Hey guys !  

See The Doctor !

It seems to happen as we get older, and I would advise to simply try to enjoy the benefits of being able to last longer.

Do you drink at least a quart of water/day?

Posted By: statson1234

Hey guys !  
   
 Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED .  
 I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.  
   
 I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult  
   
 So , lets talk about this taboo subject boys  
   
 

LOL ,  

a big culprit for low libido could be traced to gaining weight.  At 38 you are still a young man.  However, if you are obese, you will find ALL forms of exercise difficult to complete and sex falls into that too.  Obviously, I don't know anything about you, but if you are not suffering from a some medical condition or stress, then you might look to change things in your lifestyle.

And can't forget the pineapple  LOL

Posted By: mrfisher

 
 Do you drink at least a quart of water/day?  
   
 Do you do at least 15 minuets of vigorous exercise/day?  
   
 How's your Vitamin D level?  Get checked for that.  
   
 Try more fruits and veggies and less sugary and fatty food.  
   
 Give ginseng a shot. There's a reason China has so many people.  
   
 These have all done the trick for me and I'm in my sixties, and still going strong.  
   
   
   
   
   

Posted By: statson1234

Hey guys !    
     
  Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED .  
  I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.    
     
  I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult    
     
  So , lets talk about this taboo subject boys  
     
 

I suffer from PTSD after 4 tours in Iraq and losing my left arm on the last. Ever since the last tour, I've had ED problems/intimacy problems and the doctors just keep prescribing every ED pill they make. I told them at the VA that I didn't like the side effects but the the doctor responded that he was my doctor and not my sex therapist. The pills are supposed to take care of the physical problem but doesn't solve/fix the mental problems.
So recently I've tried to hobby without "the pill" and usually end up just performing oral and cuddling with the woman.
What I'm trying to say is that it may not be a physical problem but a mental problem also.
Good luck!

See your MD and get your testosterone checked. Low T will knock your dick in the dirt, but it's an easy fix.

I agree, the Trojan Thintensity condoms are the best!!

...and nary a mention from fish.  That's sure to make the market drop like a rock.

But that doctor needs some instructions on beside manner.  

Your grip is pretty damn strong, and while your pecker won't get callouses, it does get accustomed to certain pressure.  Instead of masturbating with Rosie Palm, try a toy like a Fleshlight or similar (with lots of lube).  Let your nerve endings recalibrate.  Will take a while though, so don't expect an overnight miracle.

There's a reason why BB of anything is so popular and will never go away.

Coming (cumming) from someone who will never experience ED, but who has had the pleasure of getting to know men with various degrees of "dysfunction" (I hate to call it that), I would echo much of the advice above- see a doctor to eliminate the possibility of an underlying issue, drink water, take your vitamins, etc. But also:

You need to have a hormone panel done. We all lose hormone production... you may be losing it a little early in life. It's also possible your stress level is effecting you. Money troubles, home life troubles can kill a boner fast.

Zactly.  I care less and less for my brief climax and more and more for soaking in the entire experience - from that kiss that is to die for, to the smells, tastes, visuals, embraces, nibbles, laughs, strokes, pinches, the whole guacamole.  Sexuality is a journey, not a destination.

It's great in this situation if the escort has a positive attitude.  

My issues started right around the time I first realized my marriage was in the toilet.

Many meds will lower your Testosterone. Find a Endocrinologist rather than your family Dr. to treat you. Your blood needs to be monitored carefully by someone who is up to date on low T, and many family Dr's will just push you to try Testosterone "gel" and call it a day, but it's far more complicated than that. Good luck.
 

It could very well be a short term issue of stress or something else that will pass on it's own.

How often do you watch porn and masturbate?  Could it be porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED)?  I am in my 30's and only discovered I had PIED after seeing providers.  Once I completely quit porn and masturbating, my ED is totally gone.  Check out NoFap or yourbrainonporn.com.