So I met a lady today. Nice face. Great body. Went in for some DATY  several times and all was well BUT the whole thing was wrong. Way too much baby talk, fake ooh's and ahh's.  I've either been been with too many great actresses or I have become jaded.  I even told her when we were done that I was sorry she couldn't cum. I know this has been brought up before but are the ladies that good at acting because in most encounters I have had here there is flushing, shaking, gasping and other body reactions that seem hard to fake. Personally if she's not really into it fine. Just suck my cock and fuck me and cut out all the bullshit.

in real life as well...guess I'm part of the 80% of women who don't easily cum. I find it helpful to communicate how to make me cum if that's the focus of my friend - vibrator is only thing that works.
Maybe you could give her that feedback so she knows to calm down on the acting for future.

If a guy can't get me off, it is not HIS fault anyway...it is mine. I am in control of my body and my own orgasms, but many men do not get this so many ladies fake it. So much pressure if put on us to get off, that many women just feel it is easier to make you think it has ANYTHING to do with you, when in reality it does not. You don't have to be hot or skilled for me to get off, but it was not always that way. Being in this business has allowed me to discover things about my body and how easy it is to just let go FINALLY, and I could never seem to do that before now. I can't tell you why some are over the top, when I just tell a dude it is not happening, but my guess is they don't want to upset you.

I was going to ask you about your time with this lady since you told me yesterday that you were going to see her today. I guess there's no need to ask anymore.

Sounds like you were really determined to make her cum.

she didn't seem that into me and it felt mechanical...

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and the converse is also true, a bad actor will ruin a good script and good direction.

So it is with the hobby.

We need more method actresses.

I'll take sincerity over bad acting any day.

But good acting?  That's priceless (And also I'd say rare.)

I broke out laughing during a provider's extreme O  faking .
She was more dramatic and louder than a  porn movie  .
 
 She followed my outburst with genuine laughter , I knew she would  be a favorite  .
I've never tried crying during sex , I'll stick with laughing when the cue card comes up .  
 
 

if guys just let it go and if she does, she does and not add in reviews what hotplants mentioned below, some of us would not have be forced to go there.

And I blame porn...have you heard the cacophonous bullshit high moaning those ladies do in porn and not to mention that intake of breath through the teeth throughout the entire time. Yep, that's really bad acting but guys buy it hook line and sinker.

Adding that if she knows a guy is expecting an orgasm from her during the session and realizes that a return visit might be depending on it...it means money and I will go there every time. Unless you guys walk in with a yes I want you to or a no I don't care, some ladies have to err on the side of money. Sad but true!

And do it very well. Not all those physical signs happen with every lady. Some are fairly quiet and others will rip your hair out. Yeah there is some bad acting but none worse than porn IMHO, but that's another subject.

I mean we can even fake wetness...internal moisture beads that slowly melt and mix with your natural self.  

great sex is like a play..it comes in different acts..most guys have a pre-conceived notion of how the entire thing will go..bad idea..just relax..let your two bodies naturally dictate what will happen..let her guide you..she knows what makes her tick..you just think you do..once the play develops like it should..the final curtain should be totally satisfying for both of you..encores recommended..

....I would think they'd take over the top acting to/vs  "dead fish"/mechanical.

I don't bother to fake it tho...if I like it you'll know and I have no problem on giving direction to get the satisfaction I need too.

an orgasm from the escort they hired as an affirmation of her attraction to him. And some need this or their experience suffers.

My best clients don't care if I do...the tougher ones do care and then I will make their dreams come true or else it will come down to them trying and trying and trying.....and there is only so much I can take.

although i haven't faked it since i was a teenager, i can absolutely understand a woman, especially a provider who is depending on positive reviews for a living, who does so. even from the OP's description of activities (daty with clear intent/desire to make her cum) sounds pressure-packed. even women who enjoy that particular activity are not too likely to enjoy it so much from a stranger who is paying them for their time. especially if you do not bother getting to know or understand her body at all, but are simply going through your routine of "women like this, so i'm doing it and she will love it." every women is entirely unique and it takes a sensitive, intuitive person to make those sparks happen. she clearly knew it wasn't going to happen but could also clearly see that it mattered a great deal to you....so she did what she felt necessary, she faked it.

if she had been truthful and stated in the middle of activities that she did not like what you were doing, i am sure you would not have found that pleasant either. she was probably faced with a lose/lose situation here.

It seems no matter what we do, someone is going dislike it. I do what is best fr me at the time...can't do it any other way as I can't read minds and can't please everyone.

lubricant inserts, and you just busted us again lol. My oh my, I love the reviews that say, "She was sooooooo wet...you just can't fake that." Um, yea ya can if need be, but why bother lol.

I wonder how they taste? LOL

That despite all these pitfalls about being genuine, having to act, doing it with strangers (not even time to rehearse!), it so often comes off so beautifully.

I'd call that real beauty.

Where do you get these, from Amazon?

Well, if we guys can use vitamin V, I guess the gals are entitled to their vitamins too.

We busted that illusion wide open...not for every lady of course but it does happen that some have to use some aids to satisfy certain hobbyists