Providers: Have you ever offered OTC time? What did it consist of? What was the pretext for providing a client with it?

Clients: Likewise, have you ever been offered OTC time, and what did it entail?

i get OTC time on a constant basis..unfortunately it is something i or they will never admit or discuss..what goes on behind closed doors is no one's business but ours..

lots of times, but as mac stated, I prefer to keep it between me and the providers.

Didn't you just admit to it?

Sometimes we just hang out, I go to her room and DATY, she gives me a BBBJ. Most of the time, I do some good foreplay with her. We sometimes watch TV. I usually take her out to eat, to a movie, or some live entertainment. Took her to the hooka place several times. I even went grocery shopping for her, took her to the mall for her to buy her stuff, and a bunch of other things.

OTC time for me usually cost me more money than paying for the hour, LMAO. One time, I took her to Costco and my bill was close to $400, LMAO. Hey, their ribeye was on sale, and its better to buy it on the roast and do the fileting at home. Anyhow, it sometimes it cost money, and sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes we just hang out and chill in her living room. Its basically like a real girlfriend relationship. It all depends on how comfortable she is with you. I never ask for OTC time. That means, I never initiate it. I let her ask me, and we work out a schedule between us for OTC time.

I've been around this site for pushing a decade now and while I am exceedingly aware of the bargain-for-exchange aspect of the interpersonal relationships here, particularly in the beginning, I have also found that genuine friendships AND relationships can develop.  And while I understand any skepticism and cynicism that one might have regarding that proposition, it has happened to me on a number of occasions in the last 5 or 6 years and has not ruined my financial standing in the process.

There are number of reasons for this. First and foremost, you have to let it just happen, you can't force anything like what I'm talking about here any more than you can any other relationship, romantic or otherwise.  You either click or your don't.  Second, I've found that some women here respond very positively to being treated with dignity and respect, especially if they've gotten past their "bad boy" phase.  Finally, the arcs of both the friendships and relationships that I've had with girls in the industry is quite similar to those in the civilian world and any issues or problems have been not related to their work but to the usual issues people have.  (I could write a book, ask me about my marriage to Kyndal sometime!)

The best example of what I'm talking about has been my friendship with Venus.  We met when I scheduled a 1/2 hour session when she was in San Diego.  In retrospect, it turned out to be the most wisely invested resources of my life!  We did click, started chatting on the phone regularly and became friends, at times with awesome benefits!  There were a number of occasions when we got together to just have lunch or dinner and had a wonderful time, with me not having to do more than I would frequently do with other friends and spring for the meal.  She also introduced me to a number of people in the industry.  Few people have an ready answer to the question, "What's your favorite phone call ever?"  Well, mine was when she called out of the blue about 4 & 1/2 years ago saying, "Hey, I'm flying into Burbank on Saturday, why don't you pick me up and you, me and Nikita go have dinner?"  Hmmm. Ya know what, I don't even have to check my schedule, that sounds like a fine plan!

She and I have drifted apart in the last year or so but I will always hold her dear to my heart, for all sorts of reasons.  Most significantly, like all of the other friendships/relationships I've had here, I don't regret any of it for a moment.  I've gotten to spend a great deal of time with some truly remarkable and attractive women thru this hobby, much of it "OTC."  Wouldn't change any of it for the world!

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Yes it's happened...

You do usual things you would do with any other girl... providers aren't space aliens...

Go out to eat
Go out to the movies
Visit each others' homes

Typical things...

Yest they include sex and overnight visits... it's just like any other friendship/relationship

I've gotten some OTC time, but most of it is simply extension of the time without further payment. I once paid a girl for the hour, but ended up with the best three hours I had in a long time (it was the second time I had seen her in a week, and I gave her a $20 tip the previous session, so that might explain it). Sometimes it's hard to imagine that we'd be in contact very much outside of the session, but I suppose time and dedication will determine that.

Then again, I'm new to the hobby. I've only started this summer.

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I've been so ridiculously indulged, my circumstances certainly are not the norm. My ATF spends tons of time with me, way over and beyond the $$$. She's ultra-cool and we clicked. Almost 3 years now... It works.

with a few ladies after we have become "hobby friends" as one is want to say.  It is usually in conjuction with a paid date, something like I pay for four hrs, and at the end she cralls into bed instead of going out the door.  Or after the date we go to dinner and a show OTC.

Some providers won't watch the clock so much, especially if they don't have another appointment.

The economy is actually beneficial in that way, at this particular point in time.

I have fallen in LUST a Few Times and stayed well over my appointment times,, several occasions I have ended up in a FLINGS that lasted a few years..

Memories...

There can be a lot of reasons a lady gives you OTC time - maybe she likes you, thinks you are a good client, thinks you might become a better client if she does it, knows you are paying a premium price and wants to keep you happy, or wants something else from you.

At the end of the day, in almost all of these cases (except the one where she is doing it because she likes you), you are paying for the OTC time one way or another. If she is seeing you for free because she likes you, that is a whole different set of issues, a lot more complicated.

Any lady who just gives away her time without considering the cost of the gift and the effect on her business is not going to be very successful as a provider.

zig

guys I click with, but won't be fkin anyone for free.