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plethora 7 Reviews 2955 reads
posted
1 / 31

Hello,

Newbie here who's curiosity needs fulfilled. I've been reading a lot of reviews lately of providers in my area to get a list going, and one thing I've been struck by is the seemingly endless claims by guys that they're getting their providers off. I kind of chuckle when I see this stuff because to me it's the classic stereotype of every guy thinking they're so awesome at sex that everyone they touch has an orgasm.

But particularly in a client/provider scenario, I'm finding it difficult to believe that so many providers are regularly experiencing sexual pleasure while working, let alone actually orgasming. It seems far more likely to me that provider reactions are a put-on for the enjoyment of the client. (Which I'm all for by the way, since just laying there like a log obviously wouldn't do anyone any good.)

But I wanted to ask the local ladies to weigh in. Am I off base here? How often, if ever. is it 'real'?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 1019 reads
posted
2 / 31

actresses.  Many are worthy of Academy Awards.  If you know what to look for, you will know if its a real O or not.  If you don't know the signs, enjoy the show anyway.  Its good either way.

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 657 reads
posted
3 / 31
JordannaLee See my TER Reviews 852 reads
posted
4 / 31

You do know that many reviews are a bit exaggerated, right? LOL. I don't care about getting off as long as I'm getting paid. In general I have to feel very comfortable with someone in order to get off during a session. I would say I cum 50% of the time. If the guy knows what he's doing (and physical appearance helps too, of course), I have a good chance of getting off. If toys are involved, there's a 100% chance I'm cumming lol. I can honestly say I've never faked it though. I would just feel awkward lol

 

Jordanna Lee

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 679 reads
posted
5 / 31

Pretty much what others have said -- both ladies and gentlemen here but that's all part of the game. Sometimes it's real and sometimes it's just the illusion. Most of the guys here want more than just sex, even more than good sex. Part of the review claiming how the the guy got the girl to O four or five time (or in a couple/once) is as much about letting others know the provider both will and can fulfill the fantasy (as one put it, they are skilled with IOP -- illusion of passion). And in some cases it's real -- though I suspect most of the time that's for the repeat visit once both have learned a bit about each other.

So yeah, you'll never really know in the case of the review you're reading if it was live or memorex and might even be fooled yourself or find yourself playing alone with the game and that's all good.
Posted By: plethora
Hello,  
   
 Newbie here who's curiosity needs fulfilled. I've been reading a lot of reviews lately of providers in my area to get a list going, and one thing I've been struck by is the seemingly endless claims by guys that they're getting their providers off. I kind of chuckle when I see this stuff because to me it's the classic stereotype of every guy thinking they're so awesome at sex that everyone they touch has an orgasm.  
   
 But particularly in a client/provider scenario, I'm finding it difficult to believe that so many providers are regularly experiencing sexual pleasure while working, let alone actually orgasming. It seems far more likely to me that provider reactions are a put-on for the enjoyment of the client. (Which I'm all for by the way, since just laying there like a log obviously wouldn't do anyone any good.)  
   
 But I wanted to ask the local ladies to weigh in. Am I off base here? How often, if ever. is it 'real'?

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 696 reads
posted
6 / 31

I'm not wasting my time faking anything, to make someone else happy!

John_Laroche 655 reads
posted
7 / 31

Gotta admit, whether she's going solo and I'm just watching, or she let's me help, a woman's "O" (provider or civvie) while playing with her favorite toy is an awesome experience.

As far as the OP's comment, yeah, if she's screaming and writhing after less than 2 minutes with your head between her legs on a first visit, it's probably an act.

As for reviews, do you really want to see a girl after her review said "I went down on her for 10 minutes, but she just laid there, then we fucked in doggie so I couldn't see her bored expression. 10/10, will repeat!"

FatVern 753 reads
posted
8 / 31

I think it has something to do with elevation and sea level.

Posted By: plethora
Hello,  
   
 Newbie here who's curiosity needs fulfilled. I've been reading a lot of reviews lately of providers in my area to get a list going, and one thing I've been struck by is the seemingly endless claims by guys that they're getting their providers off. I kind of chuckle when I see this stuff because to me it's the classic stereotype of every guy thinking they're so awesome at sex that everyone they touch has an orgasm.  
   
 But particularly in a client/provider scenario, I'm finding it difficult to believe that so many providers are regularly experiencing sexual pleasure while working, let alone actually orgasming. It seems far more likely to me that provider reactions are a put-on for the enjoyment of the client. (Which I'm all for by the way, since just laying there like a log obviously wouldn't do anyone any good.)  
   
 But I wanted to ask the local ladies to weigh in. Am I off base here? How often, if ever. is it 'real'?

mojojo 1 Reviews 794 reads
posted
9 / 31

Robbin, this link was written for you, but it also ties into the OP's question.  

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=892111&boardID=12&page=1#892111

Experience teaches the tell tale signs. This was a new one.

Hanky Panky 682 reads
posted
10 / 31

Posted By: plethora
Hello,  
   
 Newbie here who's curiosity needs fulfilled. I've been reading a lot of reviews lately of providers in my area to get a list going, and one thing I've been struck by is the seemingly endless claims by guys that they're getting their providers off.
Wake up & smell the coffee: you are trying to study Spanish by reading a Spanish dictionary instead of walking up to a Spanish lady and LISTENING to her and let her guide you...in other words, you will get a lot more out of this by making an appointment and let the PRO teach you the ropes and afterwards brag how you made her cum 60 times in your 1 hour session!!! [chuckling back]

Hank

Mr.M.Johnson 528 reads
posted
11 / 31

Robbin, I like your posts and your attitude! I'll be in Vegas March 19-23 for;

http://www.ibm.com/cloud-computing/us/en/interconnect/

I'm hoping that we can get-togeth

20strojl 13 Reviews 641 reads
posted
12 / 31
rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 680 reads
posted
13 / 31

... Lord, please grant me the wisdom to know the difference (the hobbyist's prayer).

And with time, as someone said, you will know the difference though if the women you see are like the ones I know, they are way more interested in (and pleased with) getting you off

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 495 reads
posted
14 / 31

Posted By: mojojo
Robbin, this link was written for you, but it also ties into the OP's question.  
   
 http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=892111&boardID=12&page=1#892111  
   
 Experience teaches the tell tale signs. This was a new one.
Please view my reply, below.

Love,
Robbin
xox

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 611 reads
posted
15 / 31

if she is getting wet hard to fake that.I regularly experience pleasure and add a toy and daty to the mix and wow watch out!.
Will I say I do every single time...no I don't no need to lie about that but I experience pleasure more times than not.
There are signs you can tell if someone is faking and acting like a bad porn movie or if it is the real deal.
But I am there for his pleasure so that is the main objective but I do have fun in the process:)

-- Modified on 1/4/2017 6:50:45 PM

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 621 reads
posted
16 / 31

Posted By: Mr.M.Johnson
Robbin, I like your posts and your attitude! I'll be in Vegas March 19-23 for;  
   
 http://www.ibm.com/cloud-computing/us/en/interconnect/  
   
 I'm hoping that we can get-together  
For your kind compliments! xoxo  

Mr.M.Johnson, I look forward to receiving your verification information, so we may enjoy a fun and memorable rendezvous...Yayyy! ;)

Robbin
xox

statson1234 131 Reviews 420 reads
posted
17 / 31

just whatever you do not stop.  

Look , When I go to see a provider , and she is moaning and seems se is full of ecstasy ,  
and makes me feel like I'm pleasing her , that's a plus for her . I as a man feel better
about myself and therefore I will come back to see her again .

Whether a woman is faking or not is irrelevant for me as long as her faking  
is not fake ,if you know what I mean. I'm expecting to have a blast and that is the reason  
I pay her and why I choose her as my companion for that hour. If she is not enjoying herself  
but she is a great actress than that's ok with me too.  

All my reviews that I wrote are as accurate as possible , when I write that a girl had an  
orgasm It actually happened. ( At least in my mind it did because the girl I was with  
led me to believe that it did happen. ) She did her job well

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 530 reads
posted
18 / 31

I have orgasms with clients...Not all the time but a good percentage of the time.  I try not faking it as I'm a terrible actress but sometimes I feel kind of forced to.  There are guys out there who will knock off a few points on your performance if you don't orgasm...sad but true.

donbecker54 19 Reviews 705 reads
posted
19 / 31

Posted By: jaydalee
if she is getting wet hard to fake that.I regularly experience pleasure and add a toy and daty to the mix and wow watch out!.  
 Will I say I do every single time...no I don't no need to lie about that but I experience pleasure more times than not.  
 There are signs you can tell if someone is faking and acting like a bad porn movie or if it is the real deal.  
 But I am there for his pleasure so that is the main objective but I do have fun in the process:)

-- Modified on 1/4/2017 6:50:45 PM
Not hard to fake. A provider I saw a few times was wet when I walked in the door. She would also go to the bathroom and put something in her vagina that she was able to hold in there, and then release a fluid of some kind minutes later after penetration. I noticed right away, but didn't say anything. I've read many of her reviewers remark how great it was when she gushed all over them. When I first started seeing her, she did the put-the-corner-of-the-pillow-in-her-mouth trick. She was a great actress, and it's one of the reasons she was so highly reviewed. She made the guys feel like studs.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 496 reads
posted
20 / 31

but I think a lot of guys know how to get themselves off too ... lol

but I get your point it's why I like repeating with a provider. We get each other. There are days when its better for me and days it's better for her. But you know when she's cumming. I prefer less acting ... but who doesn't enjoy an Academy Award performance.

HandsomeDevil 26 Reviews 616 reads
posted
21 / 31

I'm not a lady but I can contribute. Some women cum easily and some don't. A girl might act even when cumming via exaggeration. Certainty a lot of faking does occur, with or without an orgasm.

I find that my enjoyment beyond getting off to be the girl being able to relax and enjoy herself whether she cums or not. One of my best experiences was with a woman who didn't orgasm or fake an orgasm and while I was attending to her she did basically lay there like a log. I've bugged her agency several times to send her back to my area.

One of the girls I see cums pretty quick without much fanfare though she will let me know when I'm hitting the right spot. One of them takes longer and want's multiples and helps me make it happen. My tongue gets tired, then my right hand gets tired, then my left hand gets tired. She always returns the favor and it's understood that I will be stopping her several times at least... if she's getting at least 20 minutes of non-stop pleasure then I am too :)

When I first started seeing escorts I was much more concerned with whether they came. Not so much because it made me feel good but because I wanted to get what I gave. But I've learned that what they most often want is to be treated well, made to laugh, to think about things in different ways, to be able to relax. That produces it's own reciprocation that translates into better sex and a better time for all regardless of whether they have an orgasm. Some women aren't going to be open to that little bit of intimacy and a fake orgasm isn't going to make me feel any better about it.

impposter 49 Reviews 633 reads
posted
22 / 31

I always bring the envelope AND a couple of rolls of super absorbent paper towels.  

When Harry met Sally, ...

IslaFlores See my TER Reviews 583 reads
posted
23 / 31

I don't fake..... It will always feel good and I'm not afraid to voice that.....sometimes if I can't cum for whatever reason I'll just say hey that feels good but I can't cum today. I've had a lot of amazing orgasms with clients actually.  

 
There have been a couple times a guy has been like wow did u cum like 10 times?!?! And im like bless your heart😂😂 once or twice! Ha

But over all i feel Y'all know how to please way better than guys in the square world😋 and getting paid at the same time! Hence why I don't date! Lol😉😉

HitEmWithTheHein 385 reads
posted
24 / 31
SensualShai See my TER Reviews 545 reads
posted
25 / 31

told you that sometimes we do? lol It seems you wouldn't believe us regardless LOL

HandsomeDevil 26 Reviews 493 reads
posted
26 / 31

Posted By: SensualShai
told you that sometimes we do? lol It seems you wouldn't believe us regardless LOL!  
   
 
I'm not sure that's true. The fact that he is asking is a reasonable sign he's open to an honest answer. Just posted his first review so it's probably all new to him. My perceptions of the industry and what goes on have certainly changed a lot since my first review.

SultryCharlotte See my TER Reviews 530 reads
posted
27 / 31

While I certainly agree that there are a percentage of showboaters and braggarts out there in the interwebs, I will also add my two cents.  

I cum quite easily and once the train starts I really do need to be pulled off of it. And, since I squirt, it is impossible to fake it. Some women are truly that responsive and delve deeply into each experience with the intent to have as much fun as possible. I know I personally get off on the taboo nature of my engagements and have a blast each time.  

I suppose some of us got into this industry for the purpose of indulging our cravings at a beneficial compound interest or something like it. :D

MandieRae See my TER Reviews 414 reads
posted
28 / 31
MandieRae See my TER Reviews 434 reads
posted
29 / 31

In this respect, I am lucky. I am very sensitive and can pretty much orgasm on command (not without stimulation. I'm amazing, but not that amazing.). All it takes is a little Pavlov type conditioning. If I can mentally go where I need to, I have no problem making orgasms happen. Anywhere from one to tons. The only downside to this is after too many I get a little weak or I get REALLY sensitive. Some men get a little overzealous lol.  

My point is, YMMV.

Hanky Panky 522 reads
posted
30 / 31
demuredomina See my TER Reviews 409 reads
posted
31 / 31

That's one thing I like about being a domme, I can be more blunt and direct about my reaction to things...and guys like it!

For me it's all real, can only speak for myself on that subject.

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