Should a provider call a potential client's BS when they claim to be "first timers", and You know for a fact that he's met a fellow provider, or should you keep quiet?  

And, hopefully, he or they will tell us why.  

Some lies are harmless and are only meant to assuage the ego of the person telling the lie.

When a girl with 10 reviews a month, every month, tells me she is low volume, I don't feel the need to mention it to her or correct her. Its her fantasy, so be it. lol

they may not want other providers to know, for whatever reason. Thank you for the new thread!

If she knows who he's seen, she could gently ask, "What about N_____? Could they perhaps vouch for you?"

while i understand your point; it makes less sense when you dont even ask about it, and out of nowhere they make a point to mention they are first timers.  

thats exactly my point. when guys dont even wait for the question, and the lies just start flowing out the tongue... wtf! lol

And then I realized - well, that was stupid. I just gave him a clue of what's online about him lol!

you make a good point. some hobbyists dont want their ATF who may be a gg to find out they frequent girls like me. I get that.

You think just the opposite problem would come up more often.

that we all have some of our own bullshit too.  

They actually really want to see me, but know if they do, the other lady may pester him into seeing her instead.

definitely not a deal breaker for me and i dont stress it out if am confident they are lying about certain things.

I mean if this many straight guys have to lie to strippers, just how embarrassed do you think some guys are when looking to book a TS provider like yourself?

I had posted this question earlier as well, but then deleted it. It suddenly dawned on me that Sasha was probably referring to a client booking with a TS provider, and said client didn't want it known that they had seen other TS providers, instead wanting it to appear as if it was their first time..

I just keep quiet about things like that and just avoid any drama that's not necessary.  

Maybe the guy is socially and sexually "awkward". He'll go to the "Newbie" card as an excuse to you if he should fumble the session, you're thinking that..."aww, he's a newbie, how cute". It's a little less pressure on himself and that you'll understand his shortcomings. Now if he fucks like a season vet and brings out all these gadget and toys. then I'd say "Hey"!!!!!. But the way I see it, it shouldn't be a big deal, after all do guys call out the the fake moans and the clutching of the sheets after you O'd 10 times?....So give the guy a break and shrugged it off. And I don't think that he's some pathological liar or serial killer.....on second thought.

As a newbie I think I have some recent insight on this.

he's got his own reasons for wanting to appear "virginal" ... imo if a client's actions don't harm or impede you or another in anyway, let him do his own bizarro thing.

j/k professor, i know you are the master of providing ettiquette!

I told a provider it was my first time with a provider was when it was my first time. After that, I just told them I knew the routine. I did not get any discount or special treatment from the provider when it was my first time, except when it was now appropriate to talk dirty. When we were comfortable together in bed, telling her I wanted to DATY was replaced with "I want to eat you out."

What do you mean wtf? Wtf is its none of your business  
You looking for a new best friend or a customer??
If he decides to tell you a lie you mean to say you aren't also lying to him?
I'm not trying to be harsh with you but if you are looking for facts and/or truth being a provider isn't exactly the right place  
If the guy becomes a regular then it's another story.  
But it doesn't sound like that's the case.

Different perspective from an introvert with anxiety.  I used I'm new to this the first half dozen times not to game anyone just because the whole process is insanely nerve racking.  I mean shaking like a leaf nerve racking.  I felt it was a courtesy on my part so when I showed up she wouldn't think  I'm on something.  I did do all my research here so felt like I could use the buzz words.

have the answer, i.e., its a unique occurance in the TS scene.  I can't imagine any of us who hobby with women announcing they are a virgin when they show up.

Hey if you think it's good marketing and customer service to call out and embarrass your clients by all means go ahead!

That makes total sense!  

lose count, you'll be fine.

I am sure I scare the shit out of a lot of men... I just do also know that there are a lot of people out there who hate sex workers and want to shame them, and nothing pisses me off more than someone who sets me up to watch me stumble and fall. And there are a lot of guys and girls out there like that.

It's obviously not the motivation of every guy who says that, but as an anxious introvert, it really makes sense.

We're not going to get along, so I am just "not available" lol. Most of the time it's not to be mean, it's just - I know he will have a better time with someone else, because I haven't evolved to be that understanding just yet. lol

Probably means the first time seeing that provider. Not necessarily the first time in the Hobby.

I mean next to Gambler, I am not even a newbie yet, the sperm has not even reached the egg.  Then there is also the fact that some of us are really slow learners.

You refer to yourself as a girl however  with a cock bigger than lots of the guys here some may not agree with that term. Should anyone be calling you out on it everytime you use the term? The providers who have profile with and age listed at 26 and thin and they are clearly over 40 and flabby and then respond to an ISO young spinner ad, should we call them out?  

Just how do you know how big her cock is? I am not judging mind you, but it is a question worth asking....

I thought you were gonna ask him if he really has 3 balls.

I would never ask how many balls he has, that would be rude and I honestly had no idea that cock size was listed on TS providers profiles. I suppose a man can learn something new every day, although I have no idea if that information will ever be of any value to me

Johnny, do you really have three balls?  I saw a lady once with three nipples, so I guess its possible.  

...but when that handle starts off with "everyone twists the truth"... Hell, I almost asked him myself. And I'm not even a fraction the asshole you are.

Sorry, couldn't help myself...

Hahahaha  
Yup, knew this was gonna be a total recal thing the instant I saw the subject.

I had someone tell me they were a complete newbie, and they happily gave up plenty of screening info, but I quickly realized they weren't *completely* new during my check. I think he was worried that I would have a low opinion of him. Crazy, huh!

Why do guys lie about that ? lol like do you think your gonna get some extra special treatment maybe some  bbbj lol hahahahaha ahhhh NO .

Too paranoid to see any guy with nothing to show me and lie to me about not hobbying. I don't need that kind of stress.

I haven't been to a strip club in years, but I'm using this line if I ever do go.

This guy tried it a few times possibly and liked the way these ladies were treating him as a newbie. Maybe the way they took the lead in his encounters. IMHO

The 2 I have are big and a lady once told me "they are so big it's like you've got 3 in there"

But if you're not getting any bad vibes and the green light from your friend, then let it slide - this might be his fantasy in some weird way.

Two or three pages of reviews makes a woman a "well reviewed provider" Thirty pages of reviews makes the same woman a "dirty slut" lol

to give the provider a hard time?