Fool though I may be, so far I have never seen the naked lady pick up her cell phone when she goes to the bathroom, and there are precious few places to hide one :^)
I know that some (many) ladys excuse themselves to the bathroom fully clothed then reappear in lingerie(sp?), those could leave their phone in there (though I would HEAR if they were using it), but mostly we just leave a clothing trail from the door to the bed.
I certainly understand that this is a business transaction, and as such I do expect that the time I have paid for is indeed mine, and that has been (mostly) my experience to date. If it is not your experience then perehaps you might rethink either your choice of companions or your attitude towards them.
Whatever avenue you NEXT choose to insult me will have to be the last word, I'm done.
I have on many occassions emailed providers that advertise their services and never get a reply. I don't ask specific questions, just general ones - such as times available, in/out type of service if not provided, along with price and availability. I would say that at least 95% of the time there is no response. These ladies are providing a service/bussiness and I would think they would reply to possible clientele to increase their income and out of politeness. I am quickly getting fed up with these piss poor attitudes of these so called providers.
providers are like mechanics they just need tools to work on your car and provders just need two tits and 3 holes
I sometimes get 200 emails in a week and you have to filter out the serious ones from the ones who want internet sex and sometimes an email gets deleted by mistake as yahoo will malfunction or have their server down when you hit the delete button and it will delete several emails at one time. I have to stick w/ yahoo as it doesn't allow my ip address to be traced. I do get alot of emails from men who said they emailed me months ago and I have to apologize
There are a few providers who diligently answer every e-mail, but the majority don't. Don't let it get to you - just have a backup in case your prime choice doesn't respond.
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I wouldn't get too hot about it. Many of these ladies get hundreds of inquiries and don't have the business sense to hire an assistant because they may not want others to know what they are up to... Still others get busy taking appointments from persons who call rather than write e-mail. the early bird gets the worm... In either case, you are right, it's bad business, however...
Here are the guidelines I use. If I call and do not get a response within 4 hours, I do not ever call again. For e-mail, a provider has 3 days to acknowledge or I am looking elsewhere. My other advice for you is to see only reviewed ladies unless you get info from someone you trust. Use reviews and other sources to determine their price. Many providers get skittish anytime you discuss money and that's probably the reason you are not being contacted. When the repsonse is still poor, vote with your time and dollars elsewhere. If all hobbyists learned that, we'd have very few bad reviews. Finally, you know the expression, "when you fail to plan, plan to fail?" Well, the absolute best providers require that you are organized and are serious. If you want to see only see the skanks from Craigslist or other marginal places, you are getting exactly the results you are asking for...
Why dont men realize we have real lives as well. Quite possible we may be:
1-out of the country and cant get to our normal cell at that time ?
2- we are busy fucking on a 3 or 4 hours appt. Shall they say " Oh I got a call, let me answer it .
3- Providers only work certain hours of the day.. Their phones are off after a certain hour. We have lives, families, s/o's, possibly other careers.
4-We are booked for that day and simply cant get to our phones for an obscure amount of time-
as for email -
I know your .com you use, cause of friendly emails passed to and fro.. your dot com address is very likely to get thrown in a junk folder/ or in a bulk folder..Its a free service. You get what you pay for..
Of course you have lives and so do we. I think 4 hours is very reasonable. If you are seeing 4 guys or gals back-to-back-to-back-to-back (no pun intended), then I totally understand your dilemma of not calling back. If you are that busy then you probably don't need me LOL... If you don't want people to call direct and perfer e-mail only, then don't publish a number. A published number means you want calls at reasonable hours. I am willing to wait for you via e-mail. Our appointment will never be an emergency. If you are booked for a weekend or going to be out of town, then publish as you do a daily e-mail or have an e-mail minder telling us that you are unavailable. The orginal thread was pleading for a response. I can't say that I share his success rate. I don't chase pussy.
You are chasing pussy !!! Is why you are emailing girls for sex- whether on a dating site or an escorting site
If you believe for one minute girls only see one man a day, well.....
I have a bridge to sell you 500 miles away from Buffalo LOL!
Now I can agree that I PAY for pussy, but if you think that I have any illusions about providers who claim they see only one guy a day then you are losing it and you are still a young woman. I, like many of my brethern are busy people who do not have the time or inclination to chase bar rats and go to strip clubs every night. You should go to bed every night knowing that we are on that wall for you. You want me on that wall, you need me on that wall or you'd have to depend on money from a real job. The only pussy I chase is far away as my cell phone. If you don't answer or you don't return my call, then NEXT. Sorry. I am not some sorry MF that ever NEEDS this. I see it as recreation and you of all people should appreciate that you will leave with more ducats than you came in the door with and be happy I was willing to part with them.
If she's in my room for a 3 or 4 hour appointment I certainly HOPE she's not using that time to answer or return return your call...
If you believe that while she is taking that douche in between your eruptions and calling Tom, Harry, Sally, and me, you are a bigger fool than even you know. Most of these ladies have loyalty only to the dollar. If you think because you schedule a 3 or 4 hour date that grants you exclusivity, PT Barnum has some circus tickets he's dying to send you.
Are you kidding? Do you really think we're running into the bathroom to call other clients while we're already *with* a client?
I've never been able to understand men who, while they're willing to patronize us, also see us as some sort of evil enemy.
This is a yin-yang situation - we both need each other, and, hopefully, we're both here to be mutually beneficial and respectful of each other. With an attitude of thinly veiled hostility such as yours, there is no possible way for this balance to be maintained.
You get out a session with us what you bring to us - and you certainly come across in your postings as bringing loathing and resentment to your hobbying. We might be escorts, but we're not stupid - that kind of attitude is instantly apparent, and is returned in kind with the service you ultimately end up receiving.
Morgan
I think you are right, there is a yin/yang to hobby, but that's more human nature and man and woman that you may want to admit. Some of the so-calling sniping is done in fun and is good natured. You have never seen me ridicule someone for the sole purpose of being ugly. As trying to single me out as being hostile and resentful is so far off the mark it's laughable. At the same time, I don't have to cowl down and agree with you or anyone else. I speak my mind and if my interests don't agree with your sensibilities, don't read my posts. Very few providers use their real aliases on the board and many say outrageous things. I don't go out of my way to challenge many of these assumptions and some times I do. As for the fact that many providers, don't turn off their phones and many do return calls, it's a fact. If you don't operate that way, fine. My point to the gentleman was that his 3-4 hour fee didn't buy him exclusivity.
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Fool though I may be, so far I have never seen the naked lady pick up her cell phone when she goes to the bathroom, and there are precious few places to hide one :^)
I know that some (many) ladys excuse themselves to the bathroom fully clothed then reappear in lingerie(sp?), those could leave their phone in there (though I would HEAR if they were using it), but mostly we just leave a clothing trail from the door to the bed.
I certainly understand that this is a business transaction, and as such I do expect that the time I have paid for is indeed mine, and that has been (mostly) my experience to date. If it is not your experience then perehaps you might rethink either your choice of companions or your attitude towards them.
Whatever avenue you NEXT choose to insult me will have to be the last word, I'm done.
Why ? Because hobbyists dont realize, there are junk folders, there are spam folders, there are trash folders.
Has your escort not emailed you back ?Another reminder.
Many men complain because their escort of choice doesnt email them back-
If you are emailing to her hotmail account-
It goes in the junk mail folder- she maybe didnt get it.
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If you are emailing to her AOL , it went in spam folder. It didnt get it !
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Yahoo- it went to her trash folder
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If you mentioned anything of these words , sex,escort, so on, it went to blocked mail in her outlook express.
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Check YOUR aol spam folder
Check YOUR hotmail junk folder
Check YOUR yahoo trash folder
Its quite possible you have emailed her from YOUR yahoo, hotmail, or AOL...
And your email is lying in one of those folders.
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Out of 50 emails we get - 30 of them are spam mail-
Nigerian fuckers
Cialis /Viargra fuckers
Get a lower rate on your mortgage fuckers
and buy a rolex fuckers
And its very possible she could of deleted you on accident while "ctrl" her spam mail first.
I don't know anybody who answers all their e-mails. I sure don't - do you?
Thank you for all of the input. I do understand the dilemma that you ladies have. In my emails I always try to be courteous and respectful and do not mention the forbidden words, however if the lady has not provided information on her rates I will ask without mentioning anything about sex. I don't don't think my emails go to all these different folders because of the way I word them as mentioned above. I am not asking for an immediate reply, but a timely one is appreciated and it says something for the ladies character. Really all I'm asking is for a little courtesy and that goes along way with me and it may just put some cash in the ladies pocket book. I am jus trying to do bussiness with the ladies that I respond to, but apparently they either don't get it or don't care.Hope you don't take this personally, I am not on your case. -eman
You mentioned you asked general questions. But one of the questions you asked was price. If that is the actual word you used, then yes, I'd expect a no a 95% answer rate.
In my experience, I never ask that question in the first e-mail I always ask availability first. Then if she responds I ask about incall/outcall and when I get to the price question, I use the term she uses on her site. By that I mean I will use the terms; rate, gift or donation. I figure, how can she object to me calling it the same things she does.
Try that and see if it helps.
Why would you have to ask price or donation, rate, if it's already on her site and your booking 1 or 2 hours you should know, you should not have to ask.
I will never discuss rates, donations, etc. If I'm asked that I will always respond, "that information is on my web site"
If it's on the telephone, I'll do the same...It's not worth taking a risk for.
I would prefer 1st correspondence to be by e mail and I do state that on my web site, but it doesn't happen that way all the time.. If all the information requested on the web site was put in a email including references, you would probably be talking on the phone or having your session within hours if not a day!!!
It really goes so much faster and more comfortable...you don't feel like your put on the spot..
I may try leaving my phone # off and put a request form on my web site... at least for the initial contact...
Terri
My success rate is quite a bit higher than yours, but by the timme I e-mail I pretty much know the price, etc. and only have to talk about scheduling.
Last time I went to Vegas there was one lady I REALLY wanted to see. I filled out HER form & waited a week, nothing. Filled out her form again, nothing (this is 4 weeks before my trip). I went on & scheduled several other ladies, all of whom responded promptly & showed up when they said they would. In any case, 3 weeks after I returned home I finally received a reply from the lady "hoping we can set something up on your next visit", I don't think so... [/rant]
Be really careful what you ask, and if she still doesn't respond just move on.
I sometimes don't return phone calls, that's usually due to time that's gone bye....I would never jeoperdize the callers home time.
That's why it a good idea to say when is not a good time to call...etc.
hi, Well, you may want to put a sentence in the email about yourself. I put my race, approximate age, the fact that I'm clean cut, and the field I work in. This may make a difference. I get a much better return rate than 5%, certainly well above 50%. You can try to call if you like. Not responding is a poor business practice, and this might say something about what type of person/agency you're dealing with. move on to something better....