I went to see a provider for the second time recently and everything was great except ... she gave me a towel to use that had apparently soured.

As I began to dry after my usual pre-session shower, I put the towel to my face and it was sour. I didn't say anything but I also thought it might make me smell badly.

What do you do? I didn't see another towel. Do you ask for one not knowing if she has an additional towel available? The whole thing was kind of awkward.

Sour OFF

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this has happened to me two times in the last month. I didn't include that in the first post but I would encourage providers to beware of it. Although it is certainly minor it does take away from the overall experience.

OFF

UrGBP

...whatever your beef, I'm on your side, great purveyor of pretty pictures.

Nothing against you, OFF, as you seem like a fairly decent fellow from your posts.  

HOWEVER...

I see enough posts on here about how providers should take care of all the details to hide any trace of evidence from the wives/girlfriends/ whatevers of the hobbyists they are seeing.  Next, we'll hear that wives are setting up forensic labs, so providers have to get some sort of decontaminating/sterilizing stations installed at their place of incall.

Okay, this may be a bit extreme, but there is a certain line where I think we might be asking a bit much of a provider.  One person's sour towel might not be sour to another person...and is it realistic that a provider stock ten towels and five sets of sheets and go to the laundry every few days?  Is it also realistic that we say "Do not use fabric softener with fragrance on your towels (or bedding...or incense in your house...or whatever), as it might be picked up by my wife"?  And what if that was a freshly washed towel, but it might not have dried long enough, or dried with too many other clothes, and just didn't "burn out" the sour smell enough?

I had an ex-GF that was so O/C, there was NOTHING I could do to convince her my towels weren't sour...unless I bought a new set weekly.  What if the threshold for that person's sense of smell just isn't up to yours?

I guess my point is that there is a certain line where things might be a bit unreasonable for a provider, considering everything else she is expected to do by many guys on here.  You guys are the ones who are hiding your activities.  Develop a better alibi.  Use a cologne a little.  Say it was a workout towel.  Spill coffee on yourself and say it was the handtowel from Starbucks.  But give the girls a break.

I don't know you from a hole in the wall but thank you for your compassion and common sense.

I have seen the hobby get more and more difficult for the ladies in the last 5 years. They are expected to do more for less. I quit mainstream and only see established regulars(from way back) as I could not see the guys out there now. Good Lord I give it two years and the GFE will have turned into what it is now PLUS BBFS for regulars, an hour will be 120 minutes and the prices will go down to $100. And you know what, there will always be women out there stupid enough to do it.

Women sometimes blame men for not being where they want to be in the workforce. It's not the men so much but other women. Guys will at least form a group to better the greater cause, whereas women will charge through slicing and dicing every other woman in her way, not realizing there is strength in numbers and a group has more power than the individual(generally speaking). Hobbyists ban together and are getting exactly what they want. If the ladies did similar, you wouldn't have to have said anything. There has to be a line drawn somewhere...but I won't hold my breath.



OK got waaay off track but your reply got me to thinking...have a nice weekend

That's quite a rant against a guy who only wants a clean towel. You say that's unreasonable??
I guess you do the laundry in your house.

There are times my towels are like this.. Where i live . I have very hard water . if i forget to put in fabric softener this happens.. hard water does not get out all dirt and soup... etc...


For the love of SOUP -

did it smell dirty ? Soiled ? Mildewy ? Like someone else used it that came on it 5 times, were there piles of towels laying in the corner..

so you got a bad towel, bring your own next time  .

Oy, my bad.  8o)

Ok geeze is that all you have to complain about lol. she is a great provider so you say so why complain about one towel being not so fresh its Christmas for geezes sakes there are families living in shelters kids with holes in there shoes going to bed hungry I'm not trying to say your being petty I'm saying you are being petty.
if you are worried about smells then buy a pack of baby wipes they come in all scents some unscented keep some in your car or trunk. I always have some fresh baby wipes on hand. Although i am a neat freak in my home and I always have anything a guy would need to use after our session and plenty of fresh white fluffy towels and wash clothes. Some are not as neat as others so be prepared. and stop bitching lol.

      Merry Christmas Mikila

There are plenty of things you can get from dirty towels.

It gets rid of the smells normal detergents miss.

As a backup I always bring a clean town and wash cloth in my hobby bag. You should have told her maybe the washcloth was used on another client. Very important to wash the latex before you go back back home to the wife.

So a provider I have seen a couple of times knows that I love her black undies and they make her ass and figure stand out... Once, I caught a whiff and I told her, but it almost ruined the session. She apologized, but was visibly embarrassed.  I vote on the side of being honest. She was grateful and send me a very nice e-mail a week later. When a lady steps up her game and takes honest feedback, you've gotta love that and her.

on the topic of unpleasant aromas... i have seen a fair amount of gentlemen who do not seem to be adequately washing their private parts and/or rear end. there is nothing that breaks the mood more than when you are down there giving it your all and suddenly you catch a whiff reminiscent of a.) ammonia b.) yeast c.) mushrooms left in the crisper drawer too long etc. what to do in those moments when breathing out of your mouth is not an option because it's occupied?  

i have two friendly words of advice that would   make EVERYONE'S experience more pleasant: BABY WIPES!  i always try to have them on handy to use on myself before and after the session and also to offer my clients in addition to said un-sour towel.  

ps.they are also great to have beside your bed in your personal life so you don't have to get up out of bed!    

happy wiping,

cindy

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I bring along a container of baby wipes or wet wipes, or whatever they are called.  They can be very useful before and during a session.

But a fresh towel is not too much to ask. I shower upon arrival whenever I do an in call. Honestly I'm not a big fan of the whole baby wipes idea and I really would get turned off if I thought that a lady was just wiping and not showering between appointments.
I've heard some funny stories from gals over the years about stealing extra towels off the maid's carts or even traveling with one or two of their own and saving the hotel towels for their "guests".

The Said " Sour "

Meaning a funny smell, not dirty or used..

I wasn't implying that baby wipes should take the PLACE of a SHOWER, Bostonguy57. Sheesh. -but that they have  antiseptic properties and can be used IN ADDITION TOO showers, wash clothes, etc.  ie. if I just took a shower and then had to pee, but had a client coming, I would use a baby wipe because a lot of my clients like to go down.  Is that too much information?

Another words, I'm obsessive compulsive.

PS. I often go on covert operations in the morning a swipe a few extra towels off the maids cart while she's inside one of the rooms cleaning.  I'm  regular 007.

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