She's bored, lonely and frustrated that no one is calling her

So I will guess that she isn't smart, funny or sexy, hence the comments she will likely see here.  Except for those fellas that need to kiss up to a gal that is clueless and narcissistic.  

The "fact is" ? Do you have access to the TER membership records?

True many ladies pay for membership. Many do not
Many men pay for membership. Many do not
I am not going to try to state any facts here about VIP membership because I don't know them, as I am not privvy to TER's information.
Although one fact I am sure on, is that you don't even have to be VIP to post on the boards. So while there are paid VIP members and free VIP members, this thread is about board posts, and any basic member is free to post on the boards, so who pays for VIP is kind of a moot point anyway.

BTW, I agree with the rest of your post, and your other posts in this thread.

Taking back the boards

There are women in this business who are strong, BOLD, Passionate and good business women, we are outspoken, demanding and downright unfiltered at times, but this is us.. the women of Passion, We are the women of this business..we are good lovers, we have amazing minds, we know exactly what you need in and out of bed. We are here for you!

Can we cause drama, YES, can we douse it out when we want YES.. but we are the women that have been thru it all in this business.

We have been stood up, stalked, lied to, heard the wildest stories in the business, asked the funniest things, kept the most amazing secrets that you have told us, we have done the wildest things to you, Kissed on by drunks and fought off bare-backers and stinky men and we have done all this with a smile.

NOW, we are asking for our boards back….

What I mean is this..

When we ladies come on the boards, we want to talk, we really do want to post, but at the risk of getting flamed or made to look bad, most people on the boards will do what they can to make each other look bad.

To protect our reputation, we don’t post anymore, we are afraid to talk, to voice our opinions, to say what we really feel. Or even just to be silly sometimes.

Those of us that do speak up get labeled, shit stirrers, drama queens, board hi-jacker’s, bitches, and most likely get Rumors started around them to RUIN their reputation.

So ease up with each other, this is not a mind race. Nobody has to be smarter than anyone else, nobody has to one up anyone, or try to sound the funniest. Nothing can ever be cured on these boards, no one is going to save the world or even have the best advice, so relax.. let us post again.

Try HARD not to make us feel little, or insignificant or hurt our feelings.. we are your lovers, we are ladies we have feelings, most of us are tender and loving and all we really want to do is love you..Make love to you, Rock your worlds and be your mistresses.

Let us come back and post,,we need the COMMUNITY back in this business.

Peace and Kum-bi_ya my friends!

Just who took them away?

Seems like many gals understand how to play here..if you don't, learn!

And FWIW they were NEVER yours to begin with!  Any more than they were mine.

This is a game for most of us...if you need to chat with your gal pals there is a board specifically reserved for the Oprah show and your LIfetime Network drama.  Go there and the only flames you'll get are from your fellow hookers.  Deal with it, or not!

Since this isn't a game for you, conduct yourself accordingly.  And maybe you might want to spend a heck of a lot more time putting up ads and such so your phone is ringing and you get some appointments.  That way you'll have a lot less time to waste on the boards, and even be able to pay your rent on time!

I must say, with all due respect, your post sort of amazes me for several reasons.
1) "We are asking for our boards back."  Well, last time I looked these boards were primarily intended for clients to exchange info about providers, not the other way around (except for the PO Board).  After all, we are the ones who pay for membership and write the reviews.  The Boards are much better when smart, sexy providers are posting, too, and no one should be flamed, but given the nature of this business it will never be all sweetness and light...nor should it be.
2) The boards are actually somewhat more civilized since the recent changes.  Personally, I think it was better before, but everyone's entitled to their opinion.  I'm surprised you haven't noticed the change, that's all.  
3) There seem to be lots of ladies posting very regularly, including Julia, London and lots of others.  They seem to have no problem saying whatever they want and having fun with the give and take.  I'm not sure why you have a problem when they clearly don't.  It's all about how you conduct yourself.  If you are smart, funny, sexy and just tough enough, lots of guys will treat you with respect.

Thank you for being one of the GOOD GUYS.. Kisses

Good one Lina

I would like to smack him for EVERYTHING he said.. lol

But I expected rebuttal.. this is what the Haters do. when I WROTE THE POST, IT WAS FOR EXACTLY MEN LIKE HIM.

I am not afraid of what he says to me, but I know so many that are.. so this was for you ladies.. I hope to speak for you all..

Smack those bad boys!!

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it's not going to happen. There are people who just don't have it in them to be cordial and you won't change them or the aliases they use to do so. Everyone has a right to post here, all posts are welcome, so you should not let others intimidate you into being silent. If you want to post...post. If you are afraid of what someone on a hooker board thinks about you or what you have to say..don't be. Why? These are people you might meet or may never see. They are paying for a service or giving you references. That's where it ends. This is not real life, never will be so don't take it so personally.

Just as there are many bold and outspoken people, there are also overly sensitive cry babies who expect to have their ass kissed by people they don't even know. This is not "our" or "your" board. It belongs to TER Admin. We support it financially (some of us) and by posting to be funny or help others. It's a discussion board that takes all kinds, and that's never going to change. In fact, some might mock this thread just to do so.

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Your always welcome to post.  What you post will bring a response, it does for me and every other person (provider or Customer). That response can be a good, bad or indifferent message.  Your right you have gone through a lot so why is it a surprise if you get a few not so nice comments? The only thing about the change that I like is a moderators personality no longer gets in the way. IE no power trips.  But the boards are what we make them, it is up to each of use to contribute, or not but be ready for a different opinion.

And your reputation will follow as such. Don't be afraid to be flamed on and when that happens, argue it through.

I'm sure the gals with IQ's under 75 will thank you...

All the rest can speak for themselves...as is evident on this thread already.

Oh, and we can't forget about the fellas that agree with you as well...you certainly can speak for the guys who have no backbones.

What new name would you like to call this board?

Back in the OLDEN days, the likes of MP67, GAGAGAMBLER, LITTLE PlHIL, DRUNKENASIAN, ruled the board.

This board was designed to be a man cave. Right now, there is too much estrogen on the board. We need some testosterone back in here..

If anything, we need the good old days of Moderators back. Sure people got banned..They got warned. But it was fun and games.

This total takeover of the boards by ladies is nauseating...It feels like going to a girls night out...

And they still add NOTHING of value but drama and nonsense.

You can't teach a (very) old dog new tricks

if you think us women with all of our estrogen should be seen and not heard, why do you post on TER? Seriously...if you just want to get off, then do so and don't worry about what goes on here. We are not going anywhere so na na na boo boo!  You never struck me as the cry baby type, so I am actually surprised you posted that lol. I have had some fun banter with you, that I would like to continue.

I stand corrected on that one, Lina.  But the rest of the post stands.

And we certainly don't want to get the OP's panties (or some of the guy posters either) in a wad

Not likely my dear...

You should PM the OP and teach her how to be a good hooker...

Not a whiny one!

...the point Lina. Just want to point out that though providers can and many certainly do pay for a full VIP membership they do have to option of the free limited VIP that is for providers. It allows the full use of the PM system and allows you to see the full content of your reviews.

I don't say this to argue whether the OP is valid or not simply to point out that it's not necessary for providers to buy VIP.

I do agree with inicky that since the changes my perception is that there are more ladies on the boards now. Yes, they do get flamed from time to time but they aren't the only ones.

I agree with the OP that nothing will be solved here and that a lot of the drama is completely unnecessary.

Not when we have topics like this to discuss

The men that are hating on my thread seems to be exactly what I was referring to.. they just think they are cute..

Are once again proven that the Haters run the boards..sad that you all had to attack the thread and make it so vile.

Proves my point and I am sure alot of boards will never change because of this reason.

If only those fellas would come and join this party again.

And fellas bitching...come on.  We don't ever bitch...EVER.

And I'll have you know that I for one am NOT self-appointed...I earned all of my points

No one should change for another person period. I don't do on purpose to be a bitch, but when I see stupidity I can't help but call it out. When people post and contradict the very things they have said in the past, it paints them as a nut job and a hypocrite. Be consistent, be real, and don't give a flip what others have to say about it. All this "trying" to be someone you're not, is what the problem is. I have never had a problem with saying what I want and doing so under my hooker name. It has only cost me business from overly whiney guys anyway...cry me a river.

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Would you rather see the "where do you like my cum the best?" posts.

And the OP has yet to chime in...perhaps she is busy?

She said so...and a few others have agreed with her (mind you only a few...).

Too bad this wasn't put up about six months ago....

Isn't today "train wreck Tuesday?"

You are way too serious...

" After all, we are the ones who pay for membership and write the reviews. "

You guys do write reviews, but we gals pay for VIP membership no less if more than guys.

Guys can get free VIP by writing reviews , girls can't.

Consider yourself smacked!

Lina

there were certain guys who annoyed the crap out of me...I now find them to be funny as all get out. The same guys you call "haters" are the first who would be there when you were truly hurting. They post for commentary, but many have hearts they don't want you to see. I busted a few of them lol.

I am one of the "bold, outspoken" ones she was "referring to."

She's including ALL women in that paragraph  (herself included).

And then rants about how some folks are just not nice here...and hurt ALL the gals feelings.

But I am not a bigot...I have NO problems posting my thoughts to guys who are out there as well

And when someone posts something as ridiculous as this (the OP), to not expect that there may be some feedback is just naive.

The direction of this thread is JUST WHAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT.. Sigh

Then why are women even allowed on here?

And in your perfect world if women are permitted on here how would you see them interacting with the hardcore guys?  Give us something tangible to go with, not just "we need less estrogen".

Are you looking for women who are supplicants and submissive? Or even a list of subjects that you would prefer NOT discussed by the ladies.

Or would you prefer no women at all?

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who bitch and moan about too much estrogen.

People take this shit way too seriously.

Lina

and handles the boards just fine.  The OP should carefully read what the other women have posted here and learn from them instead of complaining so much.

And to be honest, i personally find these "women took over the boards" or "men took my boards from me" post to be melodramatic, childish and silly.

Lina

You can't have something back that you never had in the first place.

In case you hadn't noticed, this board does have some regular posters of the provider side and it is much more provider friendly then in the past. That includes when stupid idiotic posts are made.

Feel free to yap away.

Do providers like big cock?

Does it matter if I have small cock?

Does she really like me if she told me so?

Pussy must be free

Where can I get a sandwich?


I am sure I missed a few

From the amounts of emails and PM's that I have received, They all feel the same as I do.. Tired of people looking for the negative.

BTW..Thank you support for keeping the reputation damaging posts to a minimum.. this was only intended as an observation.   My thick skin can handle anything.

you intention for stating this is admirable, I don't think most are as thick skinned as we are!

Yes London, you and I are the bold outspoken ones!!  lol

They only want the ones who say what they want to hear even when it's bs, and those who kiss their ass. You know the type..always horny, always up for anything, always politically correct when deep inside it's only because they can't be bold and pull it off to still make money. I find it amusing how guys and gals who don't agree with certain posters are painted as "bad" lol. If you want peaches and roses, go find a Disney chat board. This is an ADULT and illegal lifestyle, not for the overly sensitive types. It also seems to be from ONE area that these whiney posters are coming from...all but 2 all have the same M.O. We are all here from different walks of life, different locations, and different cultures so trying to say we are all going to live in hooker board harmony at all times, is ludicrous!

If you are that sensitive, you don't belong here...period.

Hey Charlotte,

I will break down your post and respond to each section...