in real life as well...guess I'm part of the 80% of women who don't easily cum. I find it helpful to communicate how to make me cum if that's the focus of my friend - vibrator is only thing that works.
Maybe you could give her that feedback so she knows to calm down on the acting for future.

If a guy can't get me off, it is not HIS fault anyway...it is mine. I am in control of my body and my own orgasms, but many men do not get this so many ladies fake it. So much pressure if put on us to get off, that many women just feel it is easier to make you think it has ANYTHING to do with you, when in reality it does not. You don't have to be hot or skilled for me to get off, but it was not always that way. Being in this business has allowed me to discover things about my body and how easy it is to just let go FINALLY, and I could never seem to do that before now. I can't tell you why some are over the top, when I just tell a dude it is not happening, but my guess is they don't want to upset you.

I was going to ask you about your time with this lady since you told me yesterday that you were going to see her today. I guess there's no need to ask anymore.

Sounds like you were really determined to make her cum.

she didn't seem that into me and it felt mechanical...

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Lighten up take all the laughs you can find

I broke out laughing during a provider's extreme O  faking .
She was more dramatic and louder than a  porn movie  .
 
 She followed my outburst with genuine laughter , I knew she would  be a favorite  .
I've never tried crying during sex , I'll stick with laughing when the cue card comes up .  
 
 

and the converse is also true, a bad actor will ruin a good script and good direction.

So it is with the hobby.

We need more method actresses.

I'll take sincerity over bad acting any day.

But good acting?  That's priceless (And also I'd say rare.)

if guys just let it go and if she does, she does and not add in reviews what hotplants mentioned below, some of us would not have be forced to go there.

And I blame porn...have you heard the cacophonous bullshit high moaning those ladies do in porn and not to mention that intake of breath through the teeth throughout the entire time. Yep, that's really bad acting but guys buy it hook line and sinker.

Adding that if she knows a guy is expecting an orgasm from her during the session and realizes that a return visit might be depending on it...it means money and I will go there every time. Unless you guys walk in with a yes I want you to or a no I don't care, some ladies have to err on the side of money. Sad but true!

And do it very well. Not all those physical signs happen with every lady. Some are fairly quiet and others will rip your hair out. Yeah there is some bad acting but none worse than porn IMHO, but that's another subject.

I mean we can even fake wetness...internal moisture beads that slowly melt and mix with your natural self.  

great sex

great sex is like a play..it comes in different acts..most guys have a pre-conceived notion of how the entire thing will go..bad idea..just relax..let your two bodies naturally dictate what will happen..let her guide you..she knows what makes her tick..you just think you do..once the play develops like it should..the final curtain should be totally satisfying for both of you..encores recommended..