Just out of curiosity, what would you do if a client just seemed to like you a little too much? (Refuse to see them? See how much you get outta their pocket?)

I just ignore the calls and eventually tell him why if he doesn't get the hint. I am too proud to lie or use someone, plus it makes it worse if you go that route.

Walk in a park, review the pictures of his house that she shows me and ask to live with him there. We are humans, yes, happens. Xo

Are you saying that this thread is an overly belaboured point?

The most feelings I will develope is a crush/infatuation, and that's all it is.

It makes Senor Grumpy's head hurt.

I find it funny you often respond, only to say the same thing.

I have a "friend" of mine coming back to town today. She is not exactly a GF, nor are we in "love" but she quit charging me quite some time ago, so she must like me at least a little bit. So, yes it does happen.

Are you more interested in your fuck buddy, or my idiocy?

I would keep it going as long as I could stand it. There is a limit though, my limit. Look as unfair as that may seem, I am here for one thing and I am not responsible for some john who can't get a grip that he is paying me to be there and that it does not blossom into a relationship because he feels all warm and fuzzy with me.  

In the meantime I can either do some work this morning, or hang around on TER.  

Clients who get overly attached don't usually want to pay anymore (at least not on a per date basis). They prefer to take the relationship to another level. Usually, they start out by demanding pretty unreasonable amounts of OTC time, in an effort to gradually shift the terms of the relationship. They know they can't outright ask me to date them, so they figure they'll ask for dinner this time, then maybe next time I'll stay overnight, then we'll gradually start spending more time together OTC, and so on. At least, that's how it's come across to me.  

Luckily, none of my clients have crossed any lines when it comes to getting attached... yet! Lol.

I think morons should read it, morons are the only people who think that providers want anything more than a business relationship.

at some point you have to put your foot down, or you will become a titillating unpaid pen pal instead of a successful, well paid hooker. lol

Tell the guy, "I'm so sorry!  Mom/Friend/Client is in town so I'll have to put away this phone.  You'll have to email me to set up our appt."

Then do you even want that guy as a client?  

If a client is too clingy but you think hes not BSC then dont cut him off just yet, he might not know the game very well. If your verbals hints have no effect then just stop communicating (but keep the bridge, incase you need $ for emergencies) if you don't feel good about making money off of him.  

Sadly the love-struck fools that need this reality check the most probably don't read TER.

If he gives me the creeps, that's a rap. If he is just overly nice, I can deal with that. As long as his advances do not start to invade my personal time/life, I can be delicate... no really, I can lol.  

Those who will keep sending messages for as long as you keep replying to them.   I will stop communicating if they don't try to set a date after a few message.  Sometimes (maybe 1/3 of the time) they will eventually get back in touch and set a date.   Rarely do they become repeat visitors, though.  

BTW, to the person who messaged me - I can't read it now, as my credit card company keeps flagging my VIP payment as fraudulent :/ Hopefully it will be sorted out soon."

I know she secretly loves me.  

I have dated several hookers, after all hookers have Boy Friends and a social life just like everyone else. Some clients make horrible "dates" others (like me of course) make for the perfect date/BF/fuck buddy. At least you don't have to lie about what you do for a living.

I'd really like to say that I don't get why guys can't grasp this arrangement and become clingy. I mean this is really fucking simple, have a great time with a great lady for a couple (or more hours) at her published rate and then either you or she leaves. Pretty fucking simple.

I've dated two clients, so what you say is definitely true. There's even a small possibility I might date again soon (not a client)...I AM human, I swear

I totally wish they'd get rid of that option.

If the lines have already been drawn, I don't call it trying to "finesse" their way in, I think it's more accurately called "weaseling"  

If I think I wouldn't mind seeing them as a client in the future, I just ignore most of their contact that isn't appointment related. I may chat with them briefly, a couple of short texts or emails, but if they haven't asked to schedule after a couple of messages,  I just end the conversation by ignoring them. They typically get the hint, and they either schedule or stop contacting me completely. Both outcomes are equally fine with me.

The last time we were in Costa Rica at the same time, (notice I did NOT say together) he told me what a lousy wingman I made. I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NOT nor did I want a fucking wingman, and that the ground rules were simple, "I do what I want and you do what you want, occasionally that will be the same thing, but only by accident"

It shall be life.  

They don't care about us and it's all about the money.
So sure you might find a small hand full of providers that act human but most are about that green.
They only fuck you to bring that money back to their personal boyfriend or girlfriend.
Please don't get played with your hard earned money guys.
This is a fun hobby but if you want a real relationship look outside of it!

I use the term hooker all the time, but I don't get all butt hurt when I am called a john in return.

If you think my feelings were hurt you have to be drunk right now.
You make smart ass comments all the time with no proof behind anything.
So my feeling were not hurt clown boy.
I was making a point and showing how little these providers really care so don't waste your time looking for love.
If they call us johns then they are hookers.  
We fuck them and leave the money.
Then everybody is happy after the date.
Sometimes I forget how slow you really are on here and run away when you can't take the heat. Lol
 

She calls us tricks.  I'll cop to that.

Just be clean, pay up and don't bug the shit out of me unless it is to book another appointment

"You gonna pull them pistols or just whistle Dixie, boy?"

I don't think you are really up for it anyway but the bossy vocal female providers are the most fun.  
When I finish with them they can't speak anymore.  
Thanks for the laughs. Lol
 

Your use of the word big really denotes fat, so fatdaddy now is it?. All you really would need  to do is sit on them and you'd pretty near suffocate them.

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When you assume you know what happens right?  
Also the only thing you might suffocate on is my dick inside your mouth.  
You are funny I will give you credit on this comment.