There was a very good posting on escortblogs today about kissing.  One person likened kissing to intercourse, even more intimate.

I am a big fan of kissing and note that some providers just won't kiss because, in their own words, it's just too personal.  On the other hand, I have met some providers who just love to kiss.

There is also the subject of oral hygene.  How much does this figure into a provider's decision to kiss or not?

Is there a chemestry that makes you want to kiss some, but not others?

How much satisfaction do clients get from kissing as opposed to other things?

What's the favorite technique?  Lots of tongue? lips? teeth?  I love them all, the more the merrier.

For me, it's definately in my top three list, though I do have a good time with a few who do no kissing at all.

Is there a chemestry that makes you want to kiss some, but not others? Of course... but ill give a breath mint first for even more chemistry !

How much satisfaction do clients get from kissing as opposed to other things? Some get hot and bothered for sure.

What's the favorite technique?  The tongue !! licking lips etc.

Really depends on the first kiss or two for me. If they're not good, don't continue. Wide open empty mouths are no fun.

DFK is a key criteria for me in selecting possible ladies - If no kissing with tongue I'm just not interested.  I love deep tongue, open mouth, lip nibbles and assorted licks - it gets me going!!

Kissing is a little different for me. My sinuses are narrow so I don't breathe well just through my nose. Long kisses are probably out and tongue hockey probably won't last long. Sorry. Suffocating isn't a pleasurable experience.

But what I do enjoy is giving gentle little kisses all over a woman's body. Not just in the obvious points of interest for men but places like the palms, the shoulders, the eyebrows, the nose, the back, the thighs, etc. To me, they are little thank yous of appreciation for being so beautiful and allowing me to adore them. I enjoy it immensely and it is a big turn on if I see she is enjoying that too.

I knew one gal who I would do that with and I would look up and see just a huge grin on her face. "You like it?", I asked to confirm. "No", she said. "your moustache tickles." I think she did enjoy it though because she always let me do it.

Is there Chemistry??  In some yes.. I do not personally kiss much due to my own personal reasons as you stated.. but occasionally a gent that really knows what he's doing.. I will consider..

Satisfaction from a client?? Yes, some do.. but that is mixed.. its not on all of their top lists of things.

Technique??  I agree with Ciara.. lip licking.. so even if your like myself who doesn't kiss a lot.. a little lip licking is sooo sensual.. they forget about the kiss itself.

I seriously don't like tongue at all.  I think sex is way more personal than a little smooching.

But it's nice to kiss while doing mish.   It makes for a pleasant time, but I always ask first and tell her no tongue please.

discount us frogs. We have long sexy tongues and some of us know how to use them!

Excuse a non-provider for jumping in but this issue hits home for me.  

I feels that kissing is as intimate an act as intercourse.  To me, sensual kissing is a highly personal and trusting act of intimacy.  An even greated turn on is the mutual play and response of 2 sets of lips, tongue etc.  I often feel more connected and in-sync with my partner through long, soft kissing than through other shared activities.  Perhaps it's because the mouth is closer to the brain than other places of union and I would much rather have someone's thoughts, feelings and intentions than just their body, no matter how beautiful that body might be.

I'm a newbie, so do you think I should make my feelings about kissing clear up front?

All I can say is I love kissing.  I have been complimented on my kissing by civvies and a provider, so I must be doing something right.

You guys are all asking begging to put your lips/mouth/tongue exactly were some dude just had his prick and left his DNA sample (CMI/Spit?swallow? ect) YUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
or is it me being a homo-phobe?????

with light kissing, with the tip of my tongue and then move away to the the neck and behind the ear. I never stick a tongue down her throat.

Kissing is erotic - fun - makes my toes tingle...

for me, it's more intimate to actually sleep with a person - and then wake up the next morning- than it is to kiss them..

Once you get a VIP membership, you will be able to research the ladies profiles and see who DFK, Kiss with/without tongue, No kissing, etc.

as long as I'm not kissing a toothless lizard. The movie "Deliverance" scared the crap out of me.  I'll never forget the line, "My, you got some perty lips."  Ooh!

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 7/28/2006 9:16:40 PM

I guess we will have the chance to practice, soon, huh.
Looking forward to it.

Just my opinion...
B

I have a bit of a thing for lipstick.  For some reason it just drives me crazy when a girl has shiny lips.  

And for the kissing thing...the wetter the better!

I'd be happy if all that happened to me was some kissing, if you know what I mean.  :-0

Let's just say Howard Hughes could never handle being a hobbyist. But, then again, Howard could afford to buy his own personal provider if he'd wanted one.

Most ladies I've spoken to do not like really wet kisses. Some juices are fine, but someone who slobbers all over you, while it drips down your throat, is disgusting! Save the wet part for down south, hon.

Hugs,
ciara

-- Modified on 7/29/2006 10:18:59 AM

The fine art of kissing... such a lost art.  I hate tongues being shoved in my ear canal or throat. Sometimes, there's one who just wants to tongue wrestle, as if there are no lips to be pressed. Sometimes, I'll take his face in my hands, and plant gentle kisses on his cheek, under the chin and down the neck, nibbling up towards the ear, only to moan and nibble when I get there. By the time I get back to the mouth, he's in a trance and won't try to fight me when I want to kiss gently some more.
I actually walked out on one guy when his kiss hello was a tongue in the air. I said "Is that the way you kiss?" He apologized, said he didn't know any better from his culture, could I please teach him. I said, "I'm sorry, I have to go."
It's unforgiveable. It changes the appointment from enjoying to enduring. YECH!

My favorite client is my favorite because of his kisses.
DFK all the way!!