I frequently fantasise about ‘clients’ but these last few days I  have been thinking a lot about one particular guy.  I’ve been bringing myself off while thinking of his fingers, tongue and c*ck.   I’m tempted to email him and tell him he blew my mind but I’m worried he’ll think I’m some kind of bunny-boiler mad woman.   Should I tell him or not?  He’s a happily married man and I don’t want to freak him out.


Help please!

I think it would be wise to not contact him.

Now, there are many exceptions to this, such as you have already established this kind of relationship, etc...

But, I would wait until your next appointment and then unleash the sexual dynamo that you are! He will get it, even if you don't say the words. lol lucky dude!

I don't even care if you boil a bunny !  lol

I don't think there is anything wrong with emailing a client to thank him and also let him know how well it went; and how much you appreciated his services. ...     If he is a decent guy, he will be flattered.  It's all in how you say it.   Good luck!

What is a "bunny-boiler mad woman"

Thank you

Glen Close throws Michael Douglas' kids pet rabbit in a stew pot.  I'm not a member of PETA, and Carrie can boil my bunny anytime!

She says the guy is happily married.   I never heard you say that you are.  LOL

Obviously, pay attention to the context - but it's flattering and not something to be taken too seriously.  If you convey it in a lighthearted way, perhaps with humor, I'm sure he'll find it quite endearing.

After all, you don't think we guys are thinking of higher mathematics when we wank off, do you??!!!

Dear Carrie;

Speaking for myself, I think that if it were me you were having these fantasies about i would like to know.
Not because I might want to "escalate" the relationship but just because it's nice to know that you  and I had made that strong a connection.

But, then, that's just me.
I tend to look at things a bit different than everyone else.

Just my opinion...
B

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Question is, how can you fantasize about ME, we have never met!  lol

Discreetly tell him, the happily married man, he'll be even happier.  ;~)

These incidents are not as rare as you may think.  IMO, without freaking him, you could securely email him something discrete like what a wonderful time you had, you've been thinking of him and eagerly anticipate your next meeting.  If the guy has the class you imply, he'll be flattered and excited, if not, just flow with your own juices and devices as an erotic memory.

Knowing he left that kind of an impression on you will keep him smileing for the rest of his life.

I don't think there's anything in the world wrong with telling him that you like him and his company at the right time and place.  He may or may not feel the same way.  I'm wrestling with the same problem now--I have seen a lady three times now and I find myself thinking of her in the same context you do.  I have decided to ration myself until or unless she expresses some indication of reciprocation because there's nothing more troublesome than an unrequited feeling.

A couple of years ago I was with a provider. As I began to get out of bed she said "please stay."  At first I did not understand her meaning, but to those of us who are "older," I have to say that it meant a lot to my ego knowing that my mind and body was still desired.

Let's be nice to the bunnies.

Thank You

is running around, saying 'YES, I AM THE MAN'

super and authoritative!

Thanks for the feedback, still don't know if I will email him.  I can't assume he wants to see me again so can't say I'm looking forward to our next meeting. But your feedback and thoughts are much appreciated.

No bunnies were harmed in the making of this post

How well do you know him?  Is he someone you see regularly?  Do you ever exchange emails with him about other things?  Its all in the context.  If it were me (which it couldn't be - be nice if it were) I would be flattered and it would make my day (probably my month).  Especially if the email comes across as something passionate, honest, but not meant to be taken more seriously than what has already happened.

...I'd KNOW you weren't talking about me.

You might combine it with an offer to double the time for the same donation.  

All in all there's nothing much more of a turn on for a guy to learn he really does it for a woman, particularly one who knows good from bad.

sure babe..and I have a bridge for sale.

It does surprise me how sometimes very professional relationships can explode out of their restraints like this.  

I would try to go carefully, Carrie.  Knowing how the male ego works, telling him directly all at once that he blew your mind is unlikely to have good results from your point of view.  It's better not to go overboard about that.  

I'll PM you with a suggestion.

Just because I'm in a contrarian mood let me raise one possible problem; your disclosure may not just flatter him but get him thinking of you in a different way.  You say he's happily married but you can't really know.  What if your revelation gets him to thinking maybe he'd be happier with a lifetime devoted to pleasing you instead of his wife?

Far fetched I know, but just something to think about.

And you don't have to make it sound like you are stalking him or anything, just let him know that he really did it for you and you appreciate a guy like him, who gives as well as he receives.  It is something any of us that care about a woman's pleasure would love to hear.  Just think, next time you see him, he may really try to be even better...hmmm then what?...LOL

best suggestion,  double the time for the same donation, that way he knows you are sincere about your complements and when he is there use the other suggestion "please stay"

(((((((EARTHQUAKE))))))) BABY, you know he dreams of you often as well.

Kisses