She is a profession in ever sense of the word in manner and actions.
She has the skills and aptitude (or attention to details) to create that illusion of passion and intimacy you point at. (IOP, IOI)
Part of that for me is also is the ability to simply be a good hostess -- like you say, puts you at easy, makes sure you feel comfortable and things are about you and you needs/wants/experience.
And yes, she does need to fit into my aesthetics regarding beauty and a desirable woman.
Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, a "10" is performance is also subjective to one's liking. Of course, TER has specific guidelines as to what makes a session eligible for a "10". So let's say if the session is eligible for a "10" in term of TER guidelines, what would make the session a 10 for you?
For me, the TER guidelines is already pretty comprehensive in terms of the services. To be a 10, it would be more about the little things. Does the lady put on the cover for me? Does she initiate? Does she make the effort to seduce and arouse? Does she carry a good conversation? Does she do thoughtful gestures like bringing a warm towel? Does she caress and kisses? Does she make the effort to accommodate dress requests? It's the little things that completes the experience.
Another part of it is less descriptive. It's more so how she made me feel during the session. Do I feel like I can forget the hustle and bustle of daily life and escape into the fantasy of the date, and enjoy the company of a beautiful woman who is there just for me? After all, isn't that what we're all looking for?
that the girl must be in the top 10% of all the providers I have seen in order to get a score of 10. To date, I have actually given a 10 to significantly LESS than 10%. When it comes to service, a 10 may only be awarded to a provider who has provided the specific services that ALLOW a maximum score of 10.
When she can make you believe that your the only man in the world she really cares for, and show that to you in various ways, then that's a ten.
I know it's an act, but hey, the world's a stage, ain't it?
In fact when I repeat with a lady or kept a long term SB, it's mainly for that reason. While the act of physically pleasing me in ways I desire is important, but it's the fantasy and illusion of making me feel a certain type of way that keeps me going back to her. Yes, it's all a fantasy, but when she makes it believable, it gold.
She is a profession in ever sense of the word in manner and actions.
She has the skills and aptitude (or attention to details) to create that illusion of passion and intimacy you point at. (IOP, IOI)
Part of that for me is also is the ability to simply be a good hostess -- like you say, puts you at easy, makes sure you feel comfortable and things are about you and you needs/wants/experience.
And yes, she does need to fit into my aesthetics regarding beauty and a desirable woman.
I agree aesthetics that fits my taste of what I find attractive is also very important.
First of all fella there are only a handful of things that will earn a 10 in service. And they do not include getting a warm towel, making you feel like a man, or engaging you in meaningful conversation
Anal
Duos
BBFS
there may be something else but none of the above and at best you can give a 9
As for looks, unfortunately in the Woke world a 300lb 60 yo can get a 10
In my experience looks are more of a crapshoot than service.
But yes your beautiful descriptions of the perfect “date” are right out of a touching Chick-lit novel.
Oh you left out “long walks on the beach.”
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BBFS does NOT figure into scoring.
Try again.
Ok I'll try again. Duos and Anal are activities that TER allows a 10 score. Is that ok now Ma'am?
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It's already been acknowledged that TER has the known and stated requirements that ALLOW someone to submit that score. However, just because one can check all the boxes doesn't mean the score should be given or is deserved.
I read the OP to ask not what would merit a 10 using the TER scale; we all know that.
I read it as asking about the intangibles that would make for a 10 in a player's own world.
"I read it as asking about the intangibles that would make for a 10 in a player's own world." Exactly...after all we are all seeking an experience that would not have been there if not for the hobbying world.
It's actually Duos, Anal and "more than one guy at a time" which is actually a rip-off, IMO. The girls charge each customer the full price for the time. Many will allow spit-roasting, but few allow DP, so there are times during the session when one of the guys who paid full price can only sit and watch or do himself while his co-worker keeps going alone.
In college, we had girls who wanted to see how many POSITIONS they could do in one night, so they started with halfbacks and linebackers and moved on to quarterbacks and linemen. One of the guys fucking her would have been a tight end, but by the end of the roster, she became a wide receiver on her own.
With regards to any encounters with multiple clients, I have not charged my full rate per person.
M/F couples I see at the same rate as individuals and group play is assessed according to the ask.
is a completely different experience than a "more than one guy at a time" gangbang. When talking about value for the money, I was only referring to the latter. I have been in many duo's with two providers that were extraordinary experiences and worth the double-rate. However, I appreciate your understanding that in a multi-male group session, the time allotted for access to the provider for each paying participant is significantly less than in a solo session and applaud you for adjusting your rates accordingly. Many providers are not as fair-minded, hence my comment.
MFM Kgirl reviews posted about four or six months ago.
"Unfortunately in the Woke world a 300lb 60 yo can get a 10- what does this even mean?
You think the guys here paying for pussy are woke? Have you read their posts? Their reviews?
These days "woke" means as much as GFE or PSE or VIP. In other words, whatever the writer wants it to mean, though here it's seems to be universally derogatory in the insulting sense.
What's hilarious to me is if being "woke" is an insult, then that means those using it as a slur must consider themselves the opposite. So they are asleep? I guess that tracks 😄😄😄 😴😴😴
Hey!!!
I'm a 300 lb. 60-year-old!!
(Kidding!)
ATTB
But I'll try.
Last week I saw one of my ATF duos. We shared friendly banter from the moment we were in each other's company. When the festivities began, there was simply no holding back--the ladies treated each other like long-lost lovers. I gave zero directions during the session. With fluidity and grace they moved from one act to another with each other and me. There was a moment when the ladies were in 69 and so furiously DATYing each other that I probably couldn't have separated them with a crowbar.
When you get to that level of organic, passionate, playful, genuinely happy and carefree enjoyment, you've earned a 10 emeritus from me.
"I gave zero directions during the session. With fluidity and grace they moved from one act to another with each other and me." For me, that's the ultimate level of 3-some. The ladies just flows from one act to another, knowing exactly what I desire.
I view it like I view music.
If you take all genres of music I listen to and all albums in history of music.... There are maybe five albums that deserve five mics (which would translate into a 10)
Its some of the most life-changing experiences, which I suspect is different for everyone because it's so subjective what makes a session amazing.
I love my sex vigorous, porn-like. I also like IOP but also believable and not too fake. Gf-like conversations cuddling friendliness. I love rim jobs (receiving), would prefer to not be forced into eating pussy if I don't feel like it. I like to pump fast and balls deep. Cg endurance is a must as I can't do all of the work. Has to be someone who doesn't get upset when you don't cum for 40 minutes. Also someone who enjoys sex.
There's a ton of criteria that just stacks on top on top on top and it's very hard to get a real ten.
As one Supreme Court Justice wrote more than 60 years ago: I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description, and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it...."
The truth is, I know a 10 performance better by the feeling I have afterwards than during. Only a few times in my life have I been lucky enough to have someone able to truly, utterly, and completely, drain me. That's what it takes to be a 10. There are different ways to get there, but if they don't get there, it's not a 10. If they do get there, it's so rare that it doesn't matter much how they did it. It's a 10.
My insatiable quest for the 10 experience is what keeps me hobbying.
A "9" for performance would be a dirty talking slut who is not self-conscious, but takes great pride in what she does. She loves the taste of cum. She will give attention to my dick because she insists on having it somewhere inside her the whole time that we are together. A "10" would be psychic, that could anticipate every depraved thought in my head, and act on it with a sly smile and a giggle.
A "9" for looks is an Instagram model unicorn smokeshow. Perfectly proportioned and provocatively dressed (by my standards). Which, is in fact, the problem. My tastes change so frequently, that a 10 for me today, is an 8 tomorrow. And, vice versa.
Therefore, in my world, a "10" does not exist.
An 8 is below average, a 9 is average, and a 10 is above average. The reality is that none of the ladies on TER meet the criteria for a 9 or 10. A handful are "Really Hot" or an 8 if we truly adhere to the TER rating descriptions.
On that scale a TER 10 is a 7. And an 8 doesn't exist.
That is the reality of how the TER rating guidelines are actually operationalized: 8 = below average; 9 = average; and 10 = above average to hot.
10/10
9/9
7/7
They all mean the same to me. She met the strict criteria and went beyond in some way. Maybe it was an extra hour off the clock. Maybe it was getting me a second or even third pop when I wasn't expecting it. Maybe her personality made it truly feel like "not a service."
Perhaps I’m jaded, but I’ve never given a 10! To me a top 10% performance merits a score in the 9’s, say 9.5 on average. A ten represents top 1%! I’ve been with incredibly hot girls for duos and anal, but I would probably rate aspects of those experiences as 9.5 which I view as top 5%, but 10? No. I’ve been with girls who certainly give bbbj’s that rate a 10, but the overall service experience was still not top 1%. As far as looks, I’ve been with plenty of gorgeous and sexy girls - high 9’s, but I don’t think ten! Perhaps I should search out a few girls that others rated 10, and see if I agree, or open my wallet to a few girls who seem to get a series of 10/10 scores, so I can experience a 10/10 before I retire! For now, I’ll keep hunting for that 10/10, and I’ll be repeating if I find her!
Your very first one was a 10/10! lol.
and kissable lips. Last but not least, a friendly attitude.
Some bb anal with the provider seemingly not only willing, but insisting on going ass to mouth. Eventually going to finish inside her asshole.
Thata a 10 out of 10 session right there.
To each his own, but to me that's pretty nasty.
to an 11 if DFK was next or even 12 for her to let you RIM her^^?
Guess there's different tiers to this thing. With limitless exploration, one can probably get 11>19 - Exponentially speaking.
I have many reviews, over 200, and I have given less than a dozen 10s for performance. I can only think of one case where I gave a 10 without anal. But the ultimate for me is when I can bring her to orgasm with my cock deep in her ass; that's almost guaranteed a 10.