never saw him smile.  She was supah friendly with the gents closer to her age and better looking than her date/so/hubby   whatever he was.  At one point I thought that's probably why he wasn't smiling.  But,  he  catered to her like she was a princess regardless.  Personally,  I would not be able to be with someone in public like that if there was no attraction. For me that's part of the whole bfe. I love pda's and all that jazz.  When this dude tried to kiss her she was clearly not interested.  So,  I just wanted to know if the woman being physically attracted to you all here makes a difference.

I'm sure I'm not every girl's cup of tea physically.  However, I am going to be confident, because I am a confident person. (Not asshole confident like Trump.)  I am going to be funny, because I find humor and irony in seemingly everything around us.  I am going to be passionate.  And I am going to treat each and every lady I meet the respect they so richly deserve.  

these guys are much sweeter and a ton more fun and sexy to be around and are anything but cheap. Not like the guys who "think" they are gods gift to women here who act like complete dicks out to use this world as an ego-boosting mind game. Players if you will and typically don't think they should "have" to pay because they think they are hot (most aren't anyway in my eye) and cause all kinds of problems lol.  

I promise. No morphing. I'm a natural 2/2.

There is a large age gap between me and the providers I see.  No way to avoid it.  There is basically no possible way that I can expect there to be any physical attraction.  If I cared about that reality, then I would not hobby.  

who made it perfectly clear from the beginning that she found me unattractive, but she was attractive and performed well (she had very moist climaxes each time) when we were together.  After the third visit, though, i decided not to continue seeing her.  Let's be honest: i am in my mid 70s, not bad looking for my age (I have all my teeth and hair, for example.) I am a type: well trimmed beard looking like the professor I spent most of my career being. People generally find my personality appealing (I had a radio show for years and the station conducted regular surveys and found that most radio listeners found me "appealing".)  Would a young or even mature woman find me as attractive as a young muscular broad shouldered .....etc etc etc? Don't make laugh.  
So I would like it if I felt the provider found our encounter pleasant and certainly not repulsive and me considerate and respectful of her. .

It all depends what "attraction" means to a woman.

Thanks dahlin  💋

Lmao  nu uh

I know a 74 year old man originally from Arkansas.  Old enough to be my father.  But so well put together,  handsome and good in the cunnilingus department that I get excited when I hear from him.  The accent is sexy too.  😊

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My dates are always pleasant, easy-going times and the chemistry usually forms easily.  I have no idea if I'm attractive to the 40-somethings I've seen, but I doubt that any of the younger women would give me a second look.  That said, the relaxed, pleasant hours we have spent are probably also quite comfortable for the women.  That's enough for me.

Do you mean simply physically attracted, or attracted to the whole person? ? If she seem to genuinely enjoy her time with me, it's a way better time than if I'm just another client.  If she thinks I'm a mutt but really likes what we do, I'm fine with that.

In the hobby  I guess it would be strictly physical if you see her once for an hour.

Maybe she was a provider and he was a client?