Providers - I laugh every time I see a provider who claims on their website to delete any info given in screening.  

WTF is wrong with you?

Trust me....we dont give a shit who you are or what you do...and i can personally say as a provider we really dont keep your info...we usually keep your name/screenname/#/email and notes about you which i woulod probably write- egotisticall,likes to think he's important

I wont see any one who I don't know exactly who they are. If I get hurt I will make sure I know exactly who they are. Safety is more important to me that money.  

How do you know that provider did not indeed delete your private info? were you there sitting next to her when she didn't delete your screening info? I doubt it.

I've never met a girl who lied about her age. Do they really exist?  
I always believe everything they say.  After all, it's all about trust and honesty. lol

Am I really that insignificant?  

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As noted above this has been covered hundreds of times, and my normal response to the paranoia of trying to hide is that it is impossible. Be smart, be cautious, but if you think you can hang out here, or anywhere else online, interact with people, and that you will be able to remain anonymous, it just isn't true. Anyone with a reasonable amount of intelligence or money can figure out who any of us are without much trouble.

How do you know what "we" do? You now the Union Leader for Hookers?  

What she tells you may or may not be the truth.  It depends on what she wants/needs you to believe.  But unless you're also her bf or screener, you just don't.  The worst at this is Tidwit, but a surprising number of otherwise savvy guys fall for more than they think.

I wonder if any hobbyist  on this board has ever had his personal data used to his harm?

It's pee. lmao

As for the OP, ALL hookers don't do the same thing anymore than ALL john's do.

but believing that even most hookers destroy your personal info would be a very reckless assumption to make IMO, but in my case, I really don't care. I mean it's not like anyone can really do much with MY info. Other guys aren't in the same boat as you and me however, which is a good thing. Two guys in the same damn boat is crowded enough, unless we fill it up with at least a dozen women of course. lol

I see you have reviews going back a couple of years, so you are not new. So tell me, are you joking, or do you not read the boards? because there countless cases of BSC outing guys, blackmailing guys and otherwise misusing the personal information of their clients.

I can think of one BSC provider a few weeks ago who threatened to sue a client for cancelling weeks in advance, but refused to pay a several hundred dollar cancellation fee. Talk about a fucking nut job. I would mention her by name but she is Persona non grata around these parts, and for very good reason.

Provider + Your Money = We

I haven't read the General board very often mostly because of the antagonist battles amongst the regulars. Also my selection of a very limited number of excellent providers who have proven to be very trustworthy. I know as much about them as they do about me. Lastly, I have not much to lose because I'm a widow, retired, 82 years old and the only members of my small family know what I am doing and are OK with it. But thank you for cluing me in.

Unless you are an 82 year old woman.

Some of us are blackmail proof, at 82 and a widower, I doubt there is much that even the most BSC of hookers could do with your info. I am in a similar situation, although in my case I am self employed and divorced, but like you my family also knows I am a whore mongering pig.

That said, there are quite a few guys here, actually the vast majority of the guys whose lives could completely ruined if they were to be outed as a "hobbyist" and yes it has happened many, many times right here. Most of those members have been forced off the boards as the financial consequences for posting here were too severe.

BTW I don't mean to compare your loss of being a widower with me being divorced. The two are not even close to being comparable. I only used the comparison to make the point about being "blackmail proof" you have my sincere condolences for your loss. Yes, I am one of those frequent antagonists here on GD, but I am not an unfeeling asshole. Call me an asshole with feelings. lol

The ONLY reason I read the GD is "because of the antagonist battles amongst the regulars." lol

Every time I go to a urologist and he sticks his fingers up my ass, I know what a feeling asshole is like LOL

Thanks for the clarification and such a great contribution.. Oh, Oh, I forgot about your main purpose around here is to be the top poster.

My mom is in her 50s and just learned how to text. I'm impressed. Rock on, sir.  

Agreed. I use to delete everything....but then the gents would have to be re-screened every time. And many gents want to use us as references at a later date...if we don't have a phone number or e-mail to go by, then we cannot provide a reference for you guys. I don't keep info for any other reason except for reference purposes....if a guy is adamant about me not saving his info, I won't...but let him know he will have to go through screening process all over again next time he wants to schedule.  

I find the 60+ board very helpfull and a much pleasanter group of people.

Thank you Tobey. I have to admit that even though I started with personal computers and communicating with them in about 1987 or 88 I do tend to get a bit bewildered with current technology.

On a very short trip. lol

Otherwise you are right, we need a much bigger boat with a LOT more women.

Why so angry?

you ask for reference we remember, because that's the way we roll.

Lol.  Yes, I promise I immediately drop the post-it note into the trash and save your number as something I'll remember.  Ie: Paranoid guy who thinks he's a super fancy client

since you were unable to respond to the topic correctly... you are making a donkey out of yourself.

when they don't fall in line with the responses he wants to hear. Especially when he explicitly asked for comments.  

A provider to at least keep some information that way when you need a reference she can actually give you one? Shouldn't you have hobby information that isn't attached to you? (IE: Hobby phone, hobby email) Because the only information she needs to save is your first name and your email or phone- depending on how you prefer to contact her. If you want your information deleted, ask her to do so, and I'm sure she will do it. The only reason a provider HAS to keep your information is for 1) Future visits and 2) To give a reference. I can see if your verifying with your work info or something, in which case- she shouldn't save that information.