TER General Board

Yes, but you will not . . . .
GioVanna90 580 reads
posted
2 / 17

I don't see the problem at all asking her if she has any specials running. Considering you saw her two months ago and she recently texted you, it seems she likes to keep a client/provider relationship where she makes sure her customers are happy. Go ahead and text her "Hey...do you have any specials running? Last time I was too busy to take up on your $100 offer.." or something along those lines. I'm willing to bet she will accommodate you.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 611 reads
posted
3 / 17

To save your money in case you need to buy gas for your house?

Dfusethesituation 401 reads
posted
4 / 17

If you have saw her previously as you have stated and she reached out to you then I don't see it as a problem.  Here's the thing IMO, she probably reached out to you because she was in a bind financially and needed the funds.  So depending on her standing right now is going to dictate how she receives your proposal.  I recently got an email from a lady that I saw about a year ago, she is higher on the rate scale now (400/then, 1000/now).  In the email she stated that she was "grandfathering" previously seen clients in at her old rates.  I received this email in the last week of December 2016.  Due to work and grad school I couldn't set up a meeting.  I got a little free time during the first week of January 2017 and decided to email her and see if we could set something up.  I received an email from her assistant saying that she was no longer offering her "grandfathered" rates because that was 2016, and this is 2017 (her assistants words).  So in the span of 2 weeks she went from offering grandfathered rates to it's a new year and no more grandfathered rates, go figure.  

Not all doom and gloom, I have reached out to old friends and found that they were willing to grandfather me, but then again I don't go looking to cut deals or haggle providers.  It is what it is, either you want to see her (at her current rate) or you don't.  My opinion is it never hurts to ask.  And if someone is so petty as to put you on a "do not see" list or blackball you (after offering a deal) then she is probably not someone you want to be dealing with.
Posted By: my_house_has_wheels
2 months ago So there is this milf escort I saw twice. She was banned on here I think, but anyway one day she text me she has a $100 special. I wasn't ready or willing at that time, but now I am interested. Can I just ask her if she has any specials? Also before her profile was gone, she had a "repeat client/review deal" where she gave an extra 15min or took $20 off. (BS) lol.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 514 reads
posted
5 / 17

be using the alias when you contact the lady in question, so Lexi's caution is still valid and should be considered.  

ValuedCustomer 570 reads
posted
6 / 17

BLs.... DNS... etc.--- probably not much of a concern in that price range.  When you start bargaining over an extra 15 minutes, I am guessing that screening is probably something like - You Got Cash!  Good - come on over...

But hey... if you need save a Jackson to put a couple of gallons in the tank... ya probably need to bargain.  Hell - if you are into that price range you ought to be haggling every damn time.   Hey... a Hamilton is lunch at the QT...

If the whole BL thing bothers you -  just get a new handle.. and you should be good to go.

Remember to check the bathroom - and make sure you lock the door behind you... don't know who might be in there...

Vaya con dios!

Damn - there's a reason why it's good to have money....

theoldcavalier 2 Reviews 457 reads
posted
7 / 17

I assume it would probably not get a client blacklisted to ask if a very recently advertised special is still in effect. But in general I just figure the posted rate is the posted rate. Haven't been blacklisted yet--so far! that I know of!

John_Laroche 378 reads
posted
8 / 17

any hooker who has ever offered $100 specials isn't going to be offended by a guy who pulls up in a motorhome asking if her specials are still on.  

I am curious though. Is this a B&G rate or do you get to at least take your shoes off and stay a while?

Skyfyre 310 reads
posted
9 / 17

Her intention may not be as benevolent as you think. The cynic in me thinks it's just one provider trying to DISCOURAGE a client to negotiate a good deal in particular and in general to DISCOURAGE all potential clients from searching out such deal -in effect solicitING LOWEST BID from competing providers.

Can you say ANTI-TRUST? Can you say PRICE FIXING?

Providers, just like real life businesses, are loathes to be subject to PRICE BIDDING among one against another. They of course try to DISCOURAGE it as much as possible.

Back to the original post, there's ZERO chance the provider mentioned will react NEGATIVELY or OFFENDED if asked for special. It is because she was the one who ORIGINATED the special in the first place. By doing so she already showed herself to be flexible on pricing and willing to NEGOTIATE.

When a provider gives out special that means she may have cash flow problem so I would urge and recommend strongly that fellow hobbyists take advantage of it. It's a win-win proposition. You will be appreciated for providing the cash in time of NEED.

Moreover we hobbyists should REWARD good behavior such as specials. That's how we can ENCOURAGE this behavior in the biz so it becomes more POPULAR and PREVALENT.

That is how it is now with car companies. They know that to generate quick cash flow and take business from the competition is to give out REBATES and INCENTIVES. As consumers we benefit a great deal from this competition.

Skyfyre 344 reads
posted
10 / 17
Dfusethesituation 496 reads
posted
11 / 17

I'd just contact her and ask if she was still offering sessions at her special rate? Situations like that is why I save texts.  If she scoffs and says she doesn't do so and so or has never offered that, screen shot her the text.  Again, I don't like to bother ladies with negotiations, but if a lady contacts you then the floor is open.  

ValuedCustomer 353 reads
posted
12 / 17
russbbj 89 Reviews 559 reads
posted
13 / 17

I saw a woman at 400/hr, during that hour and before I left she told me that now that I've seen her, I get a 2hr appointment for 500. I was perplexed, the numbers didn't make much sense. So the next appointment I requested I asked for a 2 hr appointment, it was granted, then I brought up the rate she mentioned and asked if in fact that was accurate. I got crickets chirping, then she texted back that her 90 min appointment was 550 for return customers. Then shortly afterward she texted that her flight to town was postponed due to weather and she'd need to cancel. This was obvious that she was bailing on me because she thought I was being a cheap bastard and a negotiator.

At this point I was more than willing to pay the stated rate on the website, but the damage had been done, and all communication with her led to crickets chirping with no further contact.

Regardless of what I heard her say, I should have based the rate off of the web site and just forgotten what came out her mouth. Now, I've lost the opportunity to ever spend time with her, and she's an absolute gem.

The moral to the story is, it's always best to pay the rate she publishes, if you like her and you want to see her. Don't let small amounts of money ruin the situation for you.

Just as with anything else in life, there are repercussions for every action, if you are OK with them then by all means do what you want.

Dfusethesituation 450 reads
posted
15 / 17

I agree with your statement for the most part.  But here's the thing, a provider shouldn't offer discounted rates and then when you remind them of it, they renege.  I'm sure you didn't have a gun to her head when she offered 2hr @ $500.  I abhor such practices.  If you tell a child that they can have some candy "later on" and then they ask you later on can they have some candy, why get pissed at them for asking for something that you agreed to give them?  

Posted By: russbbj
I saw a woman at 400/hr, during that hour and before I left she told me that now that I've seen her, I get a 2hr appointment for 500. I was perplexed, the numbers didn't make much sense. So the next appointment I requested I asked for a 2 hr appointment, it was granted, then I brought up the rate she mentioned and asked if in fact that was accurate. I got crickets chirping, then she texted back that her 90 min appointment was 550 for return customers. Then shortly afterward she texted that her flight to town was postponed due to weather and she'd need to cancel. This was obvious that she was bailing on me because she thought I was being a cheap bastard and a negotiator.  
   
 At this point I was more than willing to pay the stated rate on the website, but the damage had been done, and all communication with her led to crickets chirping with no further contact.  
   
 Regardless of what I heard her say, I should have based the rate off of the web site and just forgotten what came out her mouth. Now, I've lost the opportunity to ever spend time with her, and she's an absolute gem.  
   
 The moral to the story is, it's always best to pay the rate she publishes, if you like her and you want to see her. Don't let small amounts of money ruin the situation for you.  
   
 Just as with anything else in life, there are repercussions for every action, if you are OK with them then by all means do what you want.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 420 reads
posted
16 / 17

Posted By: my_house_has_wheels
2 months ago So there is this milf escort I saw twice. She was banned on here I think, but anyway one day she text me she has a $100 special. I wasn't ready or willing at that time, but now I am interested. Can I just ask her if she has any specials? Also before her profile was gone, she had a "repeat client/review deal" where she gave an extra 15min or took $20 off. (BS) lol.

GaGambler 404 reads
posted
17 / 17

Where else do you have an entire industry that has somehow convinced 99% of their clientele that it's "disrespectful" to negotiate their rates and an offense so severe that it warrants blacklisting?

I wish I could convince my clients that it was disrespectful to not jump at the chance to pay full price, and that not only did they have to pay full price, but that certain methods of payment were also disrespectful and would not be tolerated or accepted.  

I guess it proves that even when dealing with hookers, most men are still being led around by the dick, too chickenshit to stand up for themselves.

-- Modified on 2/7/2017 11:10:06 AM

Register Now!