Just wrong, LOL. They are up because no one has reported them plain and simple.
Since a US based IP cannot access TER, are members able to still search old reviews or post any new ones? I was able to VPN to get access, but I am only seeing other than US reviews and cannot find a way to modify search.
And if a provider moved off shore her profile will be visible, and you can review her.
I've found a couple of profiles that used to be there because the Home city was changed to be outside the U.S. are now gone.
Getting here shouldn't be the reason to come to this almost dead site.
Get your music, get your movies, get your files, in anonymity (big word) I had to look it up.
But since we are here let's post whatever. ahhh but the joy is gone too. Right after they banned me.
LOL I'm just kidding.
This place still cool
many reviews disappeared. When someone report a girl that is in the US and not fully overseas the reviews would be wipe out.. (it happen to me).
I havent log inhere much but seems that nothing has changed
Did TER admin inform you that someone reported that you were in DC?
If so, then some people need to get their head (both of them...) examined....
Mine are gone!
Probably some guy hungry for 2 days worth of useless VIP outing ladies in problem reports. I have unread PM's in my inbox, but it's not that important to me to spend hours digging through profiles looking for discrepancies. Some ladies wanted their TER profiles visible.... it should have been left alone. Or.... did someone submit a review for seeing you in the States? That could've tipped off TER also...
What's it matter? This site is never coming back in the U.S. anyway...
the attempt by some ladies to make it "appear" that they had moved to another country to work was a blatant and easily discoverable hoax simply by reading the remaining info in the profile. Nobody had to report anything to TER. Most ladies were just dumb about how they approached it. TER has a vested interest in making sure its users are not creating liabilities for them by trying to game the system by posting false information in their profiles when it comes to compliance issues under FOSTA. The few ladies that figured out how to do it without compromising TER's compliance concerns still have their profiles and reviews up. Its not rocket science, but you do have to have some common sense. Its not personal for TER, just business.
I can certainly understand them covering their asses. Just my opinion, but even if FOSTA/SESTA were to get repealed or amended favorably to the cause, it will take years. Years that TER doesn't have. Outside the U.S., countries with the greatest interest in sex work, are also countries where it's legal...at least in some form. My point is...that the way this site is formatted, it was by far most beneficial to U.S. mongers. We've already had several discussions about the dismal numbers for members online since being shut out. And that's worldwide! Also not taking in to consideration those of us who still come on regardless, using a VPN. I'm not damning the site....I love TER! It really was the greatest thing since sliced bread in the industry. I wholeheartedly wish to tell every politician in D.C. to stay the fuck out of my business. I would love to see things go back to how they were a mere 6 months ago. I just don't think that there will be any successful plan to defeat a law that has " sex trafficking" branded on it.
It's not the politicians in DC. It is the corporations they work for. Amazon, Wal-Mart, along with the rest of the online market places are not going to share their platform with people who are looking to buy and sell what is illegal.
I'm not sure why people believe these laws are a violation of free speech. The internet isn't a place where free speech applies, unless you own the internet, you can't say what you want there.
Most of the ladies that "moved" had their profiles removed right around the same time. And it was months after the big changes. So it's not so much about ladies being "dumb" as you put it.
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the ladies that Pm'd me still have their profiles and reviews up. They are the ones that were NOT dumb about how they approached this. You have to approach it from TER's perspective, not yours.
the all knowing CDL. Psssst TER changed it's perspective...But your head is so far up your own ass you can't see anything but sh*t, And I mean that in the most respectful and friendly way, really I do!
BTW has TER PMed you yet for advice? 
shoot the messenger because you don't like the message. That went out with the roman empire. You are the one that was talking smack a few months ago about how bright you were in getting your reviews back up on TER by claiming you were someplace that you weren't. Well, they're not up any more, which means you didn't know how to do it right. Facts are facts. If you knew what YOU were doing, your reviews would still be up. They are for some others that did it differently than you. From your earlier posts, it seems you have figured out how you and the other careless/dumb ones were caught. You should have thought things through before acting. Now its too late for you to fix, even if you knew how to do it in a way that respects TER's policies, because you have brought attention to yourself by doing it wrong the first time.
As you confessed, MANY other ladies that did what you did had theirs taken down, too. Take heart, Steph, you may be one of the oldest hookers here, but I don't think you are THE dumbest one by a long shot. That's a compliment, . . . . . . . . . sort of.
BTW, TER has not changed their perspective. It has been the same since they closed down US access and reviews. You thinking they changed their position because they didn't catch on to your hoax sooner just makes you a little dumber, but as I said, not THE dumbest one here.
Four months away from here and I decide to return to “check in” and what do I find? The usual sanctimonious and typically arrogant CDL. Good grief man why don’t you go get laid so you won’t always be such a bitter angry old man. Pathetic. I’ll not be paying less than zero attention to your reply but feel free.
shoot the messenger because you don't like the message. That went out with the roman empire. You are the one that was talking smack a few months ago about how bright you were in getting your reviews back up on TER by claiming you were someplace that you weren't. Well, they're not up any more, which means you didn't know how to do it right. Facts are facts. If you knew what YOU were doing, your reviews would still be up. They are for some others that did it differently than you. From your earlier posts, it seems you have figured out how you and the other careless/dumb ones were caught. You should have thought things through before acting. Now its too late for you to fix, even if you knew how to do it in a way that respects TER's policies, because you have brought attention to yourself by doing it wrong the first time.
As you confessed, MANY other ladies that did what you did had theirs taken down, too. Take heart, Steph, you may be one of the oldest hookers here, but I don't think you are THE dumbest one by a long shot. That's a compliment, . . . . . . . . . sort of.
BTW, TER has not changed their perspective. It has been the same since they closed down US access and reviews. You thinking they changed their position because they didn't catch on to your hoax sooner just makes you a little dumber, but as I said, not THE dumbest one here.
This is NOT what you were saying not long ago. Quite the contrary, you were calling Steph dumb for pretty much saying the same thing then that you are saying now.
As I have been saying for years, there are certain things that a monger is going to have a better perspective about and other things where the hooker POV is more likely to be the correct viewpoint.
I'm a lover not a fighter. That being said, there are things CDL really doesn't know all that much about (shhh don't tell him), some things and this is one of them. He may be quite knowledgeable about the ins and outs of being a monger on the west coast (or in his case a super duper monger), but honestly as you pointed out, isn't privy to what the ladies are going thru on TER.
There are quite a few, no many ladies with reviews still up who still marketing themselves in the US quite visibly! Let's face it, ladies HAVE to market themselves where they are trying to make money, or they will sink fast. Also according to what I was told first hand, ladies who live outside of the US who advertise a "tour" in the US, are also subject to being delisted if TER gets wind of it. Example being if a lady based in the UK decides to visit NYC and markets herself as visiting there.
So it's not a matter of some ladies being "dumb" and others "savvy". Not at all. Do you really think TER has time to go thru sites like P411, Eros and Twitter, looking for ladies advertising there for cities in the US? Calling the ladies who have been delisted in the last month "dumb" and careless...well it was dumb and careless of CDL to say such a thing IMO.
Steph XO
Her profile and reviews are down, so she was dumb then and she's still dumb, but I say this in a respectful and friendly way, of course, and that's as gentle as I can be about it. Other ladies that did it right are still up. It is what it is.
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Just wrong, LOL. They are up because no one has reported them plain and simple.
They are still up because they did not make the same, transparent, dumb-ass mistakes that you did.
Its amazing that you are so full of yourself that you think someone "reported" you. No one here cares about old providers on their last leg. The mongers I know would not shit where they eat, regardless of whether its a lady they see or not, so its time for a little introspection about why you failed, which if you figure it out, will lead you to ONE word: dumb.
and that describes your post to a T.
It's not mongers reporting hookers for this kind of thing, it's other hookers. If you really had any hooker friends like you claim you would know this.
TER is not going around deleting profiles against their own interests of their own accord, OTOH they can't just ignore the facts when some spiteful hooker with an axe to grind starts reporting other women with "proof" that they are actually still stateside.
I am surprised at you, I know you don't like Steph, but you normally make more sense than this. This post has to be one of your all time dumbest, I mean "stupidest" posts ever.
White-knighting your old friend, Steph, but if you're going to be one of the Johns doing that, you should never again call others out for it. It damages your credibility to talk out of both sides of your mouth on the same board. Not personal, my friend, just an observation.
FYI, you'd be surprised how many provider friends I have, but I have heard the kind of "reporting" you're talking about is pretty much confined to the lower-end hookers. Most of ladies I know in SoCal are all buds, and refer customers to each other. But I'm also not surprised that Steph is a polarizing figure even among hookers, and that one of her fellow hookers would rat her out, but then it comes to my original point. If she had done it right in the first place, there would be nothing to "report."
Usually I demur from entering a fray as the last time I did so on behalf of a gal, I got lambasted - by the gal! (She felt that I was being presumptuous to speak out for her, and preferred to fight her battles alone.)
I also will state beforehand that Steph and I are close and go back many years.
But the fact is that neither of you nor does anyone besides the powers that be at TER know for sure why some gals profiles remain up and other have been taken down (Including one gal who truly is based off-shore. She was told that if she tours the US, then it makes no difference if her home base is overseas.)
What we ought to be doing is figuring out what to do about this revolting situation rather than sniping at each other.
My info is first hand thou and you can take that to the bank and cash it. All you have to do is LOOK at ladies whose reviews are still up and see where they are promoting themselves to see it would be easy for many them to be added to the list of ladies with no profiles up now.
And calling ladies who recently had their profiles deleted in the last month "dumb" and other derogatory things goes to his narcissistic personality flaw.
His mansplaining on things regarding ladies here on TER is the only :dumb" thing going on, well besides his cheap pot shots of course.
Steph XO
>What to do about this revolting situation rather than sniping at each other.
We should leave for greener pastures, obviously. If TER finds a way to come back properly, we should too.
The only reason to stick around for now is the general banter that's left over by the few users that are still here, which is the only reason I'm here at the moment, because I'd miss you guys if I was completely gone.
always gotten along and you are one of the guys I most respect here, but since you decided to intercede, I will explain a few things supporting the position in my posts with Steph that you may not have considered.
First, its not personal, unless she makes it personal. A few days ago, I pointed out on another thread here that she was completely right about something, but when she gets it wrong or says something stupid, I am inclined to call her out on it, lest she influence other providers that don't know she has it wrong. if she had just said something like, "Yeah, I fucked it up somehow because my reviews are down, but I haven't figured it out yet," There would be no reason for me to post another word on the topic. There are a number of times where I have turned out to be wrong, and I will say, "I stand corrected," or else apologize publicly to the party I offended. There are a few diva's here that don't think they are ever wrong about anything, so they make themselves a target for ridicule when they ARE wrong. Steph is certainly not the only one that never owns anything.
As far as TER's position, I don't believe it has changed since they first blocked US access. Yes, some of the changes were necessarily incremental and may have LOOKED like they were changing their policies, but everything they have done has been consistent with, and flowed from their initial strategy to protect themselves, and to make all of the changes they needed to make takes time. You should understand that there is a vast difference in a legal sense between calling someplace your "home base" on paper and actually setting up the bona fides of having a residence there, so I would fully expect TER to remain consistent and tell a girl (as in your example) that she cannot use a foreign city as a mere "home base" in name only while she only works in the US. Jurisdiction if about being able to factually defend your location claims. This is what the "dumb" ones don't seem to get, but its kind of entertaining to watch them blame everyone and everything else except their own ineptitude. I have told Steph before she just doesn't know when to shut up and she continues to prove me right in this regard.
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past the douchie on the left hand side.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7Yg_6NP8Iw
I don't have that trait. So I feel like I'm missing something. But oh well. Teach me.
I know what I know thru FIRST HAND info, umkay. I gave you the credit for being an authority of knowledge re: mongers. Still you kept acting like you knew something you really have zero knowledge of getting more nasty with each post. And I'm not on my last leg "dummy".
But keep digging please, and displaying your shitty attitude. You just can't stand anyone who disagreeing with you on your all knowing (but not knowing) rants. Particularly if it's a woman.
I know what I'm talking about and on this subject you are turning out to be dummer than a bag of rocks on this matter. While you *may have* given good advice to some ladies (who really knows), it's not the be all end all and has zero to do with what has been going on since something back in July.
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Wait, you're saying that you know, and can ostensibly prove, that you know that you were reported, and that's the only reason that your profile got nuked, despite being in 'Toronto'?
If you have firsthand information, why not share it? Like, now would be a good time.
>Particularly if it's a woman.
I disagree, I've seen CDL lay into fellow mongers before, he's going easy on you.
First off, CDL is an equal opportunity douche bag. He gets into it with more guys than girls, (Just like me) and Steph's accusation that he's going after her because she is a woman is completely off base.
Secondly, I often give the guys grief for coming on here whining about this, that or the other without "naming names" CDL just recently made an unfounded accusation about gggdickson making up a story, and he ended up having to eat his words after ggg proved beyond any reasonable doubt that he was telling the truth. Well Steph, here's your chances to make CDL eat his words yet again. Just name the ho who did you wrong, and I will be the first in line to condemn her, and the first in line to demand that CDL eat his words AGAIN.
That said, even if Steph wimps out and won't name names, I have it direct from the source from other women that this has happened to them. I have ZERO doubt that it is indeed happening despite CDL's claims to the contrary. Lastly, CDL has well over 200 reviews, if so many hookers are seeking his advice on this subject why does only ONE of the ladies he has reviewed have a current profile in Toronto. Like I said before, I call BULLSHIT
with no reviews of your own, know that friendships with hookers and reviews are two different things. Many of my friendships originated on another website where I was posting and reviewing before I started posting here, so you won't find any evidence of my friendships with these women on TER. You have often talked about YOUR own friendships with hookers. Hookers you have NOT seen professionally, nor have you reviewed. When I have such friendships, why is it bullshit, and yet, yours should be believed? A desperate and spurious argument given your own history, but nice try.
And yes, once a provider corroborated ggg's story, I publicly apologized. Its what I would have expected had our positions been reversed, but a lot here feel differently. Many that are here will never admit that they are EVER wrong.
and all of the other colorful things I attributed to his douchy behavior. And OMG he's been rude AF even when a guy comes on hear asking for some advice. Like the poor guy who brought up taking his SO with him on a sex vacation. As narcissists do, he went off topic and as you put it GaG, was pissing on someone's parade, or something of that nature.
He inserted himself and HIS views with absolutely no regard for what the OP was asking for. He bullies guys for not having enough reviews to have any "cred" here, and god forbid a guys not have any. I see he couldn't help himself and had to take a shot at you for not having any-LMAO! It's pathetic that his whole self worth is wrapped up in how many reviews he's written and those all so important "600+" gals he's seen.
Now as far as my knowledge goes, I'd like to stay here on TER, so I'm not going to talk about where I got my info. And YES it's total bullshit what he's saying. Complete utter bullshit.
Steph XO
I try really hard to ONLY piss on YOUR parade, but sometimes when someone tees one up, I just have to take a swing, but at the end of the day, he was still stupid for wanting to spend thousands of dollars on a sex vacation to another country, but was too cheap to buy a month or two of TER VIP so he could get the info by PM from a few guys here that HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS he needed, but are smart enough themselves not to post names and phone numbers on this board under the current FOSTA restrictions. That's what PM is for, and that is a legit reason for calling him out. I make no apologies for that and would do it again to anyone else that stupid. The inside info he could have gotten by PM could have saved him major money on his sex vacation, certainly a lot more than he would have spend for a few months of VIP.
You don't know me because I don't see providers past menopause who have to wax their upper lip, but I absolutely don't have my self-worth wrapped up in my reviews. For me, as a single older guy who has lived life to the fullest from the day I became an adult, I would say the results of those 600+ reviews in leading me into some wonderful real life outside OTC relationships (like the one I'm in now) with several providers is worth way more to me than the reviews. The reviews were merely a way to give back to the TER community for the guys that always helped me with info about new girls.
This isn't "your board" here for you to look down on people that do something you wouldn't do. So what if he wants to take his SO on a sex vacation? This isn't the "Ask CDL Board" it's the General Discussion Board.
As far as your life, blah blah blah, you can't go more than a week without babbling about your reviews and those 600= ladies. But that's not the worst of it. You talk down to guys here who don't have reviews (GaG) and talk shit to guys that don't have a bunch like their thoughts don't matter if they are different from yours.
And taking pot shots at my age, C'mon it's just too easy. Waxing body parts is the best you can do? WEAK af, dude and zero fucks given. You are a narcissist pure and simple and those are not my kind of men I find attractive now or when I was 21 either. Yep your self worth IS wrapped up in those "600+" and reviews. You HAVE to keep babbling about them constantly. And put down others with less reviews. You called FollowMe a newbie which is laughable. He been on TER for a LOOONG time. Yet you called him a newbie, LOL.
You have really lost it on this thread, but please keep digging, you should be able to see China by now.
you can't stay focused and are all over the place, so its hard to respond, but I will address some of your points. I will agree that I look down on people that are stupid if they should know better. That's a character flaw of mine and I will own it. But you can't be suggesting that a guy is smart who comes on the board and asks for help in planning a sex vacation to another country and asks for help from the experienced guys here that have done that, and when they say to PM for details, he says "Sorry, I don't have VIP right now, and I can't get it unless TER gives me a refund?" How does a guy who can't afford a few months of VIP membership afford a sex vacation to another country? I posed this question and got no response. Classic timewaster, and THAT is stupid.
I'm not taking pot shots at your age, only repeating what WAS in your profile before you fucked it up and it got taken down. I'm sticking to that scenario until you name the girl like GaG told you to in order to support your claim that you were "reported." If not, you're a "wimp." (his words, not mine). I will be turning 60 myself in a few months, so you can say whatever you want about it, make "old guy" jokes or whatever. I won't be offended, because it is what it is. I'm not trying to be an age that I'm not, and no one should be offended by the truth.
If you read my response to followme, I explained the "newbie" comment. He has 18 reviews in 14 years on TER. That's about one and one-quarter girls PER YEAR (Don't ask me how you see a quarter of a girl unless he likes dwarf providers). You never learn anything more than a newbie knows when you see one girl a year, no matter how long you do it. Its a rapidly changing business, especially now, and it would be impossible for him to keep up with what's going on without a network of provider friends that trust him enough to discuss everything openly rather than the sanitized version given to occasional customers. So as far as experience, years mean nothing, volume of activity does. Who would you say is a more experienced golfer, one who has played in two tournaments a year for 40 years, or one who has played in 30 tournaments a year for 10 years? Didn't you notice a little bitterness in his attack on how many providers I have seen. Sad, isn't it?
"post menopausal" is just one of them. At least own it man. And if a guy doesn't have VIP, so what? Again it's the GDB not the ask CDL Board. Plenty of guys are running out of VIP days here. And I see you are still babbling about all of your reviews both here and on a now defunct board to show how important you think you are here and why you get to slam anyone not at "your level". And you don't write reviews to help the ladies, you write them to make yourself look like a "real winner", lol.
And OMG did you really mention your $3,000 suits in a review? Yes of course you did. LMAO.
that didn't ask me to come back and see them again. That usually doesn't happen with "douchy" guys, so is it possible you are wrong about yet another statement you're making, but merely THINK you are right? On this one, it comes down to who's right, you or the 600+ other providers I've seen? Lol
“I have never seen a provider . . . . .that didn't ask me to come back and see them again.” Does NOT make it true.
As you said …….
“so is it possible you are wrong about yet another statement you're making, but merely THINK you are right?” Or are you just lying and making stuff up?
Really 600+ have said that ? can you prove it? I doubt you can prove half that
Can you even prove you have seen 600+? Much less they have asked you to come back.
How about it boy got proof?
Talk is Cheap
being a low-volume newbie. You can say something that shows you're a complete idiot and some here will give you a pass. If you knew how to do a board search, you could answer your own question because its been discussed here before. I was the second-highest reviewer nationally on another site with 400+ reviews spread over several years. This claim was vouched for on these boards by guys that knew me from over there and were well-established here before I switched over. (TER does not allow reviews here that have already been posted on another site.) When that site closed in the summer of 2015, I started doing all my reviews here, and to date, have 200+. Now pay attention newbie and I will try not to make this too complicated. 400+ plus 200+ equals 600+. Go ahead and try it yourself and see if you don't get the same number I got.
Now, I know with your 18 reviews, you probably regard yourself as a hooker expert, but to put it bluntly, you're still wearing training pants, comparatively speaking.
Its true that me saying it doesn't make it true, but I have a history that militates in favor of my credibility. On the other hand, you saying its not true does not make it false. The readers will have to judge our respective credibility for themselves. Can anybody here with credibility of their own vouch for yours?
What's with calling me "boy?" Are you white trash or just uneducated? Again, if you do a search, you will find that GaGambler and I are the same age.
That was an uninteresting …
…Self-serving and self-promoting little tirade there boy, but you are amusing.
You still have not proven or given any creditable evidence that every one of the 600+ providers you say you have seen actually asked you to come back.
Just to remind you of what you said.
“I have never seen a provider . . . . .that didn't ask me to come back and see them again.”
I’ve never claimed or suggested or implied to be an expert on anything on here, well you are wrong on that, little boy.
Why do you find it so necessary to brag as to the number of reviews you have? Does it make you feel superior in your little world?
Your statement and I quote…… “On the other hand, you saying its not true does not make it false”
I never said it’s not true. I did and still do call into question much of what you say but I never said it’s not true. Therefore you are a liar. You like to talk about credibility, what does that say for your credibility?
Why do you find it necessary to tell me you are the same age as GaG. I really do not give a fuck how old either of you are.
As for you being second nationally on another site….I agree you are number two.
You’re Welcome
Hilarious!
Steph XO
CDL is a known proponent of tipping and not really trivial tipping (I'll accept it's true but certainly don't know).
We all know the working girls know how to put up with duchy people and assholes and the experienced are even pretty good at dealing with potentially abusive and violent people. The first two groups can be "welcomed" back if the expectations for compensation are sufficient.
At the end of the day even if all of the girls he's see "invited" him back it is far from clear for the rest of us if that was due to personality or financial incentives.
I saw enough ladies that I would not bat an eye at CDL 600+ reviews. They rarely ask me to come back.
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Birds of a feather, CDL and I. There were things he said that makes sense in my world and I did the same thing, including tipping. Girls have said they like my personality too. I don't give anyone a hard time so I am perplexed why they don't ask to see me again. I am not questioning CDL since there are always people better than me.
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OTOH, there are many ladies whose actions speak louder than words. I repeat so many times with them because they make me want to come back again and again. They never have to ask. They can tell when I will be back.
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The ladies whose performance is only decent could have gotten me to come back once more if they ask. I thought they don't need my donation anymore. It could be their English but all it takes is: "Please come back". One said that to me repeatedly recently and I could not get her out of my mind until I repeated. Such was the power of her words. Thought she wanted me LOL.
masters at reading their customers. I tend to be a little more reserved with my enthusiasm when I'm dressing to leave, so that may be why they feel they should affirmatively "invite" me back. There is no question you do not hide your own enthusiasm around the girls, and so they may be confident that you will be back without them saying anything. Also, with the volume of girls you and I see, the Kgirl network has already sent word ahead to other girls to be on the lookout for us. I have had a few girls tell me right at the beginning that they had heard of me from other girls, that I was famous among Kgirls (I won't say "why" or Newbie will accuse me of bragging again). "Famous" is a little over the top, even for me. Lol
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to ask a douchy guy to come back. There have been hundreds of guys in LA that have been blacklisted when offering extravagant tips ($200-$500 tips on a $250 session rate) for off menu services and who got belligerent when the girl continued to refuse). I'm not going to name them here, but if you doubt me, I can provide names by PM. However, some have been named in the past on the Kgirl board, as they are well-known douches with no respect for the ladies. I don't know of a single girl who would ask an asshole to come back because the was a tipping asshole. Some may "tolerate" a return visit, hoping the guy will improve his behavior, but the SOP most is to just tell the booker to block him. One well-known LA Kgirl has BL'd over 100 guys so far just by herself.
Only a desperate second or third tier girl would tolerate an abusive customer just for a tip. If you know any girls well enough to ask them, they will tell you themselves.
What you describe would be considered abusive and potentially violent (not necessarily physical but perhaps) and not a douchy person.
Still it's amusing to read, as you set the bar for your argument so low with the response it might be impossible to not to get over it.
know any Kgirls well enough to ask them directly and they trust you enough to give you an honest response, you will learn a lot about what they will and will not allow for a tip. Most will not see anyone again that could fit into most definitions of "douchy." With no reviews of your own, have you even seen a Kgirl, or are you just speculating on how you THINK things ought to be?
It was why I used myself as an example to say good personality and tipping don't guarantee being asked to come back. What CDL said reminded me of some girls who also told me they showed guys the door when they were offered big tip for off menu services. There was an advert "You be douche I be bitch" that pretty much summed it up.
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I doubt I would have an easy time seeing or repeating with any girls if I am a douche. I didn't say that before because I am not a douche so I can only guess some girls may tolerate such behavior, but certainly not any of the girls I like to see or repeat.
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CDL mentioned before that CDL is like Batman and the one the ladies see is really Bruce Wayne LOL. I can't imagine ladies don't want Bruce Wayne back. Excuse me for seeing past Batman. I enjoy talking to Bruce Wayne because I usually agree when he commented about the Kgirls. He also guessed right that I was iffy about repeating with the girls who asked me to come back. I am just surprised not more of them asked because that is an easy way put the thoughts of repeating in my head.
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that I "might" be Batman, but I have never actually claimed to be Batman publicly, but it is absolutely true that no one has ever seen CDL and Batman in the same room together. Coincidence? Lol
I remember that girl!!! I saw her because of her spunk in warning off the douches in her CV ad. Turned out not to be a great provider, but I was glad to give her some business for calling it like she sees it. She told me the ad was working because the customers she was getting were almost all respectful and gentlemanly. I guess the few that weren't nice to her just wanted to see what "bitch" really looked like in person. Lol
Another way to get asked back is to book multiple hours. I only book one-hour sessions with girls I am seeing for the first time. If I'm repeating, its always for two hours or more. I think the bookers tip some of the girls off that if they win me over as a regular they will get a lot of two-hour sessions. Last week was the first time in about a year that I saw four new ladies in the same week, each for only one hour, but its only because I was in another city.
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your strong suit. Read my post again. I ALREADY said that that part of my statement goes to a question of credibility. If my reviews were up, you could contact them yourself. However, I note that you have pretty much abandoned your suggestion that I have not seen 600+ providers. Then you ask why I want to "brag" about many reviews I have written? You are the one that implied that it was bullshit!!! Now that you have to eat that, you should work on connecting the dots when you read something. You called me out, now you want to backpedal by arguing semantics about HOW you called m out. That may work on a less-intelligent board population, but you're out of your league here, newbie.
I still think you're a newbie. Anyone that only sees a few providers a year is not really a mainstream hobbyist. Its like taking an annual fishing trip for three days and then telling the guys at the water cooler what an avid fisherman you are, but so arrogant you are going to doubt the stories from the guys that go every weekend. Low -volume mongering never really gets you out of the newbie mold, because seeing ladies so infrequently will never develop the kinds of communication avenues to know what's going on the industry, even if you're seeing the same one all the time. You gain their trust by familiarization on a regular basis.
It is fun to watch you wiggle, twitch and squirm boy.
As for credibility, you lied and I caught you and called you on it
” Your statement and I quote…… “On the other hand, you saying its not true does not make it false”
I never said it’s not true. I did and still do call into question much of what you say but I never said it’s not true. Therefore you are a liar. You like to talk about credibility, what does that say for your credibility?
Therefore, you are a proven liar, and you still talk about credibility…………Pathetic.
That would of course make one wonder what else you may be lying about.
I’ve not backpedaled on anything, boy. I clearly stated “I did and still do call into question much of what you say”. The one, and only, thing I do not question is when you say you were second on another site because, yes, there is no question you are number two.
I look forward to your self-praising, self-centered and self-serving reply and I know you will reply.
You’re Welcome
Why would anybody report given the current climate here on TER?
there are other providers that have said things here about being reported. It all started as best that I can say in July. And there's been finger pointing on Twitter. As to the why...I think Gambler summed it up pretty well. I don't know who the very first lady was that came down because of being reported, but it snowballed.
Steph XO
being REPORTED is the result of your own deficiencies in the way you approached "moving" to another city. If you had done it right in the first place, there would be NOTHING to report about you that would have resulted in your profile and reviews being taken down. You can only be REPORTED if you did something incorrectly. Yes, you can blame the person that reported you, if that is indeed what happened, but there must have been something visible in your profile that was a violation of TER's current policy. Had you not had visible evidence of a violation, your reviews would still be up. Its as simple as that. If you had it to do over, you should have PM'd me first. Lol
to name-calling, the last gasp for those that have no more substantive arguments to make that might be supported by facts or even common sense, and decide to just double down on dumb instead. While I concede you MAY have been reported by some other provider that doesn't like you, and I'm sure the potential list is substantial, you were challenged (not by me, but others with credibility here) to call her out for it, and yet you remain silent, which raises questions about the credibility of your claims of having been reported at all.. But even, arguendo, if you did provide the name, it doesn't address or change my point in the post above that IF YOU had done things right in the fist place, THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN NOTHING to report about you. Unless you can manufacture a new argument (which would then have to pass the "why are you bringing this up this late in the discussion" sniff test, this is game, set, match on this one, Steph.
As far as name calling/insults, you came out of the gate with both. As you always do when someone lets you know your just plain wrong. You started out say all of the ladies that had their profiles taken down were "DUMB", and you held fast to that while imploding into...well as GaG put it stupidity.
You have NO facts at all, any lady with an ad anywhere saying they are in the US, visiting the US is subject to being delisted. "Your girls", including the one of your review list who advertises as being in Cali, could be delisted if someone wanted to report her. There are ladies on the Top 100 list who market themselves right here because that's where they are based. They aren't doing anything magical, no one has gotten around to it.
And if you think TER is taking their valuable time searching the internet for violates, you are clueless IMO. BTW has TER sent you that PM yet asking you how to fix the U.S. problem? Any response yet?
Still waiting to hear who "reported" you, as is everyone else here.
You don't now what you are talking about. Providers legitimately from a foreign country that tour the US a few months out of the year are NOT being delisted. I agree that the girl outed by your new BFF could be delisted, but not as a result of anything I did, only what you guys did. I saw her only once for an hour in 2017, so she is definitely not one of the ones respecting TER's policies in the way she conducts her business, as DD posted yesterday when she outed her publicly. Why do you all think I give a rat's ass about whether this particular girl's reviews are visible or not? If she is not respecting TER's policies, then she is taking her chances just like the rest of you, but its not my style to cause trouble for innocent girls that barely speak English, but obviously, she is an easy target for you and DD. I agree TER may not be searching other websites for violators, but when you and DD post right here on this board, its pretty hard not to notice, and this is what creates liability under FOSTA. They are under no obligation to go to extraordinary lengths to make sure their users are in compliance, but the legal standard for them is "reasonably diligent", so if its on their boards, they would be expected to know about it.
After this, even your regular customers (if you have any) must think twice about trusting you now that you have shown what depths you will sink to.
Ahhh yes....mine are gone as well! I do keep checking back on TER to see if things are moving in a positive way here but I see nothing as of yet. Fingers crossed!
Mine are Gone Again Too! I think Somebody has too much time on their hands! SMH
Mine are gone!
Not "wiped out".
All the reviews I have submitted (US locations, every one) are still on the site.
I don't know how anyone else gets to see them. But I can.
Indexing and searching are restricted now, sure. But the raw materials, the reviews themselves, are not wiped out.
I noticed that some providers have changed their locations to foreign locations instead, like if they're in NYC they now list in London. I guess to keep their reviews up. Makes it impossible to search for locals, but if you find someone on google or whatever you can probably still get their TER.
You've never seen a provider
Literally
have you?
just use the Opera browser . it has a built in vpn function