would you more or less likely to date a clint or do you have a BF aready.

Reate a client

is this directed at a certain provider?

but so does winning the lottery.  If you're interested in dating a provider, keep in mind two things: bring lots of money -- money is always part of the equation; second, let her come to you.  As soon as you pursue her to "date," you've pushed her away.

I think dating a client would be a bad idea.  Not to mention that most providers are fantasy women to their clients, what happens when they are around eachother in real life and she doesn't look so hot all the time, maybe she doesn't shave her legs some days and whoa, when she's in a bad mood watch out! because she's never in a bad mood with a client, at least I'm not but that's it, it's fantasy.

Turk's comments IMO are on the money (so to speak) with one exception.  Dating a provider is not really that rare if the guy knows how to treat a woman with respect in private and in public.  But listen carefully to Turk's comment about money -- it's right on.

Also, it is possible to have a non-dating friendship with a provider that is not money-based but here's the trick -- NO sex with the provider or sex is always on the clock.  

IMO anybody who thinks that dating a provider is a way to get free high-end booty is either delusional or, if he pulls it off, a manipulative SOB or a de facto pimp.  If the relationship goes all the way and she retires and you marry her, then maybe I'll give you a pass.  But then again, that's when the relationship will REALLY become expensive. (LOL).

Reate a client

If the hobby life is any reflection of real life then I suppose you will find that those you are attracted to are not attracted to you.

And, those attracted to you do not show up on your radar screen.

Such is the wierdness of the love life.

Reate a client

I have dated a couple of providers for extended periods of time.

One had just broken up with her bf, with her all the sex was on the clock but we spent many delightful evenings together over dinner, at theater or just hanging out in a local jazz club.

Other was a bit more complicated with occasional overnighters as friends, meals and clubs, and some time on the clock.

Both cases, just really nice people, very different, but we hit it off and enjoyed normal dating time with no pressure from either side. It does happen.

MH50

that money thing was true at first... then we became better friends than we'd planned... it went well... now we just like to hang out... I still pay for dinner though.

I think dating in general is a bad idea.  Just pay the money up front.

How could that be ?

Trust that he will be happy, wear one of his shirts to bed and walk around in the morning in it with nothing underneath, he'll stay plenty happy.

xo Lisa

Clearly you are a good guy for her to enjoy your company like that.

xo Lisa

so much for all the hopeless love dramas we've been fed about how clients and working girls can't get real... seems like things are getting better with time... ya just gotta believe that the impossible can and does happen...

of it working out.

So these bad stories don't affect me or I don't hear them.  

I have met many girls along the way that are now retired and happy with a former clients.

Most of the girls in these situations were upstanding, nice, normal girls so it doesn't surprise me that this could happen.

xo Lisa

thingies... that are very nice and much appreciated by me.  Those providers that i have enjoyed "off the clock" time with have all been friends, and people that I care about, but we did not move to a "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship, but rather two people who enjoyed some of the same things... and it was all - and I mean all - good.

Since when does dating a civie NOT cost "lots of money"?