Hi. A provider friend has asked me to post this thread anonymously. So much can go wrong online, and crafting an image is so important. She discusses things with me that sometimes I don't have answers for.  My thought was to put out a thread and see what this community thinks.

Here is her note:
Hello all:
I've had ideas for special events for many reasons.  I'd love to hear your (kind) thoughts.
My concern is that so many of you seem so very "funny" about the idea that I see other clients...as if you are my one and only.   I don't wish to impact my image in a negative way.  

IDEAS FOR EVENTS:

1. A Meet-n-Greet at a bar near my location.  Many of you are skittish, worried if I'm real, if it's safe, etc. I thought to do an occasional "Happy Hour" at a local bar-restaurant that is discrete (no one knows me there) where a few of us can meet at a quiet side bar.  This offers the opportunity to at least meet me first and see that I'm real, experience my personality, and have an interaction. i'm outgoing, extroverted, and It sounds like fun!  
My concern: Will you guys have a problem if several potential clients are there to meet me as well? I will be offering this as a free social event.

2. A Casino Weekend:  My hours to be available are typically limited. I thought to take an entire weekend at a casino/resort and be available for those of you who wish late nights, early mornings, long or short stays, anything goes. I do have a "partner" in this business.  He is my webmaster, adviser, sometimes driver, and all around good company, plus security.  He is not my husband or boyfriend.  If I were to do a Casino Weekend, I want him there just for my peace of mind and safety.  My thoughts are to have a blast for a weekend!  Take calls while on the casino floor, "Hi!  Meet me at table 6!"  and/or to meet clients at a discrete table at a side bar with my friend.  After some small talk, I'll go up to the room, you can follow 5 minutes later.  
Again, my concern is that so many of you guys are so skittish if my driver is there downstairs with me. What do you think?  It sounds like so much fun, but I don't want to do it alone. Plus I'll be available for all of the midnight/2am people who want to meet me.

3.  A Football Party at my private incall location.  I have an idea for a party for five or so at a deeply discounted rate. I'll wear a French maid's outfit, serve beers on a tray, and serve up whatever each would like.    It sounds hot to me and fun!
But once again, clients are soo skittish about other men. I don't get it. I can't tell you how many times I've been asked, "Am I your first of the day?" Umm...maybe.  But maybe not.  
What do you think?  Would any of you be interested?  Will I ruin my reputation if I post such an even on my website?

4.  Other Special nights: An outfit, a wet-T-shirt night, etc.

5. What thoughts do you have on Events?

Thanks!

It has nothing to do with you seeing other guys before me (I'm not that stupid, I know they exist.)

I just don't want to actually meet them.

That's where this is going, right?  
As long as you are hot, have great reviews  and I know that proper screening is being done with the mongers.

Am I misunderstanding anything?

A M&G is fine, and I don't mind at all if other guys are there too.

A casino weekend is fine I suppose, but I am not going to revolve my entertainment around YOUR weekend. If we are in the same casino at the same time and I find you attractive, sure I might see you. I have ZERO desire to meet your pimp. If you can't meet me "alone" in an environment as secure as a casino, that's on you. Have a nice life.

 
A "intimate" Football party with just you, me and five other horny dudes? HELL FUCKING NO!!!

 
Your "friend" seems to think guys are interested in "sharing" her and having her be the focus of all of us for an extended period of time. Sorry, but I have ZERO interest in buying a "timeshare interest" in a hooker. I think your friend is seriously deluded.  My thoughts about "events" is that there better be at least as many women as men for me to have even the least bit of interest in such a thing.

 
Sorry that my thoughts aren't "kind" but they are my thoughts.

You come join my party this summer with some of the countries hottest providers for an all inclusive fuck fest...all the food, booze and pussy you could possibly want  no football though

1) Go to M&Gs.  Find them by going to the M&G Board here.  If there are none in your area,  Try to encourage someone reliable to start one.  Just be sure the screen carefully.
2) Add a "social option" to your menu.  Let guys choose a dinner-only date, or just coffee or drinks.  No sex involved, to price it low.

Meet and Greet maybe. Only because it's free.  

2. I don't go to casinos

3. Why would I pay to be around other hobbyists and not have alone time with you?

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Halloween theme. Guys were scheduled every hour (never crossed paths with the guy before or after) and there were usually 3 or 4 other ladies present. One guy and 4 or 5 ladies for an hour (probably 50 minutes counting shower time) of pure pleasure. Cost was around 4 bills. I went to about 3 or 4 of these before she stopped offering them.

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Actually it should be on an ad board, but since her identity is unknown it really doesn't qualify as a thread.

 
and come on Mick, are you really interested in competing with several other guys to get enough "me time" with a hooker that you are paying for the evening, no matter how low the price? I can see why she would be interested in this type of thing, I fail to see why any men would be interested in "time sharing" a hooker for the evening, especially with four or five other guys you don't even know.  I wouldn't be interested in this kind of "date" even If I were the one being paid. Sorry, but I am much too selfish for this kind of thing.

Yes, I told the anonymous heaux that it should be on the local board. So it was placed there.  

As to the idea of a gang bang or  a servicing of  clients around an event, like a football game. It just comes down to some like it and others don't.  
It has to be well thought out. The men must be patient and friendly.  And most of all the heaux must be an insatiable slut.

(I believe that this thread has been made by two people that have not thought any of the safety issues out.)

It feeds some of my more voyeuristic tendencies. In some ways GaGambler, we are very similar and in some ways we are very different.
My being open to these kind of activities is probably due to me looking for knew and different thrills because I don't drink or do any other mood or mind altering substances. So,I get off on experiences that give me a shot of adrenaline and dopamine. I am guessing that you know what works for you and go for it often and well.

 Instead of just vanilla sex, which I also greatly enjoy, I partake in many sexual pleasures, as long as they are safe for me and not harming others.

1. A free meet and greet? I'd be ok with that. I don't mind a social gathering with the idea of meeting a hooker and getting a feel for her, FOR FREE. Well, I'd pay for my food and drinks obviously, maybe a couple for her even, but there's nothing inherently bad about this idea.

 
2. I don't gamble and the nearest city with legal gambling is over 2 hours away, so it wouldn't work with me unless I decided to spend several hours there. But then, I book the provider for an hour or two, and then what? I don't gamble, so the whole point of a casino trip would be lost on me, and on top of that I don't want to meet anyone's pimp. I use TER specifically so I will never have to meet a provider's pimp. Yeah, this provider doesn't call him a pimp, she calls him her friend, but congrats, she snagged herself a nice pimp. It's good that he's a nice pimp, and that the provider feels he's a reliable, decent person, but he's a pimp, and I don't want to ever meet pimps.

 
3. She needs to clarify, does party of 5 mean gangbang? If it's a gangbang maybe that'll be ok if only because I've never had one, and doing so might be fun to try out once, but, if it's not a gangbang, then no. And if it is a gangbang, I'd rather just skip to the gangbang. She can have some beers out, and the lingerie thing would have to end quick.  

 
I don't want to meet other guys who are yearning to fuck the same girl I wanna fuck, and I don't want to deal with the competition of getting a girl's attention. I have self-esteem issues, I'm shy, I have trouble talking to people as is, and getting a girlfriend is hard for me, but in this scenario I also have to get blueballed by a hooker in lingerie who thinks I want to see her serve beer to other guys? No, I don't want to watch a hooker serve beers to other guys, I want to rip that lingerie off and fuck her. That's the point of hookers, to cut out the bullshit games, to avoid dealing with other guys going for the same girl, and to avoid lame-ass teasing(unless I want it), just strip and fuck. We can have a beer before and afterwards, but my pleasure comes first.  

The thing with meeting providers, at least for me, is that it's selfish. It's supposed to be about me, not some other guy. Suck MY dick, lick MY balls, swallow MY cum, let me thrust MY dick in you, make ME feel good. The provider wants to be submissive and serve beer in lingerie? Then serve ME beer, and ME only, and wear that lingerie for ME, and ME only. I don't want to share a girl, it's not what I want to do with escorts or otherwise. Why would I pay money to see another guy have a great time? Again, only in a gangbang scenario and only once, just to stay that I did. Otherwise it doesn't make sense to me, even at a discounted rate.

Oh sorry, I mean "webmaster, adviser, sometimes driver, and all around good company, plus security. "

When you go to a hotel, do you want to see pubic hair in the shower, toilet not flushed, and bed unmade with hair on the pillow? Maybe some trash still in the garbage can. Hotels make it look like you're the first and only one that has been in the room for a reason.

Yes, on the rare occasion I bump into a monger leaving or coming to see a provider, it bothers me.

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to see someone! You made me spit my water out!

Steph XO

If the post was placed or moved there by Admin it wouldn't still be here on GD, What happened was the OP reposted the same OP on his/her regional board

 
True, in many ways we are much the same, in others we are very different. Don't worry, I make up your slack where it comes to drinking and you make up my slack where it comes to being "vanilla" in my sexual tastes which I freely admit are rather vanilla as opposed to many of you "freaks" lol A lot of people assume that just because I have a very high libido that it translates into wanting to get more and more kinky which could not be further from the truth. Someone like fish who probably gets laid at a rate maybe a tenth of what I do is most definitely a 'freak', while I am not "freaky" at all, I just like to fuck a lot. lol

 
I don't judge others by what kind of sex they prefer, unless of course it's a hooker or her pimp who comes on the board asking if we would be interested in a certain service or type of service in which case I don't pull any punches, and in this case it's not just a no, but a "HELL FUCKING NO!!!" and that doesn't seem to be just my opinion, but the opinion of the overwhelming number of guys here and 100% of the female mongers as lopaw hates the idea even more than I do if that's even possible.

Yeah, the OP is either really naive or playing the part. The heaux he's pimping, or whatever, contacted me after my gangbang comment. She stayed anonymous, but didn't realize that doofus posted this on the GD board instead of her local. She is also quite new and naive.  
I've seen this kind of setup for a gangbang before. The heaux has a pimp or client put out an ambiguous post and depending on responses, contacts the positive responding mongers. Then, privately sets up the event. Keeps the heaux out of the lime light and keeps a certain amount of security.  

But, it can also be the start of a set up. Or worse, a poorly thought out experience. When done by experienced providers, it can be a fun time for those who like that kind of thing.  
I also know that, sometimes amongst mongers, there are those that protest too much and also those that agree too much. Lol
Have fun.

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