For example if a girl you seen before said she will see promise to see you again but when the time comes, she says she is busy or not seeing anyone, but you find out she is seeing others whether through a review or through another hobbyist.
What would you tell her if you caught her lying?

"Thanks for not telling me you find me too repulsive to let me near you again."

If some hooker doesn't want to see you, even for money, but then you find out she is off fucking every other guy, that should tell you something about how she really feels about you. Either move on or swallow your last vestige of pride and see her when SHE wants to see you.

No kidding but a promise is a promise.

Yes, it would have been nice if she was upfront and said "we're not a good fit," but that can open up a can o' worms (the rejectee challenging her, getting pissy or violent). She chose the easy way out for her.  

I would just move on. She has zero obligation to see me a second time like I have zero obligation to repeat.

It isn't about obligation. It is about leading on.

Unless lies involve saving a life, then no. I guess Bernie Madoff saying lies is preferable.

Just what are you going to say to her? "fuck you bitch"??? I suppose if it makes you feel better, but this is P4P, It's much easier to just move along. Hurt feelings are for civvie relationships, not hooker/john relationships.

I rather not do that. But if someone lead you on and then promised to see you again but went radio silent yet reviews keep popping up, what should that person say? Just be like "oh well, no biggie" ?

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I'm guilty of it too! After a good orgasm, the little head may make grand proclamations (i.e. "promises") that usually fall by the wayside once the blood returns to the big head. Depending on how good the session was, it usually ranges anywhere from "see you again soon" to "let's take a trip to Hawaii!"  

Book with someone else and let yourself have a good time. It's the best way to get over it.

but unless you want to end up "angry and bitter" like every other guy who "fell for a hooker and can't get up" just drop it already, or be prepared to be the new board pinata

She was texting me for days after the session wanting to see me again. But I was busy with work.

If your hurt over this lead on image your response if she said your dick is too small, you don't bathe enough, your a horrible lover, you seem needy, she just doesn't like you or whatever reason your money isn't good enough for a second date. Move on for some reason your not a match.

By leading on and making a promise, that is worse. But her reputation now is that of a liar.

about you through other signs. Hence, why she hasn't been available.

I was never monitoring anyone you idiot. I have a freaking life but I don't like getting lied to.  
I could get care less what others do in their lives.
And you sound like a spawn of Hitler. Just more ugly

Dishonesty is the in thing now it seems.

But this obviously proves that there are more than other reasons that she is not seeing you. She's probably not an idiot by any means, so at least I'll give you that for picking a girl out!

You don't sound like you have much of a life at all. but thanks for making many of us think to ourselves, "at least my life doesn't suck as badly as THIS loser"  

to a promise.  

That's just asking for trouble while you're in a room alone with a guy.

but sometimes it sure seems to add an exclamation point to the statement.  

...or stay away from this game. You clearly are not made for it.

She called me later and promised idiot. Days after I saw her.

Perfect example. I get TONS of guys promising "one day I'm going to take you to Hawaii" during a first 1 hour date or 90 minute date. Sometimes they're serious, but I know most times it won't happen. It's the dick talking lol. So knowing that, I sit and make up a story/fantasy with them, and act excited about what we're going to do, where we're going to go, a room with a balcony where I can blow him by the beach side in a grass skirt, whatever. It's their time, I'll have fun with it.

Free lesson to anyone who likes to "fight" on the internet. Insults that get the "other guy" mad are winners. Insults because you are losing are losers. This guy has loser written all over him. I think he has two L's on his forehead.

I have lost track of the number of times during a drunken fuckfest that I have promised to take whichever chica involved to either Manuel Antonio, Playa Jaco, or even San Andres the next day, only to wake up the next morning thinking to myself "what the fuck did I promise last night?" lol

Just look it up as I doubt you know what it means.

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Some guys actually do it! LOL. So hell yeah I'll get paid to go to Hawaii - hello? But I don't start running up credit card debt - or even get attached to the money until it's in my hand and the job is done. (Or the deposit is made, but only work with the deposit.)

It's like watching a guy face plant himself over and over and over.  

So, you go out on a date with a civvie, and she says she'd love to see you again...then she never answers her texts...she inexplicably disappears off the face of the earth...then, when you continue to pester her, she says she's in a relationship. But you see that she still has an active profile on match.com...and, she's even logged in that morning. What do you do?

I see his other posts using ad hominem.

I hardly rely on the TER discussion boards to get laid, so if I piss off a few people, no BFD.  

I didn't like you lol. And you know who yack yacks in my ear about once or twice a week right? She has a nice influence too... I think she either met you or wants to, so one of these days maybe we can be so lucky.

you must be batman

"I was never monitoring anyone you idiot. " Saying someone is an idiot is bringing appeal to emotion words. So ...

and as long as I am not seen in public with anyone with the initials BS, I should be fine. Actually with my rep, even being seen with the likes of him will hardly be considered damaging.

Never give your credit card - even amex lo

"I'll see you again" and have not done so?

What are you, six?

Bet when guys don't show up you go on a tirade especially when they realize they can get a younger woman over you. Promises are an obligation

The more you say, the worse you look.  And you are looking pretty bad.

Well getting haggardly you are doing better.

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Bet when guys don't show up you go on a tirade especially when they realize they can get a younger woman over you. Promises are an obligation.    
 

   
 Your Kung-Fu is weak.  
   
 I've never had the experience of someone not showing up, so I must be doing better than you  
   
 

She would have told you right to your face that for any reason she wouldnt see you again? She did the right thing by ending the date nicely like a pro. Otherwise (depending on the person) You made have become angry, or demanding your money back, or who know... aggressive maybe?  

Making a fuss about it makes it seem like you're clingy... everyone breaks promises, especially in this business so grow up. Move on to the next & don't be so guilable with the next lady....

Just email her and tell her that you're disappointed.   That you really wanted to see her again, and now that it's clear she didn't mean it when she "promised" to meet with you again (or later changed her mind, whichever the case may be) you are feeling led on.  Perhaps even deceived.  

If you plan to confront every hooker lying to you, you'll have no time left for play.  Seriously dude, this whole facade is pretty much based on lies.  Don't you get it?

And it hurts. But I at least know if I email someone who requested I "let him know when I'm in his area", I do once. And if he is "conveniently not available," then I tell him just to watch for my ads and I leave him alone.

But I can't help thinking that there can't really be someone in the world like this. Maybe he's a troll or a bot. I'm thinking he's a troll because he has VIP (an't have an alias without VIP), and he's having us all on. lol!!

I needed some humor today lol.

She said you pwomised to show her the bat cave, then backed out, then you pwomised to let her drive the batmobile then made some excuse about your insurance not covering it. Then to top it all off, Alfred told her you are a closet gay. She wants nothing to do with you anymore. Leave her alone.

Well everyone knows in Gotham you have a thing for boys.

That's because you are the least worst option not the best.

This one is ranking up there in Troll land and it certainly has been proving to be a funny thread.

You started this thread and posted in it like 100x. You remind me of someone.....

Her body, her rules. She has the right to change her mind whenever she likes. Sounds like she made the right decision with you. You sound like an entitled jerk. Just let it go and move on. It's just not that big a deal. Accept that she changed her mind, and probably for a good reason. I know that you can work your way through this. Maybe a good cry will help!

leave her alone and see someone else.

Curious what percentage of the ladies are kind of wondering the same.

That was hilarious!

Two, I'd tell her to go fuck herself...

It's her body but she made the deal. And it is my money also you Nazi. Sounds like your mother forgot to use a condom while drunk.

It's pretty much a given that we're all liars here. Names, ages, weight, availability, double bookings, glossy pics, fake pics, among other things. Since we're all liars, I think it's only fitting that we all do the morally correct thing, and quit the hobby forthwith. How can we live with ourselves knowing we're pond scum?  

Something happened that yu may not be aware of and she is skeeved out by you now. It is her way of saying "fuck off you are not worth the trouble".  

That hooker dodged a bullet not seeing you again. You are digging a huge hole. Now dive on in and let us bury you. And shut the fuck up you idiot!

Hunt her down and murder her for not keeping her promise?