As a single male, you will probably get very frustrated with AFFand most of the other swinger sites. Single males are not held in very high regard in the 'lifestyle'. And if you are going to try one of these sites, AFF should be your last choice. It is the most pricey, the least user friendly and in general the nastiest one out there (and I don't mean 'nasty' in a good way). Try Lifestyle Lounge it is a much more classy, high end sex site. They do not allow crotch shots as the main photo, most of the people on the site are REALLY attractive, there seem to be more 'real' single females, and for whatever reason single males seem to get much more respect(and play) on that site. SDC is also a good choice, very interactive and user friendly but single guys still have that negative stereotype. ALT.com, AFFs sister site has lots more singles who play, but you might be careful what you ask for on that one. LOL.
You might consider looking into one of the 'sugar daddy' sites. There are lots of them out there now under slightly different variations of the name. They are singles only sites that tend to be somewhat of a cross between the hobby and dating on match.com.

NOT a good site I can guarantee you most likely will not meet anyone very awesome on there unless you are hung like a horse and have pecs like arnold schwarzenegger when he was 25. Although I did meet my last gf on there...

It is for real. I have used it and have had success with some over nighters, lol. The only thing I had to pay for was the room and dinner. It does take a lot of time to weed out the fake/bs ads. Don't be surprised if you run into provider ads on that site. I have recieved many request for doubles, have not tried that out yet.

Re:Adult Friend Finder

I had and have been a member of AFF on and off for several years. I am slightly above average looking almost 40 married 6" cock. so I think i am basically a normal man. I have met 6 couples during that time and have had great sex with them, most of them I met with on many many occaisons. I also met 3 married women on there. One of them we had a one year fuckfest and had women join us who we met on AFF. Its all about being a paid member, and being very very very patient. Remember there are close to 100 men for every women or couple seeking men. It sometimes takes me over 6 months to finally hook up with someone new but its worth it.

Prior to my current adult career, I dated exclusively through AFF.  My last 2 BF's were found through it as well!  It was my experience that there were more men and less "real" women.  I constantly was told by the gentlemen that they had not met with hardly anyone while I was enjoying more dates than I could imagine.  

I believe that there are many working girls on that site as well.  I loved it but alas I too had to kiss a few frogs as they let anyone on that site.

met one lady who told me she was a Harvard Law grad - and in fact was on the Harvard Law Review... when we met, she was living over a garage, and was seriously trying to impress... told of villas in Italy and her law practice... yea - right, as she could not string together enough words to make a sentence...

Another I made a date with, called at the last minute and informed me that she was afraid to leave her house?  the rest... chat but no meet....

To my way of thinking AFF is composed of married folk who live vicariously thought the site... they are men (who don't have the guts to hobby) and women who are less than desirable - sorry but that is just my experience.

I had very good luck with AFF. My first attempt with without a decent photo and I did not get many replies. After I added photos. I got more contacts, but I played it cool and did not ruch anything. I hooked up with one sweet lady in Houston. Everytime we met it got better and better. She then invited me to a "party." My mind was blown with group sex, than after a week I started to think that things where getting too crazy and that next time i would be hanging in a basement somewhere. I also met one other lady and we met for dinner and we later hooked up.

I ended my membership when I started dating. You can tell the "bullshit ads" they have a photo that is way too hot to be real. These are scams.

My man and I (see posts above!) joined and met some very sexy, friendly, and compatible couples....but I think 'couple' is the key.