A gentleman is:

(1) non-judgemental

(2) Does not create or participate in gossip

(3) Does not manipulate others to suit his will

(4) Believes in live and live

(5) Is self confident

(6) Is Polite

(7) Never looses temper and start shouting at the check out clerk, customer service representative on the phone and at the waiter

(8) Is able to say " I understand but I do not necessarily agree and walk away"

(9) Not a fanatic about anything

(10) Doesn't believe is always right 100% of the time

(11) Is able to carry on a platonic relationship with the opposite sex

(12) Puts the welfare of the society before himself

(13) Doesn't tailgate and try to push people of the road just because he has Hummer

(14) Is considerate of others, not egotistical and is humble.

(15) Don't have the "me first" and I "always win" at whatever cost to others attitude

Finally, has the discipline to exercise his freedom in a that it does not interfere with others exercising their freedom.

and that is the characteristic of true true Gentleman. It is just not putting yourself in others shoes which you cannot realistically do ever. Metaphorically speaking, you can only guess which shoes others are in but will never know. I for one don't want to know due to my extreme aversion to getting into other peoples business but I do empathize and help if I am able to.

I remain stress free because I do not take on others problem. It is all about attention to simple things in life and an understanding of nature and how insignificant you are in the grand scheme that makes you humble and that makes a gentleman. Arrogance and selfishness does not make a gentleman or a lady for that matter.

Since most men in the real world are not gentleman, how are most hobbyists gentleman? Do providers have to reject 50+% of prospects because they are not gentleman? I'd like to think that providers choose to see me for more than just my $$$. Or do providers really take anyone who can show the $$$?

My definition of gentleman is someone who is able to put himself in other person's shoes. Frankly I find few men in the real world are capable of this. Most are controlling and selfish and do not like to read/obey rules.

anonymousfag probably copied and pasted his post from somewhere else.

of course in reality this may be a downfall most chicks like a (bad boy) not me by far.Shit I like a bad girl that goes with out saying,but I was raised by women with no male positive, or negative image to look up to, but that makes me the secure man I am today.wouldn't change that for the world.

If you want to see the provider again you'd better be gentleman. Not long ago I had a chat with a experienced provider and you wouldn't believe what kind of freaks are out there. That really opened my eyes and I perfectly understand their need for screening. Most of the time it's not about keeping LE away but rather keeping them safe from all sort of rapists and psychos.

if you give her a bad vibe she will not see you no matter how much you'd pay.

Hookers don't reject me, I reject them.

As far as your definition of a gentleman, it is weak. You have simplified it into one little paragraph.

Is there really such a thing here?

'Excuse me, my dear. May I stick my penis in your poop-chute?'!

Sometimes you people just kill me!

..."please" first?

Since you want to watch me in action so bad, you can sit on the chair and watch. You can take notes and post a review for me.

one is a moron who persistently shows "delusions of adequacy" ( I'd name him, but don't wanna get moderated------LOL ! )

As for the OP, do I detect "mangina sentiments" here ? When he says "someone who is able to put himself in other person's shoes", doesnt he mean high heels ?!------------

passing the astro-glide?

I prefer crunchy Jif!

I know Inicky was joking, but to be compared to AF is one of the worst insults I can think of, good thing you guys aren't in the same room, or punches might be flying by now. lol

I think this is one of those "you better be smiling when you say that, cause thems fightin words" moments.

Score one point for Inicky. rofl

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Now I won't try and claim that Hiro doesn't bring this on himself, but comparing him to AF is a low blow indeed. AF is a certifiable moron, Hirogen is only an asshole. I'd much rather be an asshole than an idiot. Oh that's right, I already am. lmao

As long as you respect the lady and her time. show up clean and fresh (or prepared to take a shower) and don't short the envelope you are fulfilling the "gentlemanly" requirements for a session with an escort.  If you leave her in-call and immediately spit in the hotel lobby on the way out the door, knock over three women waiting for cabs as you head down the street and run over an old lady in the crosswalk as you are driving away that's really inconsequential to the woman you just paid to suck your dick...

Of course the two are not mutually exclusive. There are several "idiot assholes" that post here, for further proof check out P&R. lol

even when coming from someone like you with a fascination for butt plugs.

an asshole."

       What are you doing moderating anyway? I thought you were in Vegas trying to decide whether to take the points on the Steelers or just go with a prop bet.

What you just described sounds so boring that it might get you a date with the bosses daughter, but not sure if it would pass a providers screening as she might fall asleep during the process and I consider my self a gentleman.

"Hookers don't reject me, I reject them."
This may explain why you don't (can't?) review.  I would personally pay good money (not much money, but good money) to read one of your reviews.  I bet it would be a hoot, with lots of funny stuff about how you showed her who was in charge, then had your way with her while she yodled praises about your giant cock and mad love skills.  The grand finale would be when you decided she wasn't good enough for you, pulled out, left her begging you for another orgasm and then you threw her out into the parking lot of the truck stop.
So, stop teasing us, dude, and write a review!  Please!

for assfucking! Did you go to charm school over the weekend Mikey? LMAO
I think "gentleman" is code for don't be an asshole, be cool, which I believe most of us are.

I am always polite to the ladies unless there do something to deserve otherwise. I don't do anything with out the ladies consent. I am clean, don't over stay my welcome, and pay exactly as instructed. I treat the ladies I pay like ladies. So MP there is at leased one of us here although listening to the ladies I may be a minority.

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ROFLMAO!  Sign me up!  Who knows?  Maybe I'll become your biggest fan?  I'll give you this much, dude, there's something impressive in your totally consistent nasty douchyness.  I'd almost use the word "integrity," but...NAH!

With no re-pop!

even though we may personally disagree on many things, i have no doubt you are truly a gentleman and that the women in your life are fortunate to know you.

i agree very much with your sentiment that a true gentleman "rolls up his sleeves" and is very personal and hands-on about making this world a better place. a gentleman is NOT, imo, polite and superficially courteous yet distant and cold. i also disagree with the OP in that a gentleman is always even-tempered and universally humble. a real man, by my measure, is one who may well lose his temper at times but knows how to use that good hearty anger to the benefit of himself and others, and how to check himself when necessary.

and yes, as a provider i only have relationships with gentlemen.

Stolen from Hiro's desktop

I got there on time, buttplug snugly inserted. She greeted me at the door strugglig to contain her revulsion. What would you like to do? she asked coyly. Without a word I removed my dickies and started masturbating furiously in the corner while sobbing uncontrollably. It took me a while to finish as I'm not a good closer, she sat on the bed and watched TV. Sensing her boredom, I removed the buttplug and began to shit mercilessly on the floor, hoping to entertain her with the sheer magnitude of my IBS, that's when she made me leave. All in all not a great experience, will not repeat.

Mikey? That's a joke. He can't even catch a flight without his mommy or a chaperon. Don't even make a suggestion like that.    

You can cyber-punch me all you want snicky. All I have seen so far are pitty-patter posts from you.
Right now, you are just a mosquito buzzing around my ear. I haven't come close to cyber swatting you yet.

   

It was a low blow. AF is pretty pathetic.
I don't mind the insults being lofted at me. I expect them. I do bring them on myself
I will not change for the sake of a few manginas, a few geezers, or a few mindless hookers either.

You are asking people to evaluate themselves in essence.  I am sure far more men honestly believe they are gentlemen than would be deemed so by others.

Men visit ladies in this world for varied reasons.  Some, more than care to admit it, do so because they cannot get a woman to go with them unless they pay, and often because they are decidedly NOT gentlemen.

Thanks, but I have no interest in punching Hirogina (except verbally).  He does that to himself quite adequately.  Besides, if anyone's gonna punch Hirogenius it'll probably be Mikey.

ROFLMAO!  MSOG! Wish I could write a review that funny.

This is probably true.  However, I am such an imbecile I have a hard time distinguishing between assholes and idiots.  Kill 'em all and let God sort 'em out, sez I !  lmfao!

fantastic

And you from what I can tell Lilli fit my definition of a lady. Even if we see the world quite a bit differently from each other.

Thanks, GaGasbro, but I'm gettin' my full daily ration of idiots and assholes on this board! Any more and I'd fuckin' OD! lol

That is so wrong on so many levels.........!!!!!!!!

I dated this girl once..........

She told me this story..........

Smooth Skippy and a dog were involved.

She was a leg humper as well...........The girl.

She (actress) used to do little kid birthday parties dressed as a clown.

Yup, I bent her over the kitchen counter one day when she came home.......

Giant red shoes and wig......

I squeeked her nose at the moment of truth............

hahahaha!

What a nympho, I went into heroin like withdrawal when we broke up.

Almost got shot.

Oohhh, Hirogina!  Your rapier wit cuts to the quick!  LMFAO!

John Wayne Gacy runs through my twisted head!

SICK motherfucker! Buried his victims in his basement. Fucking crazy crap. Yeesh!

man win. With the advent of the machine gun only a tank driver could survive being a gentleman. That said, the next time you book a session show up with no cash and be a perfect gentleman. Let us know if you get laid.

my experience as a love merchant has been overwhelmingly positive, and 99% of my clients have been perfect gentlemen.  each one of the gentlemen i've cultivated a rapport with over time has a warm place in my thoughts.

that said, it took me about a year to find my niche in this little world; and another six months to discover my own personal obsession with pleasure (in particular, with harnessing the power of gentle touch to paralyze people with pleasure) and really come into my own.  interestingly, the latter is less important than the former; once i realized i could be optimally successful by presenting myself honestly and being my own quirky little self, i noticed that i really began to attract the cream of the crop.  since then, i've had a 100% success rate (knock on wood!) and i can honestly say that all of my boys are gentlemen.

of course, the way you treat people is always important.  i do believe that in the majority of cases, when you put two people in an intimate situation together, attitudes bounce off of each other.  the best way to guarantee gentlemanly behavior is to open the door with a sparkling smile and an enthusiastic hug.

Yes, I do see my friends because I want to see them and enjoy their company. All are respectful and treat me like a princess.. The $$ is the bonus..

To be honest.. If a lady  chooses to spend time with someone who is not respectful, polite ,nice etc..
It should be stopped immediatly and if no,t she allowd the behavior to continue and it will........ There are many people in this world, Male and female that prey upon weak people..